Actually vocations among men are on the rise. But they are not to the priesthood. The rate of men entering mendicant and moanstic orders is increasing exponetially. The rate of mendicant and moanstic orders of men being carved out of the older orders is also increasing. In my own Franciscan family we have at least 10 new branches of male Franciscans born since 1985.
- Franciscans of the Renewal
- Franciscans of the Primitive Observance
- Franciscans of the Immaculate
- Franciscan Brothers of Peace
- Franciscan Brothers of Penance
- Franciscan Brothers of Life
- Franciscan Missionaries of the Eternal Word
- Little Brothers of St. Francis
- Brothers of Charity
- Capuchins of the Primitive Observance
- Franciscans of the Holy Family
- Franciscan Brothers of the Eucharist
Of the above, only the Franciscan Missionaries of the Eternal Word are a clerical isntitute. The others are not. They either do not allow priests or keep the numbers of ordinations to a minimum to serve the needs of the community of friars.
The problem that most communities of women face has nothing to do with the ministry, but with obedience. Many people in today’s society view obedience as anachronistic. I believe that part of it is the fact that in the past, obedience in religious communities of women was inhumane. Male religious did not have as many problems with abuse of authority as women religious had. That left a bad taste in people’s mouths. The sisters were often subjected to exercises in authority that was beyond what is prudent or virtuous. Many of them exerted the same kind of authority over those whom they served, especially their students.
In communities of men the operative term was “a loving obedience”. Men were encouraged to love their superiors and their brothers and to obey out of love. Women were encouraged to submit their will.
The external effect is the same. If you love, you submit your will. But the internal attitude is different. Submission requires a denial of self-value. Love is just the opposite. One sees oneself as a gift and offers oneself as such.
The other issue today, is community life. Many people do not have a solid family life. The idea of living in a community where compromises are made, where one is called to love even the most difficult brother or sisters, and where one must place the good of the community over the good of the ministry is a source of conflict to many people. We live an a goal oriented society.
Many men and women are looking to religious life to DO SOMETHING. When you enter a religious community that tells you that what you do is not as important as what you are, this can be daunting. I know that among many candidates who present themselves to the Franciscan family this is a turn off. When we tell these young men, “You come to the Franciscans to be a brother, not to be a priest, not to be a teacher, social worker, nurse, counselor, etc. Alll those things you can be without being a Franciscan.” Many men are turned off. We have had many men who tell us, “I came because I want to be a Franciscan priest.” We tell them, “There is no such a thing. There are Franciscans that are allowed to be priests, but that’s up the community to decide, not up to you. Your bothers and your superior will vote on that as time passes and will decide if you have a call. You may certainly ask for it. But you are not guarranteed that it will happen, even if you are accepted for perpetual vows.” This discourages them.
The issue is that they are looking to do something. Religious communities are looking for men and women who have found an identity as a: Sister of Life, Dominican, Franciscan, Carmelite, Jesuit, Salesian and so forth.
But still, even with all this being said, there are still vocations to the mendicant and monastic life among men. Now we’re seeing many more among women too. I know that in my own family, the Poor Clares have reached 20,000 around the world and the entire Franciscan family (men and women) have reached 1.7 million around the world.
I think that the presence of the founder’s charism has made it easier for us. This may be lacking in some communities. I know some communities who sad to say, rarely talk about their founder and seem detached from him or her. I believe that what makes Franciscans, Missionaries of Charity, Dominicans, and Jesuits so numerous is that we have a romantic relationship with our founders.
You can’t walk into one of our houses without hearing the name: Francis, Mother Teresa, Dominic and Ignatius. Even though they are in heaven now, their sons and daughters constantly refer to them. It’s almost like the WWJD movement. This is “what would [insert name] do?”
As to age, there are communities that do take people who are middle age, if they are healthy. The concern that many communities have is with the length of the formation period. It takes about 10 years from the point of entry to the point of perpetual profession of vows. And it costs a lot of money, not to mention that the years of formation are very rigorous. For that reason, many communities have a cut-off at a lower age. But some communities will take older persons, especially if they have completed their college education. That cuts off several years of training.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF
