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iluvmybabies
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Let’s say your spouse is not feeling well one morning…But you know he and you both have responsibilities so you remind him of them right…Right…
So he snaps at you, tells you in very unkind words to be quiet and close your mouth because he’s not feeling well and because he just told you off you get upset and raise your voice and remind him that you both have responsibilities and that even when you are sick most of the time you too go to work…And right there and then your kids show up so you stop with the screaming and go to work…
So the morning starts sour…You go to work in a horrible mood, then check the bank statement and notice several transactions in one causing the bank to be negative, and then another transaction in another one of something you didn’t even know about…So you call your hubby right, and you ask him hey what’s going on…He apologizes for the morning issue so you forgive but now mention about something that is going on with the BANK so he freaks out and is like “WELL IT’S SUPPOSED TO BE FREE!!!” So you ask more info on the subject and he explains he took a trial offer on something and it’s FREE for the first 15 days…but you just looked at the banks and it is not FREE!! So you remind him you are staring right in it and it’s not free!! So he tells you I will call them and find out, so you hang up the phone on him because he was careless enough to do something without consulting you, and on top of that didn’t verify the facts involved with this “free limited time offer” so you end up negative in a bank account and charged in another one…
He calls you back and tells you he took care of the problem…
You snap at him because you can’t believe that he even did that to begin with, and how in the world could he do something without you even knowing…keeping your voice down because you are at work and obviously unwillingly and unpurposely wasting those few valuable minutes talking to him about the mistake he just made!! All the while he is trying to explain to you that it was a mistake, the company’s mistake for charging and that the negative items will not be going through that they will cancel it and that the other one will take 5 business days for refund and that they will give him 30 days free now!!! You tell him you will see him for lunch and hang up…
He shows up for lunch and is in a terrible mood, he looks horrible too and he asks you to touch his forehead…So you do. And he feels boiling hot…Based on the fact that he is sitting infront of the heater, but you don’t pay attention to that just show concern and support and offer him some pills to help him with his headache and high temperature…
So you are driving to go get the food and something for him to drink when you bring it up again, “you do realize that was really dumb what you did right and that I can’t believe you actually did something without consulting me that included money that right now we don’t have?!”
H: “I told you I took care of it drop it all ready!”
“Well you realize though that if I wouldn’t have checked the bank accounts and found out about them we would have had 3 negative over draft charges of 35 dollars each and we would owe the bank a lot of money?!”
H: “Yeah but I took care of it so what!!”
“Uhm do you not understand?”
H: “WHAT!! Will you just shut the f up all ready and leave me alone for a moment!! I can’t believe you won’t even stop!!”
So you raise your voice and tell him what you feel and he raises his and tells you what he feels and you both go at it until you get the food, and then start talking again and he jumps at you and tells you “Either you shut the f up right now or I will be the one that hammers your head in!!”
And you just freeze and can’t believe he just told you this? And you look at him and ask him what?
Then he tells you “well all you ever do is nag, what the hell is your problem I am not feeling well leave me alone, give me a minute and then start b!tch!ng again but not right now I told you since I woke up I didn’t feel well, so just give me a break! I always take care of you when you are sick why can’t you just leave me alone for a bit…”
So you snap again and yell at him explaining how you still go to work most of the time that you are sick and how he didn’t take care of you the past couple of weeks when you were sick that you had to call the day off, etc, and then again he repeats what he said and you tell him to stop threatening you and he tells you it’s a promise…
When all you were trying to do is make a point that what he did was wrong and immature and all you wanted was an apology about it, instead he tells you this???
What would you do…My bff just called me crying about the whole situation, she told me she knows he’s sick and that he might have bronchitis and that is a terrible illness but does that give him enough excuse to tell her something like that?
It kind of goes back to that post about his wife throwing 2 pillows but this wasn’t just said to anyone or out to the world or to the wall it was said to her personally…I didn’t know what to tell her so I told her I would ask a few people and see what they would advice…
I told her he needed confession badly and to remind him to go tomorrow if he’s feeling better at least enough to talk to her you know? I am sure he didn’t mean it and that his head must have been hurting really bad with the fever and all but still to do or say something like that because his woman was nagging? How many hubbys don’t have a nagging wife once in a while? And vise versa?!
She told me she was at my house, we share keys, and that she was going to stay there till I came home and we talk about it but I don’t have anything else to tell her right now?!
So he snaps at you, tells you in very unkind words to be quiet and close your mouth because he’s not feeling well and because he just told you off you get upset and raise your voice and remind him that you both have responsibilities and that even when you are sick most of the time you too go to work…And right there and then your kids show up so you stop with the screaming and go to work…
So the morning starts sour…You go to work in a horrible mood, then check the bank statement and notice several transactions in one causing the bank to be negative, and then another transaction in another one of something you didn’t even know about…So you call your hubby right, and you ask him hey what’s going on…He apologizes for the morning issue so you forgive but now mention about something that is going on with the BANK so he freaks out and is like “WELL IT’S SUPPOSED TO BE FREE!!!” So you ask more info on the subject and he explains he took a trial offer on something and it’s FREE for the first 15 days…but you just looked at the banks and it is not FREE!! So you remind him you are staring right in it and it’s not free!! So he tells you I will call them and find out, so you hang up the phone on him because he was careless enough to do something without consulting you, and on top of that didn’t verify the facts involved with this “free limited time offer” so you end up negative in a bank account and charged in another one…
He calls you back and tells you he took care of the problem…
You snap at him because you can’t believe that he even did that to begin with, and how in the world could he do something without you even knowing…keeping your voice down because you are at work and obviously unwillingly and unpurposely wasting those few valuable minutes talking to him about the mistake he just made!! All the while he is trying to explain to you that it was a mistake, the company’s mistake for charging and that the negative items will not be going through that they will cancel it and that the other one will take 5 business days for refund and that they will give him 30 days free now!!! You tell him you will see him for lunch and hang up…
He shows up for lunch and is in a terrible mood, he looks horrible too and he asks you to touch his forehead…So you do. And he feels boiling hot…Based on the fact that he is sitting infront of the heater, but you don’t pay attention to that just show concern and support and offer him some pills to help him with his headache and high temperature…
So you are driving to go get the food and something for him to drink when you bring it up again, “you do realize that was really dumb what you did right and that I can’t believe you actually did something without consulting me that included money that right now we don’t have?!”
H: “I told you I took care of it drop it all ready!”
“Well you realize though that if I wouldn’t have checked the bank accounts and found out about them we would have had 3 negative over draft charges of 35 dollars each and we would owe the bank a lot of money?!”
H: “Yeah but I took care of it so what!!”
“Uhm do you not understand?”
H: “WHAT!! Will you just shut the f up all ready and leave me alone for a moment!! I can’t believe you won’t even stop!!”
So you raise your voice and tell him what you feel and he raises his and tells you what he feels and you both go at it until you get the food, and then start talking again and he jumps at you and tells you “Either you shut the f up right now or I will be the one that hammers your head in!!”
And you just freeze and can’t believe he just told you this? And you look at him and ask him what?
Then he tells you “well all you ever do is nag, what the hell is your problem I am not feeling well leave me alone, give me a minute and then start b!tch!ng again but not right now I told you since I woke up I didn’t feel well, so just give me a break! I always take care of you when you are sick why can’t you just leave me alone for a bit…”
So you snap again and yell at him explaining how you still go to work most of the time that you are sick and how he didn’t take care of you the past couple of weeks when you were sick that you had to call the day off, etc, and then again he repeats what he said and you tell him to stop threatening you and he tells you it’s a promise…
When all you were trying to do is make a point that what he did was wrong and immature and all you wanted was an apology about it, instead he tells you this???
What would you do…My bff just called me crying about the whole situation, she told me she knows he’s sick and that he might have bronchitis and that is a terrible illness but does that give him enough excuse to tell her something like that?
It kind of goes back to that post about his wife throwing 2 pillows but this wasn’t just said to anyone or out to the world or to the wall it was said to her personally…I didn’t know what to tell her so I told her I would ask a few people and see what they would advice…
I told her he needed confession badly and to remind him to go tomorrow if he’s feeling better at least enough to talk to her you know? I am sure he didn’t mean it and that his head must have been hurting really bad with the fever and all but still to do or say something like that because his woman was nagging? How many hubbys don’t have a nagging wife once in a while? And vise versa?!
She told me she was at my house, we share keys, and that she was going to stay there till I came home and we talk about it but I don’t have anything else to tell her right now?!
