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frangiuliano115
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Yes, well there’ll be no discussing this theologically because I see you are very personally involved.Christ’s death on the cross offers forgiveness of our sins - that’s not the same thing as cleaning up all those bad habits we made no effort to change during our life time.
I suppose I’m more aware of judgement than most because, as I’ve flogged to death on this site, I make the claim my own father turned up in my bedroom the night he died, way back in January 1979.
The final scene was him screaming his head off, and it was quite clear something was coming for him. Then he just vanished.
But suppose he’d made a deathbed confession as per the above.
I knew the man. He had a foul temper for a start, a sarcastic critical tongue, and was not averse to going behind our backs to do something nasty. I think I had a vision of my old pastor, who got to know a bit about him when he went to visit a former neighbour dying of cancer, remarking to one or more of his sons, “All this because of one cruel, stupid, bad-tempered vindictive man!” If they happen to be reading this, which they probably aren’t, they can correct me, but that is how he described him on third party evidence.
The former neighbour lived two doors away, so he knew what he was like.
What you’re saying is that not only is he going to be forgiven, but God would just wave a magic wand, and not only forgive him, but change his entire personality, so he no longer had a sarcastic tongue, a bad temper, or a manipulative personality.
In other words he would have become an agreeable heavenly puppet on a divine string, having made no effort whatsoever to clean up his act.
I don’t think so.
In the parable of the prodigal son, the Father might have been willing to forgive him. But the very next day, after the big party in heaven and all the angels had gotten over their hangovers, the Father would have expected him to go out in the field and join the morose elder brother doing the hard daily grind.
He expects some effort on our part. And we’re mistaken if we think we’re just going to waltz into heaven, not only with our sins forgiven, but all our failings corrected by some sort of deux ex machina.
I’ll tell you something I don’t like to speak about and have told maybe 3 people in my whole life. And I’m 70. It’s easy because we’re not vis a vis. Back in 1980 I was in Maine with my husband and two children 11 and 9 and also my young brother 15. To make a long story (which I don’t enjoy telling) very short, my brother and I heard something and it wasn’t any of us since the others were all fast asleep. We had to wake them up. My older brother saw something too, he was 26 at the time - but we can’t get into this.
I only bring it up to tell you that this has always bothered me because WHERE was the soul of this person if not in one of 3 places??? I try not to think about it.
Anyway, dying bed conversions are few and far between. Our heart grows hard, as the bible says, and it becomes ever so much more difficult to accept God.
I brought up Mathew 20, The Labourers in the Vineyard because they all got paid the same amount even though they started to work at different times of the day. This would be God’s justice - but we’ll dispense with that.
I agree that when the prodigal son woke up the next morning, he was required to go out and work or do what was required of him. This is a very good point which is never brought up with this parable.
But those “bad habits” you speak of, isn’t that our sins? Some people believe you have to get “good” first and then go to God, but we teach that you go to God and then you get “good”. If you are truly converted and believe that Jesus died for your sins you tend to want to be a good person and I believe that an internal change will occur. Otherwise, there’s something wrong.
What do you mean by deux ex machina? Do you believe Jesus was this?? I, for myself personally, have come to believe that it’s impossible for ANYONE to get into heaven unless they are depending on Christ to get them there. I know I don’t have to quote scripture verses to you. Our catholic church has also started teaching that we need to have a personal relationship with Jesus - just like the protestants.
Regarding your statement: “All this because of one cruel, stupid, bad-tempered vindictive man!” Yes. Much misery is caused by nature, some by ourselves and some by others. If only we all followed the 8 beatitudes!
So let’s go forward in confidence and trust that the Lord died for us and that he’ll save us and that we will one day be with Him. While doing our part!
God bless you
Fran