What is wrong with this marriage?

[kage_ar]

I’m sorry to hear that you have condescended to such a level, Larry. Don’t take this personally, but I have never read a post on here quite so grotesque as yours was, however good-intentioned it was.

If you love your spouse you should will their good. That is far from good.

Regards.

Havemercy is correct - and is the word that comes to mind too!

Larry, I really suggest you pick up a copy of the Cathecism and give it a read.