DarkLight, the Ingalls family never had a “family farm.” You might be thinking of the television show, which was charming but total fiction.
Both Charles Ingalls and Caroline Quiner grew up in Wisconsin in a heavily-wooded area.
The Quiners and the Ingalls became friends over the years. There were at least two marriages, including Charles and Caroline.
In the Big Woods, the families lived in one-room log cabins that they built themselves. Their primary means of livelihood was hunting, fishing, and raising a small amount of crops. They had a few animals–a cow, horses, a dog, and cats to keep the mice down. They made use of the products that the woods provided–maple syrup, nuts, and berries, etc.
All of the families helped each other survive. The only thing that Pa and his friends sold (actually, they traded) was furs (pelts).
The Ingalls family decided to move to Kansas to try to start a farm, and made the long trip by covered wagon. They never did get a farm going, although they did manage to build a house. But after only a few years, the U.S. Government sent troops to move all the settlers out because they were trespassing on Indian land.
So the Ingalls family moved BACK to the Big Woods of Wisconsin to live with relatives (they had sold their little cabin). Then they embarked upon a series of moves throughout the Midwest–Burr Oak, Iowa, where Pa and Ma helped manage a hotel (and their young girls helped, too), and to Walnut Grove, where Pa also worked for others.
When the Homestead Act was passed, the Ingalls decided to file a claim and got a 160 acre tract of land in South Dakota, in a town called De Smet. They had five years to break sod and plant crops, and they tried with all their might to make a success out of farming. But both the Ingalls family, and Almanzo Wilder ended up moving away from their claims. Between locusts and hailstorms and prairie fires and years of crop failures, they just couldn’t make a living on a farm.
Charles and Caroline Ingalls moved to town (De Smet) and lived there until they died. Charles earned a living mainly through carpenter work and other odd jobs.
Laura and Almanzo eventually settled in the Ozarks in Missouri and bought a piece of land in the mountains which they named Rocky Ridge Farm. THIS was definitely a farm, but it was never profitable. Almanzo worked in the town of Mansfield for quite a few years, and so did Laura (as a bookkeeper), and they rented their farm to others. The main reason Laura started writing (for the Missouri Ruralist) was to earn extra money to pay bills. It wasn’t until she was in her 60s and was successful with the “Little House” books that the Wilders were finally able to pay off debts that had burdened them for decades!
The point is–they worked hard and relied on their own ingenuity to make a good life. With the exception of the Homestead Act land, they never accepted government aid. In fact, Rose Wilder Lane (Almanzo and Laura’s child) was so opposed to government aid and the Income Tax (she was a virulent Libertarian!) that she stopped working so that she wouldn’t have an income to tax!