Thank you for your explanation.
So basically if I put it into a story, it is like this:
- God suddenly decides to create man. He decided from the start, the elect and non-elect, say by randomly separating them into categories.
- The elects are graced by God, and since it is irresistible, in the end they will choose God and thus be saved.
- The non-elects are not so graced, and since no grace, they will not choose God, in fact, they cannot possibly choose God since grace is not working in them (talking about total depravity).
(On both point 2 & 3, although the person has free will, because grace is irresistible the elect person will eventually “freely” choose God. While for the non-elect, because of total depravity, will “freely” never choose God, since depraved he can’t choose anything else. Which from Catholic point of view, makes us -at best- wonder, how free is this free-will).
So basically, the core is election (predestination). But in my mind, this makes other points redundant (such as the necessity of total depravity).
One can be not deprive but since he is non-elect, will not choose God.
On the other hand, if not deprave means graced by God, then the person should never problem with salvation.
Or, the non-depraved are exempt from election/non-election. They are left to their free will to choose/reject God. The grace part of TULIP works only for the depraved. Thus non-depraved are not triggered by grace to choose God.
Which makes me wonder, where does Adam and Eve before fall fit into this category?