First, I want to make sure that all people reading this know that there is help available for suicidal feelings. Here are some resources that may prove helpful to anyone who feels tempted to harm himself:
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Second, the answers in these links should explain the difference between grave matter and mortal sin as it pertains to suicide. If you have any further questions or concerns that are not answered by these links, please contact Catholic Answers directly.
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