I don’t get the fascination with Mary.
It was Jesus who loved us first while we were yet sinners.
It was Jesus who gave his life for us and paid the price for our sins.
It was Jesus who was beaten for our healing.
It was Jesus who became poor so that we might be rich.
It was Jesus who sent us His own Holy Spirit.
Jesus wants a personal relationship was us, not Mary.
Jesus is the Good Shepherd, not Mary.
Jesus is the source of life, not Mary.
Jesus is the friend of sinners, not Mary.
Jesus is the firm foundation, not Mary.
Jesus is the author and finisher of my faith, not Mary.
Jesus kept the whole law for me, not Mary.
Jesus loves every one of his children just the same as Mary. No one is singled out as more special. Mk3:35 says" For whosoever shall do the will of God, the same is my brother, and my sister and my mother". We are all equal to God.
Mary is a fine model of faith but there is no more benefit after that.
The Blessed Mother Mary is not a fascination but a gift and a powerful intercessor who we honor.
God could have dropped Jesus out of a cloud if he wanted to but He chose Mary for a reason (like there are not other fine role models of faith already). Mary does not detract or reduce any of the qualities that you listed but she uplifts them. Where you believe that you and those qualities are independent of the Blessed Mother, others realize that the Blessed Mother Mary may intercede by the grace of God for us to achieve those qualities. The servants at the wedding at Cana did not know Jesus until the Blessed Mother brought them to Jesus. She brought the Holy Spirit through Jesus to John the Baptist in the womb of Elizabeth. The Blessed Mother Mary accepted and bore Jesus into this world that we may know Him in all the ways that you listed by God’s grace. Where would you be if your mother had not chosen to give birth to you? Are you beginning to see the importance of honoring your father and mother?..rather than just some fascination other have. Would you tell your own mother that she is a great role model but she really has no more benefit than that?
God chose Mary that Jesus may be born, that her soul may “magnify the Lord” (Luke Mary’s Song) (no ordinary role model…I want to my soul to magnify the Lord, let God be born in me, I will let you know if there is an immaculate conception anytime soon. You know my other children would totally love growing up with the infant Jesus as a brother! : ) . Mary is the daughter of God, Mother of Jesus and Spouse of the Holy Spirit. And again full of grace (that means without sin). She is the only one with these four qualities making her uniquely superior to all of humanity…found favor with God is pretty unique also, not many people can say they are the favored child of God the Father.
In the Bible she is
“full of grace” (Luke Annunciation),
to be called “Blessed” (Luke Mary’s Song),
she is the tabernacle of Jesus,
found favor with God (Luke Annunciation),
the Holy Spirit intercedes through her (Visitation),
her soul magnifies the Lord (Luke Mary’s Song),
Jesus is born from her (Luke Birth of Jesus),
the Holy Spirit overshadows her (Luke Annunciation),
her soul will be pierced so that the thoughts of many may be revealed (Luke Presentation),
she intercedes for us (wedding at Cana),
she points us to Jesus (wedding at Cana),
she is our mother (at the Crucifixion),
she is present at the birth of the Church (Pentecost),
she is crowned queen in the heavens (Revelations),
assumed into heaven.
(just happens I attended a Holy Spirit conference this weekend ; )
Perhaps her biggest role in our daily lives is that she is our heavenly mother and points us to Jesus. Her guidance is overshadowed by the Holy Spirit of Jesus and she is full of grace so she is a unique and superior intercessor in these ways. If you have a great mother by God’s grace, then you may not see the value of her as much as those who are less fortunate…so please be considerate to those who do appreciate her as their heavenly mother.