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Aquinas74
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Is that by it’s definition a schismatic act?
Personally, because they are just having bread and wine, I refuse, it seems a mockery of our Eucharist.From a Catholic perspective.Isn’t the Bread and Wine(grape juice at most Protestant churches) considered to be exactly that…just bread and wine? Protestants say they are eating bread and and drinking wine in remembrance anyways. Nobody is trying to even pretend like there is more to it.
What am I supposed to do when I visit my families church from now on?I don’t always know when they have communion and can’t imagine just refusing it. They already think I am sort of crazy for becoming Catholic. It would seem rude.
You should not be participating in worship services with non-Catholics. By doing so you are validating their beliefs and dogmas which are contrary to the Catholic Faith.What am I supposed to do when I visit my families church from now on?
You are a Catholic, now. Nobody is seriously expecting you to attend non-Catholic churches, in the first place. You are supposed to be going to Mass on Sundays, anyway.What am I supposed to do when I visit my families church from now on?![]()
You should not worry about “seeming rude,” or whether they think you are crazy or not, when your immortal soul is at stake. The best way to avoid the situation is not to go to non-Catholic services at all - that way, you won’t feel like you are being put on the spot.I don’t always know when they have communion and can’t imagine just refusing it. They already think I am sort of crazy for becoming Catholic. It would seem rude.
It could certainly be construed as such, but it is not an excommunicable offence.Is that by it’s definition a schismatic act?
Respectfully decline, as they should when they go to your services. When we visit my mom’s Lutheren sister and her family that’s what I have to do even though they say I am welcome to participate.What am I supposed to do when I visit my families church from now on?I don’t always know when they have communion and can’t imagine just refusing it. They already think I am sort of crazy for becoming Catholic. It would seem rude.
Oh,I missed that quote.Thanks in advance:thumbsup:It could certainly be construed as such, but it is not an excommunicable offence.
It is grave matter, however, and must be confessed in the Confessional to a priest, in order to be absolved of it.
You keep citing this but it is not in force now. Catholics are allowed to go to such assemblies, but not receive communion.You should not be participating in worship services with non-Catholics. By doing so you are validating their beliefs and dogmas which are contrary to the Catholic Faith.
Pope Pius XI, Mortalium Animos (# 10), Jan. 6, 1928: “So, Venerable Brethren, it is clear why this Apostolic See has never allowed its subjects to take part in the assemblies of non-Catholics: for the union of Christians can only be promoted by promoting the return to the one true Church of Christ of those who are separated from it…”
Thomas
My sisters, two of whom are no longer practicing Catholics, from time to time will attend Mass with my parents and/or me, but not receive."When we visit my mom’s Lutheren sister and her family "
Yeah,but i am talking about my Mother,Father,and Sisters. Not my Moms “Lutheran sister” and such.I don’t mind saying no to a distant relative.
My husband comes from a family of Baptists, in fact, Baptist ministers and it changes nothing…we go to Mass when we are back visiting and on the occassion we go to their service, we respectfully say no to communion."When we visit my mom’s Lutheren sister and her family "
Yeah,but i am talking about my Mother,Father,and Sisters. Not my Moms “Lutheran sister” and such.I don’t mind saying no to a distant relative.
We are not to make a habit of attending non-Catholic services of worship, though, and if one were to err, it would be better to err on the side of too much strictness.You keep citing this but it is not in force now. Catholics are allowed to go to such assemblies, but not receive communion.
Why would you think it rude? Would you also feel it rude of them if they refused Holy Communion at a Catholic Mass?From a Catholic perspective.Isn’t the Bread and Wine(grape juice at most Protestant churches) considered to be exactly that…just bread and wine? Protestants say they are eating bread and and drinking wine in remembrance anyways. Nobody is trying to even pretend like there is more to it.
What am I supposed to do when I visit my families church from now on?I don’t always know when they have communion and can’t imagine just refusing it. They already think I am sort of crazy for becoming Catholic. It would seem rude.
This is not really the case–of course, I definitely agree that it is better to err on strictness:We are not to make a habit of attending non-Catholic services of worship, though, and if one were to err, it would be better to err on the side of too much strictness.
We are also forbidden to actively participate in any way in these services, which precludes not only the reception of Holy Communion, but also any joining in of prayers, singing, or recitations.