I was on food stamps. One evening it occurred to me that I wasn’t accepting a freely offered gift; I was accepting money taken from people who hadn’t all agreed to give it, since taxation is not voluntary. I thought, well, its to keep me alive, though…But then I realized that there were ways I could survive without the stamps. Iwasn’t in a poor country starving, I was living in the USA in the beginning of the 21st Century, a place and time of inconceivable qwealth, and if I worked at finding food even as hard as my ancestors a hundred years earlier, I would find all I could need and more. I gave up the stamps and tried harder to find work, harder to find help freely offered, and harder to make what I had last longer. I got by. Now I have a better income.
I think the only time people have the right to money taken by force from others is when it’s an emergency, life-or-death. Otherwise charity should be voluntary. I would have stayed on food stamps without any problem if I had been in a Third World country and had no realistic other way to get enough to eat. After I gave up stamps I still took charity food. It was offered freely, not taken from those who meant to keep it, it was given voluntarily.
I believe we should help the needy without judgement, and warn sinners whether we are giving them anything or not. Charities shouldn’t function as a way to get a captive audience. Charity should just be there to help people. Warnings about lifestyle issues should go out to the rich as well as the poor. Emergency and disaster relief, etc. should be there for those who really need it, who would probably not survive otherwise, like hurricane victims etc. That should continue to be public and private.