The decision to become Catholic when not a cradle Catholic stikes a chord in me that really motivates me. People go through all kinds of study, reflection, prayer, cold shoulders from friends and family, yet still choose to walk closer to Christ than they were previously. It really reminds me of those guys who left their father and lives to follow Him. Very powerful.
A statement I’ve found to hold true:
People leave the Catholic Church because of some kind of event in their lives, or a dislike of something in the Church. People join the Catholic Church because they are seeking the fullness of Truth.
If the difference isn’t too clear, people don’t leave the Church because they find the fullness of Truth elsewhere.
I think this is a good observation (though I should not admit this).
I am a former Cradle Catholic.
I could share with you TRUTH about my departure from the Catholic Church and make it sound like my case totally refutes what you say.
I could share with you TRUTH about my departure from the Catholic Church and make it sound like my case supports what you say.
Let me share.
I left the Catholic Church WITHOUT a concept of what I had before I left. I was part of a “Catholic Community.” I have had strong Catholics point to the self-appellation, “Catholic Community” as a sign of a liberal wish-washy parish. I have fond memories of my former parish, my parents are still members, and the priest is a wonderful God-fearing man. But, the uniqueness of Catholicism was not something that shown through. I can remember thinking that others didn’t take their Catholicism as seriously as I did, but I truly believe there is evidence of the “beam in my eye” when I said this. Surely I still have a beam. So some of my lack of appreciations for my Catholicism is surely my fault, and some if it is probably the fault of less that wonderful catechesis.
So, I left that which I did not appreciate as much as I even do now.
After a little exploration of Protestant churches, I found myself attending mass some and the local CoJCoLDS some. I had no idea that to partake of the Eucharist after missing the previous week was a problem or … Eventually I became committed to the CoJCoLDS and was baptized. I mentioned my “logical pillar” conversion earlier in this thread.
As a LDS I drank deeply of all the intellectual STUFF I could find. I looked at arguments for and arguments against the CoJCoLDS. The belief that Joseph couldn’t do it and the devil wouldn’t do it was absolute through all of this UNTIL…
A Protestant friend of mine offered a reason why the devil MIGHT do it (never seemed likely, but no longer was this pillar an absolute for me).
There were some personal Spiritual things that occurred during this time. But, I have always believed that God gave me my intellect and I should use it to seek Him. So, I became very interested in determining what Catholicism had to recommend it. I learned that there was much more to Catholicism than I had any concept of during my time identifying as a Catholic.
That being said, my weighing of the evidence still leaves me as a LDS. I think the truth claims I embrace as a LDS better explain all the evidence I see. My main focus of study has been the early church 100-400 or so & LDS history. I find critics explanations for the Book of Mormon to be wanting and as such the best explanations for it by far is supernatural. I find the simplistic explanations of Peter passing keys to Linus, Cletus, and Clement to be quite wanting too.
Anyway, I think it fair to say that I left to find greater truth. I have followed my intellect every step of the way. That being said, I do not believe I would have given non-Catholic truth claims enough room to grow had I known what I had.
The best response to this post IMO is to commit to loving and catechizing those in your parish. I was loved but not catechized (this being at least partially my own fault). I have heard stories of those who are not loved within their Catholic parish. Some parishes have a hard time taking their hearts and minds off of the Blessed Sacrament to love those who do not KNOW Christ is there. Other parishes may have bigger problems than this, but those other problems are not unique Catholic problems and occur in parishes and wards and …
Charity, TOm