A branch from this thread:
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=634924&page=4
In response to rhiannonh but of course all are welcome to weigh in.

If you want to see what I am responding to just visit the original thread but I think the question stands on it’s own fairly well…
If you know something to be true… do you allow those in your care to think contrary to that truth?
For example. Would you allow your niece to believe that the earth is protected by a giant glass bowl? If she were to voice this belief to you would you correct her or would you let her go on with her incorrect thinking?
The Catholic Church is like our mother. She instructs us. She guides us. She corrects our misinformed ideas. She contains the fullness of truth.
We can think all we want but she has truth.
If we want to think that God is female that’s fine but the Church WILL tell us we’re wrong. Period. She is not afraid to do so and it is, in fact, her duty to correct us.
So then seeing things from this angle… what is wrong with authority? What is wrong with those who have been trusted with our care correcting us when we go astray?
Ideas CAN hurt. If we think the wrong things, if we foster unhealthy ideas about God and His church that could potentially damage us spiritually quite a bit AND it can make us targets for the ‘false shepherds’ that Jesus warns us about in Scripture. The Church knows this and so she corrects us when we fall into error.
Does that make sense?