Eden,
The institution of marriage is sactified as an illustration of Christ and His Church. To forbid to marry is to symbolically relegate Christ and His Church as a meaningless relationship…
What the Church condemns as sinful is sexual activity that has been made deliberately sterile through artificial birth control. The sexual relationship between a husband and wife is an earthly image of the relationship that Christ and the Church share, and anything that deliberately distorts that relationship is sinful. The Church is considered the bride of Christ in the bible.
In (Eph 5: 31-32) the act of husband and wife is compared to the relationship of Christ and the Church or his bride.
It reads “ For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. This is a great mystery, but I speak in reference to Christ and the Church.” Jesus left His father and mother and became one flesh with his wife the church.
(This is the root of the teachings against divorce, adultery, and homosexuality as well.) Artificial birth control, by removing the procreative aspect of the sexual union, does indeed distort this image and is therefore sinful.
Furthermore, the marital act is a kind of spiritual and bodily embrace. It unites us as husband and wife, and we become one-flesh. One of the fundamentals of human sex is that we choose to respect each other’s dignity as human beings. Husbands should not be using wife’s as a mere means to his pleasure-seeking ends. This applies to the wife also. But in the use of contraception, you are suddenly severing that total giving of yourself to your spouse. Suddenly, the act which was open to God’s work (the potential to create life if God chooses to do so) becomes separateration from God; the use of the contraception creates sort of a barricade to God with a posted sign: “God is not allowed in our bedroom”. If the husband loves his wife totally as a human person then why not respect her natural fertility that God gave her. And same for the wives, respect what God has given you. And allow God back into the bedroom. NFP allows God back into the sexual act and it is the way God intended it to be, natural. Nature and God do not oppose.
If you or anyone else would like more on this topic feel free to start a thred.
By the way, if Jesus had married it would have been adultery to claim the Church as His bride. Paul, was celibate not by choice, but by necessity… as his former position with the Jews would have required him to be married, we can only assume that by some circumstance his wife left him (either by death, or as a result of his conversion).
Its funny how he had more than one passage talking about celibacy but you only responded to one of them. But read what he had to say in response about Paul I think he is more credible.
Also you stated all Churchs that have baptism by imersion are The True Church. I said but it is ok to not agree on the non esentals. Is this true is this what you believe?
Do you know how many denomintions believe in imersion, they all differ some where or another. That means all are wrong in at least one thing or another in what they teach. You really slhould think this over is this what Jesus left us?