No wonder that there is no common ground.
My feeling is that religion plays a very, very minor role in shaping a person’s moral beliefs. For the vast majority of people. For a very small percentage of people religion seems to shape most their moral beliefs. Popes John Paul II, Benedict, and Francis seem to be examples of this minority. Monks and Carmelite Nuns come to my mind as examples too.
Other than that it seems to me to be no “moral” difference between atheists, agnostics, and religious people. Being “Catholic” or “atheist” tells me nothing at all really. Well… a little but only a little. What would tell me much more is if one said they were Republican or Democrat. Their socio-economic background might give me more to go off of. If they are married or single might give me a little to go off. And their ethnicity might give me more or a lot to go off depending on the ethnicity and how strongly they identify with that ethnicity. Nationality will give me something to go off of two.
I suspect–and you can correct me if I’m wrong–you’re getting hung up on controversial hot topics like homosexuality and how fiscally liberal or conservative a government should be?
Consider a former Catholic woman on a philosophy forum I post on. She’s agnostic now. Regards religion as often being unhealthy and dangerous for people and she also regards homosexuality as a mental disorder. And she took a lot of heated attacks from agnostic and atheist liberals over that last point let me tell ya.
Or consider my father reared Lutheran but non-religious now and antagonistic towards Christianity. My mother is a Mass attending Catholic but they are both liberals, support gay marriage so far as I can tell, and both have about 98% the same morals.
But let’s look at a non-Christian world together. Suppose you and I stood on a tall hill together overlooking the whole of Cambodia and tried through discussion to come to some explanation for all the cruelty, corruption, and neglect throughout Cambodia?
Would both you and I conclude it was due to Buddhism being the predominate and official state religion of Cambodia? I don’t think so. I’ve asked myself this question and it seems to me that the decades of war, starvation, and genocide has dramatically impacted the social fabric of Cambodia. A Cambodian’s Buddhism won’t tell me much about them. What will tell me much more is if that person is the rich son or daughter of a Cambodian military officer. Or if the person is male and thinks it’s okay to sleep with a 10 year old virgin girl to cure his HIV/AIDS, then I’ll deduce the person is likely an uneducated and relatively impoverished Cambodian male and his morals are shaped more by his socio-economic standing and environment than Buddhism.
I posed a moral/ethical question in the past on the philosophy forum I post on as to whether one can own too much house?
The question was sparked in me by reading and looking at a billion dollar family home (though estimated to have cost about $20 million to build) in India that was built by an Indian gentleman worth several billion dollars I believe. The home is built like a Chicago skyscraper and is 20 stories tall I think. And if I recall correctly it is staffed by 800 domestic servants.
But India has a lot of abject poverty.
The question is critical for me as I really like luxury and luxury homes. But I’ve asked myself it I had $500,000,000 how I would spend it? How much (if any) would I put into annuities for myself for life time payments? How big and how many homes would I buy? How much do I give (if any) to immediate and/or extended family in my first world nation? How much if any do I spend on the poor in third world nations living in misery? Do I help the “bum” living on mu city’s street that I pass and everyone else pass, irrespective of him being an alcoholic or “sinner”? These are questions I have.
These are not atheist or religious questions. They are my questions. And only I can bring resolution to them. And understand what I mean by that, at the end of the day I’ll resolve those questions, if I had that money, with the morals I have, with what’s important to me in order.
I fear my low socio-economic standing makes me a mental slave and fearful and guilty about having much and attaining greatness. I say that because those with billions keep most their money throughout most or all their life time. They may own several properties and vacation on private islands for the cost of $40,000 a night, whilst giving a single poor person $20,000 is thought of by them as a monumental gift of charity digging deep into their pockets. And maybe it is and maybe I’m just a mental slave?
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Does the atheist and religious conclude differently about a roughly $13 million home?
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What about $20 million?
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What about $48 million?
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