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JamesCaruso
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Well, we can always find a needle in a haystack if we look hard enough, but as a general principle the Pope is right. As for what the priest in your particular example should do, it depends on a lot of things. If his parish is an inner city ghetto, the message would be more important than in an affluent suburban community. It also depends on how much people know about each other in any particular community. In a small town everyone would know the particular circumstances overnight. I don’t mean to diminish the points you made, but you should not diminish the importance of sending the right message either. Sentimental value? I’d guess the crucifix she wore around her neck had far greater sentimental value than her car. Why he would have to spend more money to trade in a barely used Mercedes for a barely used Ford, is beyond me. Yes, it’s less reliable, and also many times cheaper to repair. If reliability as between a Mercedes and a Ford were a chief criteria, then maybe we should all save up for a Mercedes, but I think the cost of replacement and the cost of repair would soon put that thought to rest.If you were a priest and chose to do that, great. But here’s a real example. The mother of one of the priests in my parents’ parish died. He inherited an older (but hardly ever driven) Mercedes. He could have traded it in for a Chevy. But he would have had to spend more money, ended up with a less reliable car and given up something that had sentimental value to him. Should he have done so just to give** the appearance **of a more humble vehicle? I don’t think so. I think the “message” that anyone infers can be one consideration but it shouldn’t override all other considerations, including common sense.
I see you boldfaced appearances. Appearances are trivial in some situations, but not in this one. In some professions appearances are of paramount importance. A CPA for example is held to a high standard of independence, avoiding even the appearance of conflict of interest. For the priesthood, I’d say the importance of the appearance of humility is of medium importance, but still important.