Sorry if this is in the wrong forum… I’m new here. Also, new to Catholicism so please excuse my lack of knowledge of vocab.
Anyway, I understand that before seating yourself and before leaving your pew you should genuflect to the tabernacle. However, what if I got o church to light a candle or for confession, not for mass?
For instance, the candles are in the back right of the nave and the tabernacle is in the front left. If I just go in to light a candle do I genuflect? If so when and where?
Please understand that this is not an “exact science” so answers are going to be general.
I would say that the acceptable thing to do is to genuflect at least once while you are in the “same room” as the tabernacle. Depending on such things as, where you walk in the room, whether or not you enter a pew to stay for some time, and where the tabernacle is located, you might end up genuflecting more than once. In a certain sense, genuflecting is similar to saying, “Excuse me,” when you come into the presence of, leave the presence of, or cause some disruption in the business of someone you consider to be of higher social status than yourself.
If you enter the building directly into the narthex and and never leave the narthex you might not need to genuflect at all.
In the case where the tabernacle is located in the nave of the church and you enter the nave, it is customary to genuflect once prior to entering a pew, and once upon leaving the pew. If this is for Mass (or some other communal activity) then you do not genuflect during Mass because anything you do during that activity is “scripted” already.
If you are there for a private reason then the “rule” is that you genuflect on entering and leaving the pew if you are staying for a while. But if during the course of that visit you should get up and walk directly in front of the tabernacle (other than to enter or leave) then you make an additional genuflection while making that crossing. If you enter the nave and never actually enter a pew then the “rule” is that you genuflect at least once but possibly more than once if while walking around the nave you cross directly in front of the tabernacle on multiple occasions.
Now that I have probably completely confused you…
During a private visit, you can’t go wrong if you genuflect each time you enter and exit a pew. But if your visit does not include entering a pew then you can genuflect at least once while entering the nave and once again while leaving after concluding your business. If you enter the nave and simply walk right back out again (perhaps you are looking for someone) then a single genuflection at some point would be sufficient. If during the course of a private visit, you temporarily leave the pew and walk directly in front of the tabernacle, then it is customary to genuflect at that point.
When going to confession it is usual that people take a seat in a pew, pray for a while, get up and confess their sins, then take a seat again to pray. Unless one passes directly in front of the tabernacle while going to and from the pew to the confessional it would only be necessary to genuflect while first entering the pew and eventually leaving the pew to exit the church. But there would be no harm done if the person were to genuflect each time the pew is entered and exited.