What The United Methodist Church really teaches about gay marriage

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Indeed.

Heck, before too long the reverse inconsistency may become commonplace (or not-too-uncommon anyhow). That is to say, self-proclaimed conservative Christians who harshly condemn any sex outside of marriage, but have no problem with “gay sex” within “gay marriage” … and, likewise, who harshly condemn divorce/remarriage.
I actually think that’s a more coherent position. If it became common, I might (solely as a matter of my own private judgment, and leaving the Church’s authority out of it) be more likely to accept the idea of gender-neutral marriage.

Edwin
 
Terms like “liberal” and “conservative” derive from the political arena, and my preference is that people not apply them to religion (though I lapse into using them myself 🙂 ) The political arena uses liberal and conservative to describe pragmatic strategies.

Christianity relies on revealed truth. “Gay union” isn’t something to be liberal or conservative about. It is not a gray area, where different interpretations are plausibly Christian, nor is it something that could not have been considered before, like the Internet. It is a total break with scripture and tradition of Catholic, Protestant, Eastern Orthodox Christianity.

Putting a label like “conservative” on religious opposition to gay unions, or abortion, is coming from the secular media. Within Christianity some things are orthodox; some other things are optional, doubtful, or discretionary; and still other things are clearly unorthodox.
Sorry, but I completely disagree. I think that the attitude you describe is mistaken and extremely harmful.

The Christian community is a “political” community, in the sense that it is an ordered community with norms and patterns of common life (see Aristotle) regarding which it is possible to disagree, just as in any other community.

“Conservative” and “liberal” are relative terms, and we need such terms to describe disagreements about what is and is not orthodox. You may of course think that there are no legitimate disagreements about that–that any person of good will can know with certainty what is and is not orthodox. But that is to take an extremely conservative position, whether you want to call it that or not.

Edwin
 
I actually think that’s a more coherent position.
But not every idea that is coherent is Christian.

As for the words conservative and liberal, I can’t see any reason that you would need to justify using them (but I’ll give you my “blessing” if that helps you :cool:).
 
“Conservative” and “liberal” are relative terms, and we need such terms to describe disagreements about what is and is not orthodox. You may of course think that there are no legitimate disagreements about that–that any person of good will can know with certainty what is and is not orthodox. But that is to take an extremely conservative position, whether you want to call it that or not.
Edwin
Catholic, Eastern Orthodox, and until recently all Protestantism, traditionally taught that some things are discretionary, but that absolute truth does exist, permanently, not something **we **invent to fit the current culture. Even the secular culture held to that position, at least prior to the 20th century and the development of Communism and Nazism. Those regimes taught that the truth is not something that we discover, but something we redefine to fit our current needs.

The Catholic Church adapts its pastoral response to fit the needs of this particular time, or this particular place. But some truths predate the Church, such as marriage between a man and a woman, and sanctity of life: both affected by the Natural Law, Truth which the Church found, not an adaptation by us to a particular culture.

Wesley disagreed with some Catholic or Anglican developments, but he was fully in agreement with the absolute truth they both had inherited in the Natural Law. Wesley emphasized details of dogma less than other reformers, but he clearly believed in universal absolute truth, we all are called to live in accordance with, rather than something each individual chooses for themselves. He allowed freedom in discretionary matters.

Some Methodists object to eternal truths being pushed out of the permanent, over into the discretionary category, then voted on, along with other New Business. (Acceptance of abortion on demand, or same sex marriage). Suppose they hold a vote on the godhead in 2026, to see what new definition would fit the current culture. Will those who want to cling to “the Trinity” be labelled as the conservative faction?
 
United Methodists are not of one mind regarding homosexuality and gay marriage. We understand that faithful people can have differing views on this. Some members, based on their understanding of scripture, feel strongly that the church should uphold its current laws regarding same gender marriage. Others feel just as strongly that the church should be fully inclusive, based on their understanding of scripture, including marriage equality. These different viewpoints are mirrored across most of the Christian world to varying degrees.

umc.org/what-we-believe/what-does-the-united-methodist-church-say-about-same-sex-marriage
 
Well, The United Methodist Church, like John Wesley, has concerns about social justice. Gender-selective abortion is denounced by the UMC. They “affirm the principle of responsible parenthood. The family, in its varying forms, constitutes the primary focus of love, acceptance, and nurture, bringing fulfillment to parents and child.” I will note that the denomination does affirm the right to safe contraceptives, so the position is not like the Catholic one.

The UMC was part of the Religious Coalition for Reproductive Choice (a pro-choice group) before the May 2016 General Conference, where the denomination withdrew from it, so that indicates a pro-life motion. In cases where the health of the mother or child is in danger, “we believe the path of mature Christian judgment may indicate the advisability of abortion.”

The most telltale statement is this:

Of course, as with many denominations today (even the Catholic Church), there are some members or groups (e.g., Catholics for Choice, which was excommunicated) trying to introduce more pro-whatever stances. Hillary Clinton is a United Methodist, for example. However, as I’ve said, the decision of the 2016 General Conference may, hopefully, be pointing more towards a pro-life stance in the future.
It’s important to note that the Church’s statements on social issues, such as abortion, represent the effort of the General Conference to speak to human issues in the contemporary world from a sound biblical and theological foundation. They are intended to be instructive and persuasive, but they are not church law and are not binding on members. Members will hold differing views on abortion. There is no requirement for members to agree with the Church’s view.

umc.org/what-we-believe/what-is-the-united-methodist-position-on-abortion
 
Catholics for Choice, is NOT a Catholic organization! The Church has NOTHING to do with it and they shouldn’t even be using the name Catholic. There is only One, Holy, Catholic and Apostolic Church, any one else that is not in truth with it is NOT a part of it. God Bless, Memaw
Actually according to Catholic teaching they are Catholics and are part of it.

“The Church no longer recognizes that someone can formally defect from the Church. Once baptized Catholic the individual is always considered Catholic.”

forums.catholic-questions.org/showpost.php?p=13411600&postcount=2
 
United Methodists are not of one mind regarding homosexuality and gay marriage. We understand that faithful people can have differing views on this. Some members, based on their understanding of scripture, feel strongly that the church should uphold its current laws regarding same gender marriage. Others feel just as strongly that the church should be fully inclusive, based on their understanding of scripture, including marriage equality. These different viewpoints are mirrored across most of the Christian world to varying degrees.

umc.org/what-we-believe/what-does-the-united-methodist-church-say-about-same-sex-marriage
There is something that really urks me about this statement. It’s as if whoever wrote it was embarrassed or ashamed that they had to state their own church’s doctrines, so they opted to bury it in a useless discussion of denominational politics.

Only two lines actually address Methodist teaching. The rest mainly states peripheral issues. Let me paraphrase: “Methodists are divided. Some of us like the current teaching and others hate it; we could change it at the next General Conference so keep your fingers crossed . . . blah blah blah.”

If you really want to know what the UMC officially teaches, skip the public relations website and read from the actual Book of Discipline. Emphasis added:

¶ 304.3 Qualifications for Ordination

While persons set apart by the Church for ordained ministry are subject to all the frailties of the human condition and the pressures of society, they are required to maintain the highest standards of holy living in the world. The practice of homosexuality is incompatible with Christian teaching. Therefore self-avowed practicing homosexuals1 are not to be certified as candidates, ordained as ministers, or appointed to serve in The United Methodist Church.2
  1. “Self-avowed practicing homosexual” is understood to mean that a person openly acknowledges to a bishop, district superintendent, district committee of ordained ministry, board of ordained ministry, or clergy session that the person is a practicing homosexual. See Judicial Council Decisions 702, 708, 722, 725, 764, 844, 984, 1020
  2. See Judicial Council Decisions 984, 985, 1027, 1028
 
There is something that really urks me about this statement. It’s as if whoever wrote it was embarrassed or ashamed that they had to state their own church’s doctrines, so they opted to bury it in a useless discussion of denominational politics.

Only two lines actually address Methodist teaching. The rest mainly states peripheral issues. Let me paraphrase: “Methodists are divided. Some of us like the current teaching and others hate it; we could change it at the next General Conference so keep your fingers crossed . . . blah blah blah.”

If you really want to know what the UMC officially teaches, skip the public relations website and read from the actual Book of Discipline. Emphasis added:

¶ 304.3 Qualifications for Ordination

While persons set apart by the Church for ordained ministry are subject to all the frailties of the human condition and the pressures of society, they are required to maintain the highest standards of holy living in the world. The practice of homosexuality is incompatible with Christian teaching. Therefore self-avowed practicing homosexuals1 are not to be certified as candidates, ordained as ministers, or appointed to serve in The United Methodist Church.2
  1. “Self-avowed practicing homosexual” is understood to mean that a person openly acknowledges to a bishop, district superintendent, district committee of ordained ministry, board of ordained ministry, or clergy session that the person is a practicing homosexual. See Judicial Council Decisions 702, 708, 722, 725, 764, 844, 984, 1020
  2. See Judicial Council Decisions 984, 985, 1027, 1028
The only question I would ask is, does the UMC hold the same stance w.r.t. persons who are sexually immoral is other ways (e.g. fornication, divorce/remarriage, or heterosexual sodomy)?
 
United Methodists are not of one mind regarding homosexuality and gay marriage.
****Methodists ****are not of one mind regarding homosexuality and gay marriage.

****Methodism ****is of one mind regarding homosexuality and gay marriage.

It used to be that when people stopped believing in much of their religious tradition, they would break off and start something new, honest enough to use a new name (Mormons, Jehovah’s Witnesses, so many others) rather than the name of the tradition they came from. Today, dissenters network with the media and universities. They form a movement with no plan to evangelize anyone, but to “convert” the existing denomination, ******with the familiar brand name in place. ****** They don’t start seminaries, they gradually modify existing ones.

Each national meeting of the denomination is framed as a “liberal vs conservative” battle. The agenda originating with secular media and academia gets reframed as “this is a biblical justice response”. At each meeting the secularists demand their view be accepted by the denomination only as an option, but at a later meeting it will be demanded as the only option.

So called “conservatives” are pushed into a defensive posture, make no progress whatever towards evangelism or engaging or impacting the secular culture, but spend their time and money trying to defend whatever part of the Creed is under attack this year. Eventually “conservatives” get discouraged, drop out, and it gets easier to push the secularist agenda the next year.

But no matter how much they change the denomination, they won’t give up the brand name. No matter how much they copy-and-paste their agenda from the secular media, it will always be packaged as Biblical Justice Response.
 
The only question I would ask is, does the UMC hold the same stance w.r.t. persons who are sexually immoral is other ways (e.g. fornication, divorce/remarriage, or heterosexual sodomy)?
Homosexuality is different from fornication or divorce, etc. because it is seen by many people to be not just an action but an integral and normal part of some people’s sexuality.
 
It used to be that when people stopped believing in much of their religious tradition, they would break off and start something new, honest enough to use a new name (Mormons, Jehovah’s Witnesses, so many others) rather than the name of the tradition they came from.
That’s not exactly true. Baptists, for example, split during the Civil War over the issue of slavery to become Southern and Northern (i.e. American) Baptists.
 
Homosexuality is different from fornication or divorce, etc. because it is seen by many people to be not just an action but an integral and normal part of some people’s sexuality.
That’s another discussion (which I don’t run away from either – see my earlier post:
Indeed.

Heck, before too long the reverse inconsistency may become commonplace (or not-too-uncommon anyhow). That is to say, self-proclaimed conservative Christians who harshly condemn any sex outside of marriage, but have no problem with “gay sex” within “gay marriage” … and, likewise, who harshly condemn divorce/remarriage.
). Nevertheless, for those like myself who maintain that homosexual acts are sinful, my point remains: we need to also condemn those forms of immorality (e.g. divorce and remarriage) that heterosexual Christians are more likely to be tempted to.

If a denomination (and I’m naming no names) harshly condemns homosexual acts but countenances, say, fornication, then that’s a problem.
 
The only question I would ask is, does the UMC hold the same stance w.r.t. persons who are sexually immoral is other ways (e.g. fornication, divorce/remarriage, or heterosexual sodomy)?
Historically, they did.
IV. Divorce.
¶ 39. No divorce, except for adultery, shall be regarded by the Church as lawful; and no Minister shall solemnize marriage in any case where there is a divorced wife or husband living; but this rule shall not be applied to the innocent party to a divorce for the cause of adultery, nor to divorced parties seeking to be reunited in marriage.
By the 1940s, other causes, such as mental or physical cruelty, were introduced as lawful reasons for divorce, but ministers were still prohibited from solemnizing marriages that did not meet those requirements.

By 1960, any divorced person could essentially be remarried after the pastor had judged that after counseling the person understands the factors that lead to the failure of their first marriage, the person is prepared to make the new marriage a Christian marriage, and enough time had passed between the original and the new marriage to receive adequate counseling.

By 1984, the UMC believed that divorce was regrettable but sometimes unavoidable and that divorced people had the right to remarry.

You appear to be arguing that conservative Methodists are engaging in a double standard? Perhaps. Yet, who is really to blame? There has been a long process of Protestant denominations caving in to societal expectations when it comes to marriage and divorce. This was supported by the liberal wings of the churches. The process continues. Now, though, Protestants are being pressured by external and internal forces to cave in on affirmation of homosexuality. Should conservatives fight to return their churches to biblical doctrine on divorce, fornication, etc.? Yes, they should. Is it realistic to think they can do it all at once? No. Conservatives in the UMC have a chance to preserve biblical teaching on the heterosexual nature of marriage, but trying to turn back the clock completely is not realistic at this point.
 
You appear to be arguing that conservative Methodists are engaging in a double standard? Perhaps. Yet, who is really to blame? There has been a long process of Protestant denominations caving in to societal expectations when it comes to marriage and divorce. This was supported by the liberal wings of the churches. The process continues. Now, though, Protestants are being pressured by external and internal forces to cave in on affirmation of homosexuality. Should conservatives fight to return their churches to biblical doctrine on divorce, fornication, etc.? Yes, they should. Is it realistic to think they can do it all at once? No. Conservatives in the UMC have a chance to preserve biblical teaching on the heterosexual nature of marriage, but trying to turn back the clock completely is not realistic at this point.
I agree, especially the bolded. Christians in all denominations who seek to restore orthodoxy need the prayers of us all. You are right, we have to fight for small, reachable victories now, without surrendering the need to restore the fullness of orthodoxy when possible. In the Catholic Church, I have seen some bishops denounced by “conservatives” for not solving all the mistakes of the past 50 years in their first year in office.

Orthodox Christians need to support each other across denominational lines. There may come a point when a given denomination is past the “tipping point”; realistically the foes of orthodoxy are so entrenched, the push away from orthodoxy, and embrace of questionable or evil things is unstoppable, from a human standpoint. The prudent action is to move to another denomination. I don’t know if the UMC is at that point but some others are.
 
Historically, they did.

By the 1940s, other causes, such as mental or physical cruelty, were introduced as lawful reasons for divorce, but ministers were still prohibited from solemnizing marriages that did not meet those requirements.

By 1960, any divorced person could essentially be remarried after the pastor had judged that after counseling the person understands the factors that lead to the failure of their first marriage, the person is prepared to make the new marriage a Christian marriage, and enough time had passed between the original and the new marriage to receive adequate counseling.

By 1984, the UMC believed that divorce was regrettable but sometimes unavoidable and that divorced people had the right to remarry.

You appear to be arguing that conservative Methodists are engaging in a double standard?
I don’t really know enough about them to say that they do or that they don’t, but based on the preceding paragraphs and other info that I’ve gotten from this thread, I wonder if they do or at least if a portion of the UMC does.
 
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