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Thoughtfulone
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Sorry, but there is no way I am “deferring” to this nonsense.“Ranting”? Perhaps being a little more respectful of this Pope and Saint – and maybe even deferring to his wisdom – is in order?
Furthermore, do not fail to notice that the boy in the story died. There is little opportunity for the father to mend his ways with regard to his son’s spiritual guidance, so your assessment of the story’s purpose does not stand, I’m afraid.
And, again, I daresay that it is a bit bold to say “There is no way” that God would do or not do something simply because we find it personally distasteful. Unless you can demonstrate how it is **fundamentally impossible **for a five-year-old to commit mortal sin, you have to accept the possibility.
Peace,
Dante
I understand that the boy in the story died…I was speaking of the man’s other children although I think that the poster who said this was probably all hallucination by a feverish mind is probably correct.
As far as your theory that it is possible for a 7-year-old to commit a mortal sin, let us look at Kohlberg’s stages of moral development. Kohlberg was one of the most pre-eminent psychologists in his field and still is today. Keep in mind that a stage CANNOT be skipped over - one MUST progress from one to the next and so on, so even the most precocious child will have to go through ALL of the following stages before moral development is complete.
Kohlberg’s Stages of Moral Development
Although it has been questioned as to whether it applied equally to different genders and different cultures, Kohlberg’s (1973) stages of moral development is the most widely cited. It breaks our development of morality into three levels, each of which is divided further into two stages:
**Preconventional Level **(up to age nine):
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~Self Focused Morality
- Morality is defined as obeying rules and avoiding negative consequences. Children in this stage see rules set, typically by parents, as defining moral law.
- That which satisfies the child’s needs is seen as good and moral.
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~Other Focused Morality~
- Children begin to understand what is expected of them by their parents, teacher, etc. Morality is seen as achieving these expectations.
- Fulfilling obligations as well as following expectations are seen as moral law for children in this stage.
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~Higher Focused Morality~
- As adults, we begin to understand that people have different opinions about morality and that rules and laws vary from group to group and culture to culture. Morality is seen as upholding the values of your group or culture.
- Understanding your own personal beliefs allow adults to judge themselves and others based upon higher levels of morality. In this stage what is right and wrong is based upon the circumstances surrounding an action. Basics of morality are the foundation with independent thought playing an important role.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kohlberg’s_stages_of_moral_development
As you can see, the FINAL stage of moral development is based on loyalty to a higher power, or God and usually does not occur until well after one has reached adulthood. Even the most intelligent, independent, precocious 7 year old would never be able to understand this or make any real permanent decisions that rise to this level of morality. In other words, it is impossible for them to intentionally act against God with any real conception of what they are doing. Young children with a certain sanctity would have to be instilled with holiness by God Himself, but it could never work the other way. A child of this age is mentally and emotionally incapable of choosing hell.