Where's the nobility in suffering?

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I have never umdrrstood why Catholicism advocates suffering as a means to salvation. Why must you prove yor faith by living in an unrealistic state of perpetual hope? My own situation is such that I have been ill most of my life. I have medical problems which restrict my activities. I have never been married, I have no friends or acquaintances, no job, no prospects, a ton of debt, and despite everything I have tried, nothing has chamged in over 20 years. I take the blame for some of my problems, as I have made some poor decisions, but I’ve never taken drugs or been involved in anything illegal and I never go pregnant out of wedlock. When I was younger, my judgment was clouded by the the problems that illness had caused. I also received a lot of bad advice. At this point, my parents are the only people on earth who care that I exist but my existence is a burden to them financially and mentally. They’re getting on in years and when they’re gome, I don’t know what I’ll do. I truly do not see the point in continuing to exist like this. I’ve prayed and others have prayed for me. After 20 years of disappointlent and misfortune, how can I continue to delude myself into thinking that waking up to face a life with no joy or purpose day after day, is what God intended for me? I have no intentions of being cannonized, so why should I?
 
I’m pretty sure that this thread will get moved seeing as how it’s not topic-specific, but I thought I’d share this link to help you understand the Catholic view on suffering. Audio Sancto is a fantastic resource for homilies given by good, traditional Catholic priests. I heard this homily the other day and found it to be quite enlightening. In a nutshell, suffering is about loving God. This Father answers the question, what is love, and what does that have to do with suffering?

Loving God: Why Does it Involve Suffering
 
I am sorry for what you have and are going through; spiritual, physically and I asume emotionaly pain for so long. I am keeping you in my prayers and will ad you to my list of daily intentions. There are people here that will guide you through this, please keep returning to CAF and let us help you with this huge cross that you carry.
 
We must remember that if we deny the value of suffering, there is no meaning to the cross. Our faith tells us that to many people, the cross is folly. However, we know that without the suffering of the cross, there would be no redemption. St. Paul also reminds us that we must complete what is lacking in the cross of Christ.

That’s a little tricky to understand, because Christ’s sacrifice it’s perfect and complete. So let’s see if we can get what he is saying. How can our suffering complete what is already perfect?

When the second person of the Trinity became incarnate, he took on our humanity, except our sinfulness. However, he did take on our suffering. Therefore, our suffering is not in vain. Human suffering is an opportunity to share in Christ’s passion.

In Evangelium Vitae B. John Paul wrote,

**The only goal which counts is the pursuit of one’s own material well-being. The so-called “quality of life” is interpreted primarily or exclusively as economic efficiency, inordinate consumerism, physical beauty and pleasure, to the neglect of the more profound dimensions-interpersonal, spiritual and religious-of existence.

In such a context suffering, an inescapable burden of human existence but also a factor of possible personal growth, is “censored”, rejected as useless, indeed opposed as an evil, always and in every way to be avoided. When it cannot be avoided and the prospect of even some future well-being vanishes, then life appears to have lost all meaning and the temptation grows in man to claim the right to suppress it.**

We have reduce the meaning of quality of life to well-being. When things are not as society believes they should be, we question the value of our lives and even of God’s plan for us. The problem is not with God’s plan, the problem is with the way that we look at things.

The Holy Father also reminds us that aging and the natural results of aging are part of God’s plan and it is honorable.

Old age is characterized by dignity and surrounded with reverence (cf. 2 Mac 6:23). The just man does not seek to be delivered from old age and its burden; on the contrary his prayer is this: “You, O Lord, are my hope, my trust, O Lord, from my youth … so even to old age and grey hairs, O God, do not forsake me, till I proclaim your might to all the generations to come” (Ps 71:5, 18). The ideal of the Messianic age is presented as a time when “no more shall there be … an old man who does not fill out his days” (Is 65:20).

He’s trying to tell us that we live, not simply to be comfortable in this life. That’s not a bad thing. As the old Baltimore Catechism quoted from St. Thomas Aquinas, “God made us to know him, to love him, to serve him, and to be happy with him forever in heaven.” God does not promise us happiness and comfort in this world, only in the next, if we embrace the cross of Christ.

The Patriarch of the Ukrainian Catholic Church recently said that the Resurrection begins at the cross. Whatever suffering we’re experiencing today, is the first step toward the resurrection tomorrow.

A very good friend of mine recently wrote me a letter. He was remembering Bl. John Paul II. The Holy Father suffered a great deal. From the time that he was shot until the day that he died, almost 15 years later, his life was one cross after another. His health was deteriorating. The Church was in trouble. The world was at war. However, unlike Kenny Rogers who “folds them” in his famous song, the Holy Father continued. On the evening of April 2, 2005, the world watched and kept vigil with him. We waited for the Our Lady to take him home, as he believed. He knew that Mary, who had stood at the foot of the cross and watched her son suffer and die, would come to take him home to her son. It finally happened. He went home as we watched.

Had he given up and folded, had he stopped living what difference would he have made in the world? Whose life would he have impacted? We must remember that like Christ, we live, love, suffer, die and rise for a purpose. We have no idea who will benefit from our presence in the world and from our suffering.

Today, is the feast of St. Maximilian Kolbe, one of our Franciscan friars who lived his life with TB. He put his life in God’s hands. God took him on mission to India and Japan. But he did not die. He returned to Poland. He was arrested by the Nazis and released. A few months later, he was arrested again. During his second term in the concentration camp, the Nazis condemned a young father to die. Friar Maximilian stepped up and volunteered to take his place. They tried to starve him. After weeks, they could not kill him that way. Then on August 14, the day before the Assumption of his beloved Blessed Mother, they killed him by lethal injection and on the 15th, the Solemnity of the Assumption, they burned his body and scattered his ashes, hoping to annul his life and make him disappear.

This is the 70th anniversary of his death and the world remembers. The man whom he saved never forgot. His children and grandchildren are alive today and they remember Brother Maximilian Maria Kolbe, the priest who suffered and accepted suffering out of pure love. The evil that drove the Nazis to make him disappear into the dark hole of history did not triumph. We never had a body to bury, but we have an entire family who is alive today, because Brother Max accepted suffering until God called him home.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
how can I continue to delude myself into thinking that waking up to face a life with no joy or purpose day after day, is what God intended for me? I have no intentions of being cannonized, so why should I?
Reasons why I hope in the midst of suffering…

“God loves me. God lives in me. We are traveling together, He and I.”

“Everyone is willed, loved and necessary” – Pope Benedict XVI

God only wills good for me.

He sees the bigger picture.

Your suffering isn’t who you are.

You may not feel it now; you may not be able to see it; you may not believe it at the moment, but all of these things are true.

Don’t give up, artygrl! You are not alone.
 
"Love is a mutual self-giving which ends in self-recovery." —Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen

Christ has given Himself completely out of love and so it is only logical that we do the same. No relationship can ever exist if there isn’t equal participation by both parties involved. Without the cooperation of both the two will never become ONE.

All of your misery will be turned to joy my friend the day you open yourself up to God’s grace and allow yourself to let go of how you believe life should be and accept whatever He wills your life to be. Sufferings are sent to us so that He may break down the barriers that our will makes in loving Him fully. Once you have completely died to yourself God can truly live in you and you will experience heaven on earth because your will, will be conformed to His who is Love itself. Could you imagine having a happiness that is so strong and so profound that its very presence fills your entire being with a joy that cannot be comprehended? A happiness that is infinite and which could never be taken from you unless you willed it to leave!

In reality the rich have it harder than us poor people. No my friend God’s love and mercy is truly upon you and all of us.
 
Meditations on Christian Doctrine: Hope in God – Creator
  1. God was all-complete, all-blessed in Himself; but it was His will to create a world for His glory. He is Almighty, and might have done all things Himself, but it has been His will to bring about His purposes by the beings He has created. We are all created to His glory—we are created to do His will. I am created to do something or to be something for which no one else is created; I have a place in God’s counsels, in God’s world, which no one else has; whether I be rich or poor, despised or esteemed by man, God knows me and calls me by my name.
  2. God has created me to do Him some definite service; He has committed some work to me which He has not committed to another. I have my mission—I never may know it in this life, but I shall be told it in the next. Somehow I am necessary for His purposes, as necessary in my place as an Archangel in his—if, indeed, I fail, He can raise another, as He could make the stones children of Abraham. Yet I have a part in this great work; I am a link in a chain, a bond of connexion between persons. He has not created me for naught. I shall do good, I shall do His work; I shall be an angel of peace, a preacher of truth in my own place, while not intending it, if I do but keep His commandments and serve Him in my calling.
  3. Therefore I will trust Him. Whatever, wherever I am, I can never be thrown away. If I am in sickness, my sickness may serve Him; in perplexity, my perplexity may serve Him; if I am in sorrow, my sorrow may serve Him. My sickness, or perplexity, or sorrow may be necessary causes of some great end, which is quite beyond us. He does nothing in vain; He may prolong my life, He may shorten it; He knows what He is about. He may take away my friends, He may throw me among strangers, He may make me feel desolate, make my spirits sink, hide the future from me—still He knows what He is about.
O Adonai, O Ruler of Israel, Thou that guidest Joseph like a flock, O Emmanuel, O Sapientia, I give myself to Thee. I trust Thee wholly. Thou art wiser than I—more loving to me than I myself. Deign to fulfil Thy high purposes in me whatever they be—work in and through me. I am born to serve Thee, to be Thine, to be Thy instrument. Let me be Thy blind instrument. I ask not to see—I ask not to know—I ask simply to be used.

Blessed John Henry Newman, March 7, 1848
newmanreader.org/works/meditations/meditations9.html
 
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