I don’t know about most parishes, but the ones around here will
give you a Bible, no charge. All the priest I know wouldn’t blink twice if you asked for one.
My person list of musts:
- A Catholic Bible
- A crucifix
*** The Baltimore Catechism**
- Holy water
The nice to haves
- Rosary and/or other chaplets (Franciscan Crown, Seven Dolors, et cetera)
- Scapulars (I’m partial to the black scapular of Our Lady of Sorrows)
- Religious statues (partial to Marian statues, St Michael, the Good Shepard, and Pieta)
- The Catechism of the Catholic Church
- Other religious artwork (Divine Mercy, Sacred Heart, Immaculate Heart, Holy Family, various Icons)
- Holy Cards
Some will disagree about a Rosary being a nice to have, but as a devotional item it is only useful if you have a devotion to the Blessed Mother. I know plenty of Catholics that own a rosary; just don’t ask them where it is.
I also suggest the Baltimore Catechism over the current only because it is easier to digest with its question and answer format. The Baltimore Catechism was used to explain the faith to US children for decades where as we use the current catechism in graduate level studies. Both have their value but the new version can be daunting if one is not already well grounded in the faith.
Two items I think should be owned that I don’t list above is a St Benedict medal and Miraculous medal. Like a Rosary these aren’t magic charms and must be used devoutly. Because of the indulgences attached I think everyone should have them, but I would place them between should and nice to have items.