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Ya ya ya I know that **Permanent Deacons are married and Transitional ones are “transitioning” into the priesthood, but what else is different about them? **
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As you’ve noted, permanent versus transitional is the biggest difference. Another big difference is the nature of their parish assignments: permanent deacons are almost always assigned to their home parishes, while transitional deacons serve brief assignments in parishes of their bishops choosing as part of their seminary training. A handful of permanent deacons serve in full-time ministries (e.g. as chancery officials or heading diocesan ministries or agencies.) Occasionally permament deacons will receive parish assignments other than the parish they belonged to when they were ordained. For example, after my father retired from the Air Force (about a year after his ordination) we moved to a large, well-staffed parish, so our bishop asked him to serve in a small deaconless parish nearby.Ya ya ya I know that **Permanent Deacons are married and Transitional ones are “transitioning” into the priesthood, but what else is different about them? **
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Well, permanent deacons don’t have to be married! (But probably most are.)Ya ya ya I know that **Permanent Deacons are married and Transitional ones are “transitioning” into the priesthood, but what else is different about them? **
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In my experience, all too true, too sadly true.In the books, there is no difference whatsoever. “There is one Order of Deacon!” That’s what it says and that’s what they teach in diaconate formation. (And the books say, and they teach that we’re “clergy” too, but . . . well I’ll leave that for another post!)
In my Diocese and in many, many others as I have learned from other Deacon forums and groups, the reality, in practice, couldn’t be further from that! Where to begin? As a Deacon in the permanent state myself, I’ll refer to “us” and “them,” not in an effort to polarize even further, but just for brevity and clarity.
We are referred to as “Deacon ___________,” while they are referred to as “Reverend Mr. _____________.”
They wear the Roman collar and “clerics.” We dress like insurance salesmen, lawyers, or undertakers!
Its the alb for us, but cassock and surplice for them.
A major Diocesan Mass at the Cathedral or elsewhere? Better be sure to use one of those transitional Deacons on the altar and not one of those dedicated,ordained, faithful, lowly permanent Deacons.
If you do happen to assist, if there are any spoken parts and there’s a transitional Deacon there, he always gets them.
Deacons processing in together for a major Mass? Transitionals dress differently to clearly distinguish themselves as definitely NOT being a permanent Deacon.
Chair or tables to be moved? Get a couple of the permanent Deacons instead of the ones who are on their way to be priests.
Time to acknowledge those who are present and helped/participated? Visiting priest - check. Local presbyterate - check. Transitional Deacons - check. Seminarians - check. Organist/choir/cantor - check. The faithful - check. Those who decorated - check. Those who prepared meal - check. Permanent Deacons - nope! (Has happened more times than I care to remember.)
General Intercessions? Pray for vocations to the priesthood and consecrated life. (Never Permanent Diaconate.)
It’s also apparent how differently the two groups of the one type of Deacon (make any sense?) are treated by priests socially. The transitional are fawned all over and introduced to everyone in the room while the permanent Deacons are left to socialize among themselves.
Transitional Deacons have been invited to “priest-only” functions that permanent Deacons wouldn’t be allowed anywhere near.
Bottom Line: Don’t be fooled by what the books say, or by what is taught in diaconate formation prior to Ordination. Once you’re “in” and the assignments are made, the reality can be quite different!
Thanks for sharing your experience.In the books, there is no difference whatsoever. “There is one Order of Deacon!” That’s what it says and that’s what they teach in diaconate formation. (And the books say, and they teach that we’re “clergy” too, but . . . well I’ll leave that for another post!)
In my Diocese and in many, many others as I have learned from other Deacon forums and groups, the reality, in practice, couldn’t be further from that! Where to begin? As a Deacon in the permanent state myself, I’ll refer to “us” and “them,” not in an effort to polarize even further, but just for brevity and clarity.
We are referred to as “Deacon ___________,” while they are referred to as “Reverend Mr. _____________.”
They wear the Roman collar and “clerics.” We dress like insurance salesmen, lawyers, or undertakers!
Its the alb for us, but cassock and surplice for them.
A major Diocesan Mass at the Cathedral or elsewhere? Better be sure to use one of those transitional Deacons on the altar and not one of those dedicated,ordained, faithful, lowly permanent Deacons.
If you do happen to assist, if there are any spoken parts and there’s a transitional Deacon there, he always gets them.
Deacons processing in together for a major Mass? Transitionals dress differently to clearly distinguish themselves as definitely NOT being a permanent Deacon.
Chair or tables to be moved? Get a couple of the permanent Deacons instead of the ones who are on their way to be priests.
Time to acknowledge those who are present and helped/participated? Visiting priest - check. Local presbyterate - check. Transitional Deacons - check. Seminarians - check. Organist/choir/cantor - check. The faithful - check. Those who decorated - check. Those who prepared meal - check. Permanent Deacons - nope! (Has happened more times than I care to remember.)
General Intercessions? Pray for vocations to the priesthood and consecrated life. (Never Permanent Diaconate.)
It’s also apparent how differently the two groups of the one type of Deacon (make any sense?) are treated by priests socially. The transitional are fawned all over and introduced to everyone in the room while the permanent Deacons are left to socialize among themselves.
Transitional Deacons have been invited to “priest-only” functions that permanent Deacons wouldn’t be allowed anywhere near.
Bottom Line: Don’t be fooled by what the books say, or by what is taught in diaconate formation prior to Ordination. Once you’re “in” and the assignments are made, the reality can be quite different!
This sounds like the culture in your particular diocese. I don’t see this to be the case in my diocese. In particular, in my parish, we have been very happy to welcome a newly ordained deacon who is being shared between my parish and a neighboring parish. He is respected by our priest and parishioners, and our bulletin lists him as “Rev. Mr. XXXXXXXX”.In the books, there is no difference whatsoever. “There is one Order of Deacon!” That’s what it says and that’s what they teach in diaconate formation. (And the books say, and they teach that we’re “clergy” too, but . . . well I’ll leave that for another post!)
In my Diocese and in many, many others as I have learned from other Deacon forums and groups, the reality, in practice, couldn’t be further from that! Where to begin? As a Deacon in the permanent state myself, I’ll refer to “us” and “them,” not in an effort to polarize even further, but just for brevity and clarity.
We are referred to as “Deacon ___________,” while they are referred to as “Reverend Mr. _____________.”
They wear the Roman collar and “clerics.” We dress like insurance salesmen, lawyers, or undertakers!
Its the alb for us, but cassock and surplice for them.
A major Diocesan Mass at the Cathedral or elsewhere? Better be sure to use one of those transitional Deacons on the altar and not one of those dedicated,ordained, faithful, lowly permanent Deacons.
If you do happen to assist, if there are any spoken parts and there’s a transitional Deacon there, he always gets them.
Deacons processing in together for a major Mass? Transitionals dress differently to clearly distinguish themselves as definitely NOT being a permanent Deacon.
Chair or tables to be moved? Get a couple of the permanent Deacons instead of the ones who are on their way to be priests.
Time to acknowledge those who are present and helped/participated? Visiting priest - check. Local presbyterate - check. Transitional Deacons - check. Seminarians - check. Organist/choir/cantor - check. The faithful - check. Those who decorated - check. Those who prepared meal - check. Permanent Deacons - nope! (Has happened more times than I care to remember.)
General Intercessions? Pray for vocations to the priesthood and consecrated life. (Never Permanent Diaconate.)
It’s also apparent how differently the two groups of the one type of Deacon (make any sense?) are treated by priests socially. The transitional are fawned all over and introduced to everyone in the room while the permanent Deacons are left to socialize among themselves.
Transitional Deacons have been invited to “priest-only” functions that permanent Deacons wouldn’t be allowed anywhere near.
Bottom Line: Don’t be fooled by what the books say, or by what is taught in diaconate formation prior to Ordination. Once you’re “in” and the assignments are made, the reality can be quite different!
Your experience is certianly not the case in my diocese. Not only do ALL deacons vest the same for Mass, if they are serving with the Bishop, there is always permanent as well as transitional Deacons on the altar.In the books, there is no difference whatsoever. “There is one Order of Deacon!” That’s what it says and that’s what they teach in diaconate formation. (And the books say, and they teach that we’re “clergy” too, but . . . well I’ll leave that for another post!)
In my Diocese and in many, many others as I have learned from other Deacon forums and groups, the reality, in practice, couldn’t be further from that! Where to begin? As a Deacon in the permanent state myself, I’ll refer to “us” and “them,” not in an effort to polarize even further, but just for brevity and clarity.
We are referred to as “Deacon ___________,” while they are referred to as “Reverend Mr. _____________.”
They wear the Roman collar and “clerics.” We dress like insurance salesmen, lawyers, or undertakers!
Its the alb for us, but cassock and surplice for them.
A major Diocesan Mass at the Cathedral or elsewhere? Better be sure to use one of those transitional Deacons on the altar and not one of those dedicated,ordained, faithful, lowly permanent Deacons.
If you do happen to assist, if there are any spoken parts and there’s a transitional Deacon there, he always gets them.
Deacons processing in together for a major Mass? Transitionals dress differently to clearly distinguish themselves as definitely NOT being a permanent Deacon.
Chair or tables to be moved? Get a couple of the permanent Deacons instead of the ones who are on their way to be priests.
Time to acknowledge those who are present and helped/participated? Visiting priest - check. Local presbyterate - check. Transitional Deacons - check. Seminarians - check. Organist/choir/cantor - check. The faithful - check. Those who decorated - check. Those who prepared meal - check. Permanent Deacons - nope! (Has happened more times than I care to remember.)
General Intercessions? Pray for vocations to the priesthood and consecrated life. (Never Permanent Diaconate.)
It’s also apparent how differently the two groups of the one type of Deacon (make any sense?) are treated by priests socially. The transitional are fawned all over and introduced to everyone in the room while the permanent Deacons are left to socialize among themselves.
Transitional Deacons have been invited to “priest-only” functions that permanent Deacons wouldn’t be allowed anywhere near.
Bottom Line: Don’t be fooled by what the books say, or by what is taught in diaconate formation prior to Ordination. Once you’re “in” and the assignments are made, the reality can be quite different!
Well, in the Latin Rite, yes. In the East there is no difference. They vest the same, and since there is no celibacy rule for priest, any deacon can be ordained a priest.I think it’s worth saying that strictly speaking, there is NO fundamental difference between transitional deacons and permanent deacons.
However there is often a big difference in the way the Church utilizes and treats permanent deacons versus transitional deacons.
I would agree that it seems to be a diocesan practice. Here in Detroit, all Deacons are informally (spoken) referred to as “Deacon”, in writing or address, it’s “Rev Mr. —”This sounds like the culture in your particular diocese. I don’t see this to be the case in my diocese. In particular, in my parish, we have been very happy to welcome a newly ordained deacon who is being shared between my parish and a neighboring parish. He is respected by our priest and parishioners, and our bulletin lists him as “Rev. Mr. XXXXXXXX”.
Just be aware that the situation in your diocese does not hold true for all.
I must admitt that many of your characterizations are true, you do come off as a little bitter. Remember that the focus is and always should be on the priesthood. The Church can survive without PDs, She cannot survive without priests. No priests no Eucharist, no Eucharist no Christians…it’s that simple.In the books, there is no difference whatsoever. “There is one Order of Deacon!” That’s what it says and that’s what they teach in diaconate formation. (And the books say, and they teach that we’re “clergy” too, but . . . well I’ll leave that for another post!)
In my Diocese and in many, many others as I have learned from other Deacon forums and groups, the reality, in practice, couldn’t be further from that! Where to begin? As a Deacon in the permanent state myself, I’ll refer to “us” and “them,” not in an effort to polarize even further, but just for brevity and clarity.
We are referred to as “Deacon ___________,” while they are referred to as “Reverend Mr. _____________.”
They wear the Roman collar and “clerics.” We dress like insurance salesmen, lawyers, or undertakers!
Its the alb for us, but cassock and surplice for them.
A major Diocesan Mass at the Cathedral or elsewhere? Better be sure to use one of those transitional Deacons on the altar and not one of those dedicated,ordained, faithful, lowly permanent Deacons.
If you do happen to assist, if there are any spoken parts and there’s a transitional Deacon there, he always gets them.
Deacons processing in together for a major Mass? Transitionals dress differently to clearly distinguish themselves as definitely NOT being a permanent Deacon.
Chair or tables to be moved? Get a couple of the permanent Deacons instead of the ones who are on their way to be priests.
Time to acknowledge those who are present and helped/participated? Visiting priest - check. Local presbyterate - check. Transitional Deacons - check. Seminarians - check. Organist/choir/cantor - check. The faithful - check. Those who decorated - check. Those who prepared meal - check. Permanent Deacons - nope! (Has happened more times than I care to remember.)
General Intercessions? Pray for vocations to the priesthood and consecrated life. (Never Permanent Diaconate.)
It’s also apparent how differently the two groups of the one type of Deacon (make any sense?) are treated by priests socially. The transitional are fawned all over and introduced to everyone in the room while the permanent Deacons are left to socialize among themselves.
Transitional Deacons have been invited to “priest-only” functions that permanent Deacons wouldn’t be allowed anywhere near.
Bottom Line: Don’t be fooled by what the books say, or by what is taught in diaconate formation prior to Ordination. Once you’re “in” and the assignments are made, the reality can be quite different!
Not bitter, but disheartened by the difference from what we were taught and told in formation to the way many of my brother Deacons are treated in reality. The original post had nothing to do with where the focus should be, so your comment in that regard is a bit off-post. Nevertheless, I am an incredibly strong supporter of the Holy Priesthood. In fact, in my Holy Thursday homily I focused upon the importance of the priesthood and how invaluable they are to us.I must admitt that many of your characterizations are true, you do come off as a little bitter. Remember that the focus is and always should be on the priesthood. The Church can survive without PDs, She cannot survive without priests. No priests no Eucharist, no Eucharist no Christians…it’s that simple.
It is a little disheartning that there are seperate “rules” for different deacons. Clerical garb, titles, liturgical functions, ect., but the good PD is the one who is in the back ground making things happen to complete the duty imposed on us in canon 1752…this doesn’t happen on stage.![]()

Cannot disagree with you here…in time I guess. The permanent diaconate is “new” for the church in this age. We will have to do the best we can possibly do to show the diaconate as filled with the light of Christ, so that the next generation of PD’s have it better than us.Not bitter, but disheartened by the difference from what we were taught and told in formation to the way many of my brother Deacons are treated in reality. The original post had nothing to do with where the focus should be, so your comment in that regard is a bit off-post. Nevertheless, I am an incredibly strong supporter of the Holy Priesthood. In fact, in my Holy Thursday homily I focused upon the importance of the priesthood and how invaluable they are to us.
I simply wish that the ones who are negative towards deacons would take some time to come to know us. To learn that we desire only to assist them and not usurp any of their functions or position. We want to collaborate with them to fully live out our vocations and ordained nature. But in doing so, a little respect for the Office of Deacon (not me personally!) would be nice!
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Nope. They wear the stole the same way.I remember reading somewhere on this forum that permanent and transitional deacons wear their stoles differently. Is that so?