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Regina7
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We had a “service.” He just said he couldn’t read the funeral rites (I think that’s what he called it).I am so sorry to hear about your daughter. It seems that rituals are so important at this time. A funeral is more than praying for a soul. It is also commending the body back to the earth. I wonder why the priest framed the ritual in the way he did. Is this typical?
It seemed like a funeral to me, but some of the priest’s prayers were missing I believe. I honestly don’t remember the specifics, but I know Father said we couldn’t have an actual funeral as our daughter didn’t need it. I was in so much grief that I never questioned it. But it certainly makes sense to me.
God won’t cast out his babies. Even an unbaptised child won’t be cast out of heaven. Mom and Dad will have to answer to God about that, but a child incapable of even requesting baptism will not be punished.