Here is a link to a thread a few months ago in which I debated alcohol use with about 99.9% of Catholics.
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=249319&page=2
I hope the thread is helpful to you.
I was born and raised evangelical Protestant (Conference Baptist>Assemblies of God>christian church>Southern Baptist>Christian and Missionary Alliance>Christian Reformed>Evangelical Free Church in America).
I am totally against the use of alcohol by Christians, other than for medicinal purposes, cooking, and for Consecration by the priest during Holy Communion.
Recreational alcohol use was the biggest stumbling block to my conversion to the Catholic Church.
If tonight Pope Benedict XVI denounced the use of alcohol and declared that all Catholics would henceforth be teetotallers, you would hear me screaming for joy no matter where in the world you live!
You ask why evangelicals are so down on alcohol?
Evangelicals are down on anything that bends the mind. I know many evangelicals who will not indulge in caffeine because it alters the mind that God gave us and puts you in a position where you are not totally in control of your thoughts and actions.
Other things that evangelicals oppose are any use of the occult arts, yoga, transcendental meditation, any of the New Age techniques for “opening” up the mind, any kind of drug that is not prescribed by a doctor, “visualization” techniques, hypnosis, certain psychology methods that require an emptying of the mind, etc.
The reason evangelicals are against the manipulation of the mind is that this gives Satan an opportunity to creep in and destroy our faith. We need to take every thought captive and not allow any opportunity for evil.
Evangelicals (and I) will say, “Why do you need alcohol to have a good time?”
The concept of using alcohol to enhance pleasure is totally incomprehensible to us–and yes, in this issue, I stand on the side of the evangelicals and count myself among their numbers, and if it isn’t Catholic, well, may the Lord convict me.
I agree that many evangelicals are relaxing their opinions of alcohol. It breaks my heart. I see bottles of wine in the refrigerator at my parents-in-law home, and cringe. What’s become of us?
I am not posting this to try to convince you to adopt an evangelical position when it comes to alcohol. I am only posting this to help you to “get inside” the mind and heart of an evangelical. I know you’ll disagree, and I know that many will disagree strongly enough to blast my views right through the monitor screen. It doesn’t matter to me. Bring it on. Many have tried, all have failed. I am absolutely unmoving on this issue. The only person on this earth who could tell me to take a drink of alcohol would be the Pope himself, in person. And even then, I would tell him that I am obeying Him under protest.
I am NOT trying to bring anyone else over to “our side.” I am only trying to help you understand.
And I am advising you to AVOID all discussions and debates of alcohol with evangelical Protestants who are teetotallers. Would you believe that many out there are even stricter than me when it comes to alcohol?! Yes, it’s true! I know people who will not bring magazines and newspapers into their home, or will not own a TV, specifically because of the liquor ads. And my daughters’ alma mater will not allow ANY alcohol paraphernalia on campus, including any t-shirts, wine bottle candles, etc. Nothing.
So I am actually a moderate when it comes to alcohol!
Don’t go there. It’s better to avoid the issue and build bridges with teetotalling evangelicals. I can tell you right now–listen to me–that when they see you drinking a beer or a glass of wine, they will distrust you and they will probably stop listening to you talk about your Catholic faith. To them, alcohol is of the devil, and if you are using it, YOU are consorting with the devil. So they won’t believe anything you say about Catholicism and the Bible.
Is that drink worth it to you? To see your evangelical friends walk away from the Catholic Church? It had better be darn tasty for you to choose liquor over them.
I honestly think that if Catholics would stop drinking, many evangelicals would start listening. So we are at impasse, aren’t we?
I still have a very difficult time trusting fellow Catholics who drink, and most of them do. I accept intellectually that they have a right to drink and that they are not sinning unless they get drunk (exactly when does THAT occur?). But in my heart and soul, I still see “Demon Rum.” Sorry, Catholics. I can’t give you this one. And I know you don’t care anyway. Bottoms up.