Interestingly enough, my dad, who was not Catholic, never saw the inside of a church when I was a kid, but loved my Catholic mother who insisted on her 4 kids being Catholic. When my mom was sick when I was a kid, rather than saying we didn’t have to go to Sunday Mass, my dad got up, got us all dressed, and took us to Mass, dropping us off with the ushers and asking them to watch over us while he stayed in the car or ran an errand. It was his love for my mom and the respect he had for her and he determination to raise us right, that always impressed me. I even got sent to the principal’s office for defending my dad when some nun told us that only Catholics would go to heaven. You should have heard the eight year old Atticus Finch of Mt. Carmel grade school defend his dad.
BTW. In his sixties, Dad converted after 40 years of exposure to his wife and kids’ Catholic ways. Spent his last six years helping out in old age homes and hospitals just as a volunteer doing what he saw as his Catholic responsibility to those who had less than he did.