I am not going to disagree with you here.
But I have seen a lot of people post here who wish they could go to an Orthodox church and receive communion. Now the Orthodox are very strict about this, no Orthodox person may receive if he has any disagreement with Orthodox doctrine. (In fact, if the person does disagree with Orthodox doctrine, he or she is not really Orthodox.)
It goes without saying then, that any non-Orthodox will be expected to comply as well, and the only way for us to know for sure is for a person to be Chrismated after renouncing any errors taught by their former church. So in fact the person is not a non-Orthodox… we are right back where we started, only communing with the Orthodox.
The Zoghby Initiative is an attempt to find a middle ground, which I admire immensely. But it is not really viable, there has been too much water passed under that bridge. We are, if anything, further apart theologically than we were in the 9th century. This despite the fact that we are getting along together one hell of a lot better now.
So you might say that the only way to intercommunion is for Orthodox to abandon their peculiarities and submit 100% to Latin theology (and the Papal dogmas). I might say that the only way to intercommunion is for Papal Catholics to abandon their peculiarities and submit 100% to Orthodox theology.
I wish things could be different, but that’s just how it is

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There is no middle way.