hope:
Your post on your Liturgy reminded me of my daughters parish. It is very small. There is only one Mass on Sunday. They arrive at 900 or before for the 9:15ish Mass. Afterwards they share coffee, juice and donuts. They are very welcoming. Her parish sounds very much like yours that it made me wonder if the reason was the size? In the 5o’'s, I never attended a Mass like it. Could the reason be the size? Maybe it is because the same people come to the same mass all the time? I have contemplated this at times because of her parish. I love attending there when I visit. It is a four hour drive so I couldn’t go every week.
No, it’s because at TLM parishes, everyone is there for one very specific reason, and to a greater or lesser extent, their entire lives are counter-cultural. Larger families, more homeschoolers, various conservative and traditional lifestyles and life philosophies (Second Amendment, disaster preparedness — which has been
totally vindicated by this CV crisis! — some people live on family farms, considerably right-of-center politics, and so on), a greater consciousness of modesty and decorum in dress, the list goes on. Those who prefer the TLM often see themselves as guardians of an ancient tradition which, if not for their efforts, would die out, never to be seen again.
More simply put, it tends to be an archconservative bastion in which many values and attitudes are from an era that most have left behind — “Catholicism as we once knew it”. It can be likened to people who seek to preserve traditional musical genres — “roots” country, bluegrass, and so on — or who seek to preserve historic architectural districts as opposed to bulldozing them to build something new and modern.