We are soooo goal oriented and need feelings and sensations. But really, you don’t need them to know God is there or having a relationship with you. I know in my marriage… I don’t have those lovey feelings constantly…quite often, there is no talking when we sit next to eachother, we’re not constantly making out or having spectacular dates. REAL love has nothing to do with the senses…we experience a lot about it through the senses…but Love…is an act of the will.
In all seriousness…God is found in the silence! Look at mother teresa! Amazing saint…it has now come out that she didn’t “feel” God for over 20 years! Does that mean she did not have a relationship with God ?
Lastly, I heard a good story.
A seminarian went to his spiritual director and told him… " i don’t feel God anymore!" so now I don’t know if I love Him or if He loves me “…the priest told the seminarian " I want you to go talk to your guardian angel tonight and ask him 2 questions: 1 do you love God and 2 How does that feel”
The seminarian did as he was told and prayed to his angel that night and He actually heard the angels voice in his mind! He asked his first question: " do you love god ? " the angel said " ohh, of course! with all my strength and being1!! " wow the seminarian said! " How does that possibly feel?" …there was a dead silence…so the seminarian asked again …silence! …he gets frustrated and asked again " how does it feel to love God that much and to feel His great love ???" the angel said " feel… well, I don’t feel anything!"
The seminarian ran to his spiritual director and said " I GET IT!!!" … I love God with all my heart and God loves me…and I don’t need to feel a thing…because if that kind of love is sufficent for the angelic…it’s good enough for me.