Where Have All The Apostates And Anti-Mormons Gone?

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Thanks, but you yourself said that on top of a full-time job, LDS men are expected to give 30 hours a week to church callings. That is almost as much time as I had to put in. So it is true that Mormonism considers church work more important than family.

The talk of LDS “family values” is just that - talk. Mormon families are merely a commodity to be used by the leadership.
Paul,

I think this is a great point. I’ve known so many families of leaders have messed up families and I can’t help but think their calling as Stake Presidents and Bishops couldn’t have helped matters.

What kind of message is: have lots of kids, no excuses, and if you are called to a time consuming calling, well, it is a calling from God after all.
 
Again, you limit God. He has to be somewhere that can fit our human limitations. I can see how it is necessary for you, as you believe that your god is human.

Catholics are fine with not knowing. We don’t attempt to limit God to a particular place or time. What is important to us is becoming holy, in order that we can share in God’s glory.

You did not answer, why it is important to you to have this question answered.
Because my church answers it and yours does not even ask. I have said this to you several times now.
 
Thanks, but you yourself said that on top of a full-time job, LDS men are expected to give 30 hours a week to church callings. That is almost as much time as I had to put in. So it is true that Mormonism considers church work more important than family.

The talk of LDS “family values” is just that - talk. Mormon families are merely a commodity to be used by the leadership.
Not so and you know it. 30 hours a week would be for a high leadership position like bishop or higher. And they are not “expected” to give 30 hours, they are expected to do the best they can putting their families first. We come to earth to learn how to prioritize and handle responsibility. We are taught again and again that FAMILY IS FIRST CHURCH IS SECOND.

I am very sorry about what happened to you, but IF your marriage fell apart because you were putting in so much time at church, which frankly I doubt, (there are always other issues) it is because you were not following the above rule.

Family and God always come before church. And usually work comes first because without income, there is no family. You know that.

If one’s job keeps them from church, there is no problem. If one’s family responsibilities keep them from church, there’s no problem

so what you have said is a gross distortion.

Besides it is a common sense thing. Who would lose their family over someone else’s expectations? The calling was obviously not inspired if this is truly what happened. And you were clearly not inspired to accept the call.
 
Again, you limit God. He has to be somewhere that can fit our human limitations. I can see how it is necessary for you, as you believe that your god is human.

Catholics are fine with not knowing. We don’t attempt to limit God to a particular place or time. What is important to us is becoming holy, in order that we can share in God’s glory.

You did not answer, why it is important to you to have this question answered.
Because I want to know all I can about God.

If you don’t, you are fine where you are. We all seek our own level. I suspect this is why you left the Mormon church. I don’t know how you can be “fine” without knowing ANYTHING about anything. I am curious by nature and want to learn all that there is to learn about everything.
 
No matter how many words that you put down, no matter how much you squirm and try to explain your false religion, it still comes down to one fact that everyone except poor duped mormons can agree on. You and your false religion are wrong. No justifications on your part will suffice, mormonism wars against God, mormonism denies Christ, mormonism is the instrument of Satan and those in it’s clutches will be saved only by the mercy of God. Most likely, mormons and Jehovah’s Witnesses are stoking in the engine rooms of Hell. The Hosemonkey said that.👍
Speaking of oneself in the third person is a sign of mental illness.
 
Paul,

I think this is a great point. I’ve known so many families of leaders have messed up families and I can’t help but think their calling as Stake Presidents and Bishops couldn’t have helped matters.

What kind of message is: have lots of kids, no excuses, and if you are called to a time consuming calling, well, it is a calling from God after all.
And then you have the vast majority who have incredible families.

We all have the same problems and families in general are NEVER “perfect”. Recently there has been a lot of publicity about an imperfect family which has been roundly praised for “hanging in there”. THAT is what it is all about. There is not one family anywhere that does not have its problems. It is part of the human condition. It is what is called “the fall” in the scriptures. Blaming it on working for God is just an excuse.

I guess all catholic families are perfect because they don’t have to worry about church callings.
 
In Catholicism there are beliefs that are not dogma until the Church declares it to be. Immaculate conception is an example of this. A while back there was also widespread belief in “Limbo” until that belief was abandoned. However in Mormonism, there is alot of speculative ideas that are taught as truth. Brigham Young and Joseph Smith themselves were teaching things that are not in canonized doctrine. So the problem is that speculative ideas are taught as truth in Mormonism.
Not so. Speculative ideas were taught as truth by a very small number of people among the leadership of the Church at an earlier age, when the Church was still young and inexperienced; but as the Church has matured over the years, that does not happen nearly as often as it used to in earlier days.

zerinus
 
mf,

Dozens of Mormons I’ve spoken with- including my past self, many intelligent and educated people. THe truth of the matter is Mormonism is tough to defend. It makes so very many bold claims, many bizarre (very unique and hence not defended elsewhere) that it becomes frustrating. Believe me, I’ve been there, a lot.
It becomes hard to defend if you try to defend it outside of its legitimate framework. If you try to defend it in the context of philosophy, archaeology, or science, then it will be hard to defend because that is not a valid context in which it can be attacked or defended. The Bible also becomes hard to defend if you try to do so within that contextual framewok. But within its own legitimate framework, which is faith based, theological, and scriptural, then it becomes very easy to defend.

zerinus
 
It appears that I have been ignored. Please attempt to explain to me mfbukowski how your “testimonies” are not just psychological effects as I demonstrated they are.
You have not demonstrated that they are, and nobody ever can.

zerinus
 
Google ousia. In theosis, there is no primary change in the nature of Gd or man, and while we may be part of him in his glory, Gd’s ousia remains intact, and we are not part of it.

“Through the power of the Holy Spirit we take part in Christ’s Passion by dying to sin, and in His Resurrection by being born to new life; we are members of His Body which is the Church, branches grafted onto the Vine which is Himself: ‘[God] gave Himself to us through His Spirit. By the participation of the Spirit, we become communicants in the divine nature. . . . For this reason, those in whom the Spirit dwells are divinized.’” [Catechism of the Catholic Church, no 1988]

The several hypothesises that Gd created the world out of existing “matter” to me doesn’t argue for either a time there was no Gd, nor an “eternal” matter, nor a “pre-existence”.
I am coming from a Wittgensteinian background and I have problems with words like “being” and “substance” and “nature”

I just don’t really know what they mean. It is like asking what color love is. Don’t know. The word “substance” magically allowed Thomas Aquinas to create “transubstantiation” by saying that the substance of flesh stayed the same under the appearance of bread. Now that was a good linguistic trick. Reverse the coils, captain Kirk and now we can go into warp drive.

Deus ex machina at its best-- almost literally!!

But what does that mean?

I get the idea that theosis is a change to a lesser degree than what we would see as “exaltation”. But what about 1 Cointhinans 15 where Paul talks about a difference of bodies? Celestial Terestrial and Telestial? Are those different “species” as well? He talks there about fish and animals, so is that your interpretation?

That catechism quote sounds a lot like section 84 of the D&C where it talks about the oath and covenant of the priesthood

"33 For whoso is faithful unto the obtaining these two priesthoods of which I have spoken, and the magnifying their calling, are sanctified by the Spirit unto the renewing of their bodies. "

YOU:“The several hypothesises that Gd created the world out of existing “matter” to me doesn’t argue for either a time there was no Gd, nor an “eternal” matter, nor a “pre-existence”.”

I would like to explore this.

I was never arguing for a “time” that there was no God. I was arguing that God is outside of time.

The problem is that it is ambiguous to talk about a “time before time”. I actually talked about this once in a meeting with a member who later went out and made a movie called "“the land before time”.

This is the source of the apparant conflict seen by non members who take literally the statement “God was once as we are now”

In one sense, it is true. He “once” was.

But when you take that and say “HA HA you believe in more than one god, and god is just a man” THAT is not correct.

If you want to look at it this way, let’s postulate that there are multiple “eternities” the existance of which we cannot in principle know-- so this is strictly metaphysics based on faith

But God is eternal in THIS eternity, in this time. But there were other eternities (let us hypothesize) God organized the worlds we can know - perhaps this “big bang”.

So in one sense, it is possible that he was “once” as we are now, but is now an exalted being. But in a real sense, “once” doesnt make sense because it is a temporal concept, and God created time as we know it.

It is a paradox that can only be solved by jumping to another level, just like bertrand russel and the lying slave paradox.

So I am not sure how the above realates to your quote
 
It becomes hard to defend if you try to defend it outside of its legitimate framework. If you try to defend it in the context of philosophy, archaeology, or science, then it will be hard to defend because that is not a valid context in which it can be attacked or defended. The Bible also becomes hard to defend if you try to do so within that contextual framewok. But within its own legitimate framework, which is faith based, theological, and scriptural, then it becomes very easy to defend.

zerinus
I have to save this one. Moral relitavism at its finest.

If you’re arguing against the literacy of Scripture as a “valid context”, you probably shouldn’t be on a Catholic forum.
 
It becomes hard to defend if you try to defend it outside of its legitimate framework. If you try to defend it in the context of philosophy, archaeology, or science, then it will be hard to defend because that is not a valid context in which it can be attacked or defended.

There you have it in a nutshell. “Not a valid context?” So you must suspend all the ordinary yardsticks in order to defend mormonism. In other words, the only way that you can defend mormonism is by the non-use of your brain. What a joke. You are so lost.
 
Family and God always come before church.
Perhaps there needs to be a little reminder here. Those of us on this site are not like the unknowledgeable about Mormonism folks you guys “target” in you door-to-door sweeps. Some here are ex-Mormons and know what the Mormon church really is about, some here have done some in depth research, and I know I have first hand experience about the “reality” of the Mormon’s idea of family before church. Our entire family has experienced the Mormon poor treatment of non-Mormons, but more to the point, I have seen the disrespect your church gives its own members with that “calling” thing (that eats into the family’s time and resources, but that they must fulfill and that the Mormon church won’t let them out of.) We know that those glowing television ads and all the rheteric about “family first” is just what you guys want us to believe. Sorry, you guys are just human and your “family friendly” facade is just that–a facade! Stop insulting us by claiming differently.
 
Perhaps there needs to be a little reminder here. Those of us on this site are not like the unknowledgeable about Mormonism folks you guys “target” in you door-to-door sweeps. Some here are ex-Mormons and know what the Mormon church really

is about, some here have done some in depth research, and I know I have first hand experience about the “reality” of the Mormon’s idea of family before church. Our entire family has experienced the Mormon poor treatment of non-Mormons, but more to the point, I have seen the disrespect your church gives its own members with that “calling” thing (that eats into the family’s time and resources, but that they must fulfill and that the Mormon church won’t let them out of.) We know that those glowing television ads and all the rheteric about “family first” is just what you guys want us to believe. Sorry, you guys are just human and your “family friendly” facade is just that–a facade! Stop insulting us by claiming differently.
You have to remember that zerinus and Ski are totally committed members of the Borg. They cannot answer any other way because it would violate their programming.
 
Look, I have been married 28 years. Before that I was a student and had foundmany philosophies that fit perfectly with Mormonism. I wias introduced to the church and have never looked back.

My wife is LDS and a treasure. She has always supported me in my church callings. She wants a man who loves God more than anything else. The more work I do for the church, the better the marriage gets, the better we do as a family.

We have 4 kids and the youngest is 18 One is married in the temple, my son has been on a mission and I have 3 in college. We have been spared virtually all the usual problems families have in this world – teen pregnancy, drugs, drinking pornography etc.

We have had our share of the usual problems with learning disabilities, economic crises and all the other stuff that goes with life. We have had medical problems too.

Anyone that says that the work load the church puts on you is divisive just doesn’t understand the blessings of doing for others.

When you put others first, and make that your family priority, things happen. Wonderful things. You learn service and you learn that you are not the center of the universe

I feel closer to my wife daily. We are growing together with common goals and working on becoming all we can become.

I know these principles are true, in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen
 
I guess all catholic families are perfect because they don’t have to worry about church callings.
We Catholic laypersons don’t have church “callings” imposed on us from leaders. We volunteer for a ministry or apostolate as we are moved by the Holy Spirit. I am a lector and an extraordinary minister of the Eucharist. I was strongly moved by the Spirit to seek these ministries. My son recently became a lector as well.

It is the same with financial contributions. We follow the biblical principle to contribute as we are moved by the Spirit. We are free to contribute some to the church and some to other worthwhile causes as the Spirit directs us. I was strongly directed by the Spirit to the charities to which I contribute. My parish is one of them, but not the only one.

No one calls us into a little room to grill us on how much we contributed that year or if we are fulfilling all of our “callings”.

Freedom to respond to the call of the Holy Spirit is what life in Christ is all about.
 
I know these principles are true, in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen
Do you somehow think that you’re at Fast and Testimony meeting? Isn’t that not until Sunday? Do you want a microphone?

in Christ
Steph
 
And then you have the vast majority who have incredible families.

We all have the same problems and families in general are NEVER “perfect”. Recently there has been a lot of publicity about an imperfect family which has been roundly praised for “hanging in there”. THAT is what it is all about. There is not one family anywhere that does not have its problems. It is part of the human condition. It is what is called “the fall” in the scriptures. Blaming it on working for God is just an excuse.

I guess all catholic families are perfect because they don’t have to worry about church callings.
The vast majority I know don’t have incredible families (the vast majority have okay to good… incredible??? nah). In fact they have some of the most unfortunate family situations I am familiar with. I suppose that’s to say I don’t think Mormonism really confers any true benefits that way.

Since I’m not a Catholic, what’s that to me? You must be getting tired.
 
Anyone that says that the work load the church puts on you is divisive just doesn’t understand the blessings of doing for others.
Oh? Surely you don’t expect me to tell my daughter and her husband this when their time with their family (and money for their family) is taken up by the callings that were “visited upon them” because (in the words of daughter “no one else will take it”.) I mean that would be very callous. (Of course that is what the Mormon church says–don’t have money for your family?–it’s a blessing…and remember to tithe so that we can “bless you some more”–Don’t have time working two jobs, having a large family, going to school plus the “callings” we’ve given you? Here, have another “calling” so that you can have even more “blessings”.)

And all the time the Mormon church promises even more glory and more “blessings” if only the Mormon family is given attention at the expense of the non-Mormon birth family of a convert. Come on, at least be honest in those television ads–the family that they tout is only the Mormon family and only under the Mormon church’s conditions.
 
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