"When Forgiving Your Ex-Spouse Seems Impossible" --from a Divorced Person

[mdgspencer]

see catholicmatch.com/institute/2016/11/when-forgiving-your-ex-spouse-seems-impossible-video/
“I have heard many people who have been divorced adamantly state they will never forgive their ex-spouses, that it is impossible for them. But, if there’s one hard lesson I’ve learned in the years I worked to heal from my very unwanted divorce, it is there is no healing without forgiveness.”

 

[phil_at_dayboro]

What does help is years later,when your life has actually improved tenfold since they left,

 

[Clevus]

That would be in keeping with the compounding processes that follow through this act. The devil hates anyone mending after he’s gone through the success of persuading the couple to separate. The primary purpose of any temptation is to separate humans.

A divorce is simply an error. Tear it up and book a candlelight dinner and start mending. Have a re-marriage if a priest says that’s OK. Dare to be audacious and do the ‘impossible’. This time the couple should take control.

 

[holyrood]

The devil hates anyone mending after he’s gone through the success of persuading the couple to separate. …

A divorce is simply an error. Tear it up and book a candlelight dinner and start mending. Have a re-marriage if a priest says that’s OK. Dare to be audacious and do the ‘impossible’. This time the couple should take control.

That’s a very broad statement. Some divorces may be an error. Some are absolutely necessary for the protection of one party from the other’s doings.