Here again, a totally uncalled for sarcastic remark.
San Judas, I’ll tell you why I’m on here. I came on the thread titled “Traditional” innocently enough because I thought it would be educational. I had been away many, many years and finally came home. Now my husband is getting ready to start RCIA. and I thought it might be interesting for him.
It was a mistake. I was shocked. I finally jumped into the fray because I felt the NO and people who attend it were being attacked. I have absolutely no problem with those who prefer the TLM, but I personally felt after reading a lot of posts that many of you who prefer the TLM look down on those who prefer the NO. And it seemed when NO people tried to say that yes, there were abuses, but the NO itself was not the problem, they were dogpiled. This forum doesn’t seem to be as much about the preference for the TLM as it is a condemnation of the NO.
Granted, there are abuses. Apparently in some parts of the country “many abuses”. But that is not the fault of the NO. That is the fault of “people.”
I apologize to the few people on here who seem to have a respect for both forms.
I prefer the NO. That does not make me a second-class Catholic and that’s what I have been made to feel.
I have never, ever implied that I thought anyone on here was a sedevacantist.
Perhaps an NO person came on here to learn something about the TLM because they are interested in it. It wouldn’t be a welcome introduction. It would be almost the same as if my husband had gone to the “Inquiry” class and they had dumped all over him for his “inadequate” protestant background and told him he was a “second-class” Christian and how wrong he had been. You might think that but why on God’s earth would you say that? That is not the way Catholics welcome people into the Church.
You say this is a subforum about traditional practices and liturgy. No…it isn’t. It’s just a place for TLM and NO people to hurt each other. I tried to reach out tonight. I will no longer participate in this. It’s an embarrasment. I will tell my husband to look elsewhere for additional information.