If I were you, I would attend the Traditional Latin Mass, at least once, if only just to see how Catholics worshiped before the “reforms” of the Novus Ordo.
I prefer the Extraordinary Form (TLM) Mass, and am doing my best to convert those I know to attend it.
Also, if you actually read the documents of Vatican II, you will see that the things you see today weren’t necessarily called for by the Council.
Things like girl altar servers weren’t called for, receiving in the hand of the Eucharist was not called for, versus populum (facing the people) was not called for, and the Mass was only to have certain parts in the vernacular language, with the preservation of Latin and Gregorian Chant highly preferred and recommended!
Trishie:
Reception on the tongue is the
normal way of receiving the Eucharist. The option for reception on the hand only exists as an indult/special permission is given by the Vatican.
Redemptionis Sacramentum (it’s a document calling for greater liturgical scrutiny, released in 2004, I think) calls for the use of the paten. It’s to safeguard any Particle of the Host from falling on the ground.
It can be found here:
adoremus.org/RedemptionisSacramentum.html
Also,
[93.] The Communion-plate for the Communion of the faithful should be retained, so as to avoid the danger of the sacred host or some fragment of it falling.
Also, the chalice is not required to be offered in the Novus Ordo Mass. It exists, like so many other things, as an option.
Also, while I have never witnessed one myself, I have heard that the Novus Ordo Mass, when celebrated according to the rubrics, looks and sounds an awful lot like the Traditional Latin Mass.