Why are atheists so unhappy?

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Where did i say that? I said that in general religion is more prevalent in countries with low eduction standards. Of course the USA does not fall under that rule, and there are many more factors.

However i am not speculating that the rise of atheism in Europe has been astounding, i imagine the USA will follow suit though it may take a bit of time. However it is not something i really care about.

There is a direct link between scientific education and atheism. There is also a link between IQ and Religiosity, but that does not mean that everyone that is religious has a low IQ. Like i said there are many more factors, upbringing being the biggest one.

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Comparing religiousosity vs. IQ is an invalid comparison. You have to look no further than IQ scores of faith based educational programs (including home-schooling). Also the fact that IQ tests have been proven to be biased against lower-income families must be taken into consideration. The poverty-stricken do have a tendency to rely on God more, and themselves less. (This tends to happen when you don’t know where your next meal is coming from).
 
I’m not sure to be honest. What i mean is, they are judging you as an individual though discourse. I’ve seen you judge entire groups based on dogma. That is discrimination at best and verges on bigotry.

Your obviously not a stupid person, and i am glad to be past the silly bickering stage that often happens (not blaming anyone) when two people of differing beliefs discuss those beliefs. I now know you are not a fundamentalist, however i must admit i though you were.

Your refer to atheists as if we belong to a group, that we share a doctrine. We don’t. My point is this, atheism is a pointless term. It tells you nothing about what a person believes, your response should have been to the individuals. When you as atheist your are grouping people that should not be grouped.

It would be like me saying… see all non cycling fans are supposedly less judgmental than cycling fans.

Well the fact that someone likes or dislikes cycling says nothing about how judgmental they are. The fact someone believes of has no belief in a god tells you nothing about how judgmental they are.

The thing is i would never group everyone that does not like cycling and start making assumptions about them, that would be absurd. I belief it is equally absurd for theists to do that same with everyone that has no belief in a god.
You thought I was a fundamentalist, why, was it because you had a stereotypical understanding of Christians as per the media? And don’t say that I’ve judged or was bigoted for that matter towards atheists as I’ve only demonstrated that as an atheist (like other atheists) you do see the world in a manner different than a theist. The material world is all that there is for atheists whereas we theists believe there is more, can you now understand why we would differ dramatically in regards to our views? And yet you wish to deny this? It makes no sense to claim that all atheism is is a rejection of our claims about God, atheism is a lot more than just a rejection, it permeates all areas of life (science, philosophy, morality . . . just like theism does). God bless.

p.s. I have not called a single atheist on this board (nor has any other theist) insane, delusional or bigoted even though I could have retaliated in kind.
 
You hit the nail in the head “when one** believes** and trusts in God”. It is belief, it is not knowledge.
But belief turns into knowledge of God, that is why a relationship with the Lord can affect such positive changes in a person. If God did not exist, then why have/were so many of the best people in the world saints. Have you read what these holy people have done for our society, for the good of the world, for the love of God and neighbor? Only a real and infinite God could have made their lives what they were. Saints indicate the presence of God amongst us.
It doesn’t matter how you much really really really really believe it is true, it is still not knowledge.
I understand why you feel as you do, but belief and knowledge are not mutually exclusive, for if what I felt and known through my (tangible) experiences with God were false than everything else is false as well (because nothing would make sense to me anymore).
The sheer fact that two people have such different ideas about the same thing shows that this experience is not consistent, but even if it was consistent, even if if god does exist, with the information we have available to us you belief would still not be knowledge.
Knowledge cannot contradict itself, there is either a God or there isn’t? As to who has the right understanding of what and who God is is another matter altogether, one that can only be discovered through a complete emersion of oneself in the quest for truth. Faith and reason are both essential to one’s knowledge and understanding of the world.
I am not trying to say your belief is incorrect, though i personally believe is it, all i am saying is (right of wrong) you belief is not knowledge.
But neither is your belief that I’m incorrect.
 
You thought I was a fundamentalist, why, was it because you had a stereotypical understanding of Christians as per the media? And don’t say that I’ve judged or was bigoted for that matter towards atheists as I’ve only demonstrated that as an atheist (like other atheists) you do see the world in a manner different than a theist. The material world is all that there is for atheists whereas we theists believe there is more, can you now understand why we would differ dramatically in regards to our views? And yet you wish to deny this? It makes no sense to claim that all atheism is is a rejection of our claims about God, atheism is a lot more than just a rejection, it permeates all areas of life (science, philosophy, morality . . . just like theism does). God bless.

p.s. I have not called a single atheist on this board (nor has any other theist) insane, delusional or bigoted even though I could have retaliated in kind.
I though you were a fundamentalist because of some of your views. Like towards homosexuals, that was what i was referring to when i said discrimination.

You say you don’t group atheists then you say “The material world is all that there is for atheists”. That is just simply not true, atheism says nothing about what people believe in regard to a material world.

“atheism is a lot more than just a rejection” No, it is not. It not even a rejection, it is any person without a theistic belief. That is it, **nothing more. **
 
everyone knows atheists and agnostics are a smarter bunch than the rest. I have a graduate education; and I bet my peers on this board are equally educated (or perhaps more so).

Asking questions like whether or not atheists are a happy bunch seems like a huge exercise in missing the point. The point really is was Adam the first human male, and Eve the first female? Is there really a god who answers our prayers? Was a man named Jesus a manifestation of the god of the universe, who rose from death and forgives all sins?

Sounds like a great bedtime story (sort of like Santa Clause); but the smarter a person gets the less likely they are to believe these claims. I’m sure this sounds presumptuous, pretentious, and smug to most of you … but it’s the truth.
 
Well, it looks like Yankee Doodle got banned. A shame, but his last post (he mentioned he had a graduate education and implied that anyone who held a religious belief was an uneducated boob) was just plain obnoxious…
 
Well, it looks like Yankee Doodle got banned. A shame, but his last post (he mentioned he had a graduate education and implied that anyone who held a religious belief was an uneducated boob) was just plain obnoxious…
I guess I haven’t found out about it yet … but if I get banned for saying what I think then so be it (I didn’t expect this place to be the bastion of enlightenment ideals :D)
 
This hit home so hard it felt like a blow to the stomache. I apologize but feel I must write this.

I used to feel this way too. My children were not atheists (thank my wife) but I was deeply synical and agnostic (probably the best term).

One day this all changed when I pondered the evidence and found it credible to a certain level. Then I realized what I may have done. He left thier souls, in my hands and I led them astray. I was devistated beyond mention. I realized I attempted to impose my beliefs on them. I did this with my own twisted logic and pride. I was above all that religious non-sense.

I may have been corrrect. There may be no God. BUT, I thought, what if there was something to all this and I led them astray because I know my ideas were better then 2000 years of Christianity that has essentially engulfed the world (as prophesised) after beginning with a simple disobedient Man’s death on a cross. It was all too profound to ignore. It was all too beautiful to ignore. I came to believe it was all too True to ignore. And I led them astray. I pray to God every day to guid me in the remedy of my error.

I tried my best to turn things around but they were in thier late teens at the time. Today they are both Catholic. I wish I could say they were more devout then they are but they do have a strong belief in God and follow thier faith. I now ask God to help do what I can and to work with me.

My marriage was in shambles for the same reason; my lack of caring about the sanctity and disresolve of Holy Matrimony. My “happiness” was deserving of much more…of course. Since then, my wife and I got married again, this tiime in the Catholic church and our life has changed immeasurably for the better. Funny thing, NOW I am happy (however it has a much different meaning to me now), then I was in pursuit of happiniess…and miserable. “Lose your life and you will find it”.

I beg you to reconsider if your children are young. I profoundly apologize for any intrusion of privacy. I do not want anyone to suffer the pain I have suffered over this.
Much more importantly, souls may be in the balance.
Dear friend,
Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt experience with us. It was a very welcome and timely “intrusion”🙂 This remains the most profound evidence of a loving God’s existence-changed lives! May He continue to bless you and your family abundantly.
 
However i am not speculating that the rise of atheism in Europe has been astounding, i imagine the USA will follow suit though it may take a bit of time. However it is not something i really care about.
Check your facts again, friend. There* is* a difference between facts and wishful thinking!
There is a direct link between scientific education and atheism.
Show me a scientist turned atheist, and I’ll show you 100 scientists turned to God.
There is also a link between IQ and Religiosity, but that does not mean that everyone that is religious has a low IQ. Like i said there are many more factors, upbringing being the biggest one.
The most brilliant human beings that have ever lived have left a legacy of religiosity. Yet the most “simple” and pure of heart, are considered to be those “who will inherit the Earth…” (Sermon on the Mount) Among the many factors which influence IQ and religion, you are so wise in pointing out the most important one-raising our children with faith, hope and love. Peace to you.
 
**But belief turns into knowledge of God, that is why a relationship with the Lord can affect such positive changes in a person. **

No i does not. It doesn’t matter how strongly you believe it does not make it knowledge.

**If God did not exist, then why have/were so many of the best people in the world saints. Have you read what these holy people have done for our society, for the good of the world, for the love of God and neighbor? Only a real and infinite God could have made their lives what they were. Saints indicate the presence of God amongst us.
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I’m sorry but that is not even close to being evidence for a god.

**I understand why you feel as you do, but belief and knowledge are not mutually exclusive, for if what I felt and known through my (tangible) experiences with God were false than everything else is false as well (because nothing would make sense to me anymore). **

You are 100% correct they are not. However there is a difference for something to be knowledge we need to be able to substantiate it.
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Knowledge cannot contradict itself, there is either a God or there isn’t? As to who has the right understanding of what and who God is is another matter altogether, one that can only be discovered through a complete emersion of oneself in the quest for truth. Faith and reason are both essential to one’s knowledge and understanding of the world.**

Faith is contradictory to the above statement. Faith is believing something when you can’t substantiate it. If you could substantiate it, it would no long be faith.

But neither is your belief that I’m incorrect.

It is not a belief, i am simply pointing out the difference between faith an knowledge as properly defined by mankind.
 
i think militant atheists are a minority and i will grant that the archbishop initially quoted has a good point. if one doesn’t believe in god and relates his existence to the easter bunny or a “flying spaghetti monster” as i’ve heard said by atheists. it is assinine to run around decrying his existence. i think deep down these people are angry at god for one reason or another and do believe in god. it’s the only thing that could possibly motivate someone to argue against something they don’t believe in so vehemently. i don’t believe aliens live on mars and spend zero time arguing against it (other than this post).

but most atheists i’ve met are pretty much you believe what you believe i don’t believe in god and we’ll leave it at that. these people from what i’ve seen typically are very happy, and live more productive lives than most.
 
but most atheists i’ve met are pretty much you believe what you believe i don’t believe in god and we’ll leave it at that. these people from what i’ve seen typically are very happy, and live more productive lives than most.
According to you, and how* you must measure happiness* and* productivity*.
Btw, if you’re hanging around so many “happy and productive” atheists, don’t be surprised if your*** “in between faiths”*** status, is compromised just a bit.:o Peace be with you.
 
According to you, and how* you must measure happiness* and* productivity*.
Btw, if you’re hanging around so many “happy and productive” atheists, don’t be surprised if your*** “in between faiths”*** status, is compromised just a bit.:o Peace be with you.
This reminds me of something C.S. Lewis wrote in his spiritual autobiography Surprised by Joy. He said something to the effect that a person who wishes to remain a solid atheist can’t be too careful in what he reads.😃
 
According to you, and how* you must measure happiness* and* productivity*.
Btw, if you’re hanging around so many “happy and productive” atheists, .
of course according to me, just like according to the OP atheists are unhappy…

by more productive lives i mean a lot of atheists place more importance on education, securing wealth, traveling, the finer things in life because they live for today not empty promises from a church or synaguogue… i actually had a friend who got saved and dropped out of college because it was now a waste to him, life was merely to be suffered through to get to heaven. atheists don’t see the world that way…

and of course this is my perception from interacting with people i’ve known…
 
by more productive lives i mean a lot of atheists place more importance on education, securing wealth, traveling, the finer things in life because they live for today not empty promises from a church or synaguogue… i actually had a friend who got saved and dropped out of college because it was now a waste to him, life was merely to be suffered through to get to heaven. atheists don’t see the world that way…
i actually had a friend who got saved and dropped out of college because it was now a waste to him, life was merely to be suffered through to get to heaven. atheists don’t see the world that way…
The fundamentalism your friend got involved with is a distorted version of Christianity. Catholics (at least, those who really know the faith) do not see life as “something to be suffered through.” The Catholic writer Hilaire Belloc expressed it best:

Wherever the Catholic sun doth shine,
There’s always laughter and good red wine.
At least I’ve always found it so.
Benedicamus Domino!

Things like education, traveling, gathering wealth, etc. are good (I really enjoy travelling myself). But all those things, good as they are, can satisfy one’s deepest longings for meaning in life. Like the Peggy Lee song says, “Is that all there is.”
 
What about all the other “intangibles”? Can you ‘substantiate’ your knowledge about love?..grief?..philosophy?

No not always. That is why many of these thing are not knowledge, but again believe. I am not saying there is anything wrong with believe, but to quote Arona “seeing is believing, but seeing is not knowing, believing is NOT knowing”

He makes a very good video on the subject…

youtube.com/watch?v=80nhqGfN6t8&feature=PlayList&p=126AFB53A6F002CC&index=3
 
No i does not. It doesn’t matter how strongly you believe it does not make it knowledge.
Remember there are two options available to us, either God exists or he doesn’t, my experiences tell me He does. I can’t prove it to you like I could something mathematical but I know in the most elemental part of me that He exists. I understand that it’s not a knowledge that I can share with others but it is a personal knowledge of which I can’t ignore.
I’m sorry but that is not even close to being evidence for a god.
Most saints who are holy are able to perform miracles and these miracles can be verified by eye witness accounts. There is Lourdes for example wherein 66 miracles (under extreme and rigorous study put forth before a panel of international medical doctors of all ilks) or has they put unexplainable phenomena that attests to the presence of God.
You are 100% correct they are not. However there is a difference for something to be knowledge we need to be able to substantiate it.
But I can substantiate it and so can others; there have been many supernatural experiences that cannot be explained by science. And these events are necessary to our understanding of life the divine or life after death. I think in my opinion you have a narrow scope of what constitutes knowledge. Some of the best thinkers were not necessarily scientists, that should give you some food for thought.
Faith is contradictory to the above statement. Faith is believing something when you can’t substantiate it. If you could substantiate it, it would no long be faith.
The only way that you can say faith is contradictory to knowledge is if you somehow absolutely knew that God didn’t exist, but you don’t, you can’t know, therefore how can you say with assurety that I’m wrong in believing in God, in having faith and knowledge of him?
It is not a belief, i am simply pointing out the difference between faith an knowledge as properly defined by mankind.
You said that you believed I was wrong, well, that belief is not knowledge as you have no real way of knowing God doesn’t exist.
 
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