Exactly. Now I’m not saying that if one does not accept tradition in the Church that they aren’t personally accepting people; a lot of people in fact aren’t aware of Catholic traditions and if they learned about them as they are would be inclined to accept them too.
Unfortunately a lot of people over the last 50 years have been taught about Catholic teachings and traditions with so much ‘baggage’ and so much slant, misinformation, disinformation, etc., that they just do a Pavlovian slobber when they hear those hateful words like “Veils”, “TLM”, “Latin”, “May crowning”, etc. They simply cannot tear away the emotionalism that was forced upon them when they learned at their mother’s knee how she rejoiced at being freed from that hideous symbol of male authority, the headcovering, and how no real woman should EVER have that inflicted on her again. Kids learn more from the parents than one realizes, especially from body language and emotionalism. The look of disgust on mom’s face when showing family pictures with that "ugly’ Hat covering up her beautiful hair, etc. are going to set up sympathetic vibrations in the daughter hearing and seeing her. And that’s just headcoverings. So many other traditions have been sneered at, mocked, reviled, and of course retconned into “pathetic opium spectacles for the women who have been deprived of any power or say in the church anyway”. Yeesh.
I really don’t wonder why so many Catholic Churches are seeing such steep declines. There is often such an atmosphere of self-loathing, and too many of the ‘novelties’ that were brought in are either done better by the Protestants or simply are viewed as cynically by remaining Catholics. if “OUR” older traditions were so useless, why bother with these new things? See them once or twice, discard them, give us something NEW! I feel sorry for people who find something they like that is newer in the Church because odds are, it won’t stay any more than the older traditions did!!!
Well, except for 70s and 80s hymns, but music is a little different here. Music itself is emotional and there are a lot of ties to the ‘glory year’ music. Look, even I, classical music lover that I am, tap my toes when I hear “Dancing Queen” so I know that something doesn’t actually have to be Mozart to have that emotional appeal due to all sorts of factors outside the music and lyrics themselves.