No worries; I follow your meaning. Well, I occasionally visit a Catholic church when I’m by myself and I’m able, but mine & my wife’s “compromise church” (non-denominational Protestant) doesn’t celebrate anything except Christmas and Easter Sunday–it has that much in common with every other non-Catholic church I’ve been in. I’m afraid they don’t have any “liturgy,” and would consider having anything resembling one to be Pharasaical, if not outright apostate. They have communion a couple of times a year, but not on any particular schedule, and it’s deemed to be explicitly, 100% symbolic and non-essential. If not for a certain amount of stubborn curiosity and independent study, I’d never have heard of anything called “Ash Wednesday,” a liturgy," or a “Christian calendar.”
I know how odd that must sound to cradle Catholics, but not many of them ever seem to understand how much the norm it is in many parts of the world, and how Catholicism looks to someone reared to consider it the default version of Christianity. It results in a lot of talking past one another.