So you think ecumenism is to bring someone to the true faith? Mistake! Ecumenism is to make it possible to understand our brothers in faith and focus on what we have in common, to remove obstacles in understanding and accepting one another. And sometimes removing obstacles to mutual understanding means changing some of our rules or attitudes.
Do you really think the Catholic faith is better than the Lutheran or Orthodox? I am Catholic, but I do not think so. All Christian faiths come from the same stem and should search for what they have in common in their roots of early Christianity.
Well, yes, of course I think that the Catholic Church is true in ways that the Lutherans aren’t. As for the Orthodox, they’re in schism, not in heresy. Still, they would say as much as we do that our rites are NOT interchangeable! In that case, it doesn’t have to do with being better!
Speaking of changing attitudes, where did *this *attitude come from: that if you are someone whose office it is to preach during Mass and I am someone who does not have that office, that this means you think you are better than me? This is what I was talking about. “Women need to be more fully recognized”…it is another way of saying “until women can hold such and so office, they are second-class citizens”.
It is the same attitude that leads to childless women feeling like second-class citizens on Mother’s Day because they don’t get cards or kids feeling like something is wrong when they go to a birthday party and there isn’t a present for them or everybody in Little League having to go home from Awards Night with a trophy recognizing their unique contribution. It is ridiculous, when you think about it. Equal in dignity does not mean being the same in everything not even in everything that we hold essential. We can have our rules, they can have theirs, and we can still talk.
Should Lutherans and Catholics and the Orthodox find a way to pray together? Of course we should! Ecumenism doesn’t say that Lutherans have the fullness of faith. It says that it is right to recognize that they have a valid baptism and they do have faith in the same Lord. But it does not go so far as to say that it doesn’t make any difference what denomination one belongs to. It only says that different denominations and even different religions,* in spite of our real differences*, also have truly real common ground, and that this common ground can be stood upon without the real differences being ignored, with results that are in keeping with the will of God. Although evangelism is an appropriate goal, those results do not have to be that every person becomes a Catholic. Something well short of that may still be a major victory in the eyes of God, and recognizable as a work of the Holy Spirit.