When am I obligated to attend Mass?

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To preface this, I have a neurological condition that causes me severe issues with sensory processing. Because of that, an environment that seems quiet and calm to others might seem to me like the equivalent of a carnival fair. Loud. Bright. Chaotic. It’s very painful and overwhelming. Most Sundays I can go to Mass (though it’s uncomfortable), but sometimes certain circumstances wear down my energy, and I’m more susceptible to sensory overload. A small illness, for example, like I’m getting over now. A normal person wouldn’t hesitate about going to Mass in this situation. I feel alright physically. But I know that if I go this Sunday, the sensory problem is going to be more painful than usual. It can feel like I’m dying at times. How do I know whether I’m obligated to go to Mass? It always hurts at least a little. At what point does my pain become enough to justify skipping?
 
One who is ill is not obligated to go to Mass.

You may want to work with a priest. Quite often early in the morning masses are less attended and quieter.

Either way, if you are not well–due to a physical illness or a neurological condition–you are not obligated.
 
I’m sorry to hear you have to bear such a heavy cross. ❤️

You will likely get many answers here covering the full gamut of replies, including what I’m about to tell you:

Ask your pastor. Honestly, he is there to help you with questions like these and can offer you both comfort and assurance.
 
This is something to discuss with your pastor, who can advise you authoritatively and dispense you.

Keep in mind that Sunday Mass should be the most important hour of our week, but God does not expect the impossible of us.
 
I’m sure its a little easier at my parish, because its part of a Franciscan Friary, and there are over a dozen priests in residence, but because of your situation, a priest may be willing to come to your home on Sundays and say a mass for you at home…Ask…its worth a shot.

Prayers for you.
 
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I’m sure its a little easier at my parish, because its part of a Franciscan Friary, and there are over a dozen priests in residence, but because of your situation, a priest may be willing to come to your home on Sundays and say a mass for you at home…Ask…its worth a shot.

Prayers for you.
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Uhhh yeah…

…that’s totally not normal…and unless cleared by the dioceses probably skirts Cannon law regarding sacred spaces being preferred for the sacrifice of Mass. Bringing Communion without Mass is considered the norm although there seems not to be a reason a priest could not have the liturgy of the word and distribute already Consecrated Eucharast at that point.
 
Home masses were once common place, and of course the original venue of the Christian liturgy…but the rationale of needing a sacred place might be a stretch…because none of the gun mounts or torpedoes that served as altars when my ships sailed were ever close to being sacred…for Mass, it on my takes a priest, bread and wine, and a crucifix, and I’m not sure about the crucifix…i would be interested in the reference for the Code of Canon Law you speak of…because I’ve been wrong before!
 
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Home masses were once common place, and of course the original venue of the Christian liturgy…but the rationale of needing a sacred place might be a stretch…because none of the gun mounts or torpedoes that served as altars when my ships sailed were ever close to being sacred…for Mass, it on my takes a priest, bread and wine, and a crucifix, and I’m not sure about the crucifix…i would be interested in the reference for the Code of Canon Law you speak of…because I’ve been wrong before!
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Basically, the way many today read Cannon Law is that a Bishop has full control over any Mass said in his dioceses, public or private. Technically all that is needed is the priest, a Mass kit and one faithful person. The Bishop is not to exert control over a Priest’s God-given ability to say Mass. However, he does have a right to ensuring that the Masses are said correctly in his dioceses. That’s the “technical” side. The preferred space for Mass is in a Sacred space–ie a Church. So to have a ministry of private home Masses a priest would need explicit permission from the pastor of the area (likely granted in your case since the Franciscans held the parish) and from the Bishop. This is why a priests must contact the dioceses before doing a “Beach Mass” or “Mountiantop Mass” even in their own Dioceses. It’s out of the norm.

Now, it could be that the Bishop found this ministry wholly meritous and would have been completely permissible for him to give the order the blanket permission to say home Masses knowing that the priests were well-trained and took every care to perform Masses correctly.

However, it would be a VERY special case that wouldn’t necessarily extend to the ministry of most priests and parishes, even ones that had an excessive number of priests.
 
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I’ve different but severe medical issues. My rule of thumb is that if I would go to work or go shopping, I go to Mass.
 
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