If I may reply to some of these instead of Joseph (Rawb), I’d like to answer your questions. It’s rather early in his place of the world anyway.
Rawb - What does it mean “we desire Peter to return to his originial role”?
Do Orthodox believe that Jesus selected Peter to be the leader of His Church?
Do Orthodox believe that Jesus wanted only one Church?
thanks!
St. Peter’s role was that of presiding in love, much like the role of the Ecumenical Patriarch in our Church today. He did not define dogma, nor did he ordain all the bishops. When he was corrected at the Council of Jerusalem, he submitted to the council, as opposed to the council submitting to him. Christ only founded one Church and we Orthodox believe we are that Church.
Would this include attending church on Sunday?
Is it correct to say that Orthodox attend church on Sunday in a desire to be Christlike but not because it is stated in the Ten Commandments to keep the sabbath holy?
We gather on Sunday because that is what the Church has given us to commemorate the Holy Resurrection. In Orthodoxy, it is called “the eighth day” because in many ways it is outside of time. It is both the beginning and the end.
That is really nice to be so close with your Spiritual Fathers.
What type of training do they go through to become a Spiritual Father - is it similar to a seminary for Catholic priests?
Spiritual father is sort of a catch all term. A spiritual father is more analogous to the RC spiritual director. In Orthodoxy, he can be a priest, bishop, deacon, monk, or pious layman. More often than not, they are a clergyman or monastic (or monastic that is clergy). As for our priests and deacons, it is not mandatory that they go to seminary in order to be ordained. The seminary system is actually a western creation that some Orthodox have adopted.
That doesn’t mean it’s bad, but it is not required for one to be ordained. A bishop can educate a young man on his own and ordain him without a seminary degree. Some bishops, however, prefer seminary because of the formation that occurs there, i.e. living in community with fellow strugglers, etc.
So it is possible for a Spiritual Father to make a decision for each family/couple/person as an individual and not hold fast to strict teaching on matters of birth control etc. That is very interesting and it gives me great insight to the Orthodox.
He is bound by the teachings of the Church, but can grant ekonomia (in RC terms, a dispensation) for a grave reason. I can’t imagine an Orthodox priest allowing a married couple to use contraception just because they felt like it. Most priests and monastics I know would suggest the couple practice abstinence for a period, rather than jumping right into a type of contraception (which would have to be non-abortifacent). It has been regarded as a pastoral issue.
Actually, studies have shown that couples who practice birth control have higher divorce rates than those who do not or those who practice nfp.
Good point - can an Orthodox receive dispensation to marry a non-Christian or is that a matter up to the couple anyway that would not involve the Spiritual Father?
An Orthodox is supposed to marry another Orthodox and a dispensation from one’s bishop may be granted to permit one to marry a Heterodox Christian (albeit, they would still have to be Trinitarian), but they could not marry a non-Christian (Jew, Muslim, Mormon, Hindu).
Honestly, the blessings came from trusting God and doing His will despite my doubt.
If any one was counseling us they would have probably told us not have anymore children.
I can’t imagine an Orthodox priest telling someone not to have more children (unless they were having them out of wedlock). Children are a great blessing.
This is why I have never felt comfortable around my Orthodox friend and her friends. They speak Arabic in front of others and always bring up their way of doing things as better.
Many anti-Catholic comments. Funny, I always thought we had much in common but she hammered home the idea that we were wrong and she was right.
Which is why I am asking these questions. NEVER in my life did any Catholic speak against the Orthodox or did my parents tell me the differences so that I would have carried that into my friendships. She was seriously prepped.
It really appears to be a dividing line between the different Orthodox sects(?).
It is as if you have to find the ethnic group you fit it in with the best then choose your church that way, if you were not born into it.
The Orthodox are united by a common faith and practices, though practices and rites can vary from location to location. About ethnic groupings, you’ll find the same thing in the RCC. We Orthodox have not had the blessing of being around as long in the US as your church has. We still need to teach our faithful to shake off their ethno-centrism. There are still “Hispanic churches” or “Polish churches” or “Italian churches” in the RCC, even within America. My church is in the Bulgarian diocese and I have never felt left out or like I wasn’t a real member of the parish.
In Christ,
Andrew