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Peggy_in_Burien
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Sometimes, despite all of our will and effort and prayers, sometimes the dragon wins.
Thatās the weirdest thing Iāve ever heard. I think that would get a personās teeth punched out in Milwaukee.All anyone needs to do is beg for a job, then ask the boss 5 times every day āWhat can I do better? What can I do better?ā Then go and do it exactly as the boss wishes. Bosses love people like this. Itās so refreshing. Bosses canāt find enough people like this. Fortunately, we live in princessy individualistic, selfish, egomaniacal times where more and more people are not willing to humble themselves to make a buck, so it is easier than ever if you follow this advice.
Robert,Much of the menial labor is slavery in disguise with capitalism. Who wants to be a slave? Such low morale in the environment of these types of jobs.
You are also unable to recall a question I askedā¦My psychiatrist says my fears are irrational.
Not sure where youāre going with this, but I pay rent and do not have that much cash. I do not have a job, and Iām on disability payments to keep me afloat. Yes, my psychiatrist believed my fear of becoming homeless is irrational; take my disability payments away, and in a few months Iām homeless.Robert,
This is why your Psychiatrist and you may not undrstand each other and they sayā¦
You are also unable to recall a question I askedā¦
Do you have a job?
Are you paying rent?
Do you own a home?
Is it possible that you may be homelessā¦
You may find that the dissociative thoughts you expressed here lend credence to your fears being irriationalā¦
Tell meā¦
I work with them every day. Itās probably worth noting that the very concept of the OP is a bit at odds with Catholicism and Christianity.The above help to account for a burgeoning homeless population since around 1985, changing the āfaceā of homelessness to include all kinds of non-mentally-ill and very skilled people. I personally have met plenty of these.
I just started reading this book. Just in 40 pages I learned some things I literally never knew. If what the author claims and the research backs is true⦠then the era of biological determinism and the all holy gene has sucked the life of potential out of people without them being aware. But this seems to back the notion organized sports has claimed for eons: Champions arenāt born but made.Not sure where youāre going with this, but I pay rent and do not have that much cash. I do not have a job, and Iām on disability payments to keep me afloat. Yes, my psychiatrist believed my fear of becoming homeless is irrational; take my disability payments away, and in a few months Iām homeless.
I would agree with this, having experienced it myself.As you note so well, the plight of the homeless is often the result of sins of people in positions of greater power, not the homeless themselves.
Pax Christi
Amen. God Bless You.As you note so well, the plight of the homeless is often the result of sins of people in positions of greater power, not the homeless themselves.
Pax Christi
Robert,Not sure where youāre going with this, but I pay rent and do not have that much cash. I do not have a job, and Iām on disability payments to keep me afloat. Yes, my psychiatrist believed my fear of becoming homeless is irrational; take my disability payments away, and in a few months Iām homeless.
good post. I wish there was something I could do. But I am one trying diligently, with help, to avoid homelessness. Believe, me I cannot wait to help the economy by shopping again one day!! Winter clothing, toiletries, simple household items, ya know, silly fun things like thatā¦Amen. God Bless You.
I will note as a postscript to your comment:
The Gospel of Matthew (later chapters) āhasnāt seen nothinā.ā If Jesus were on earth today and were witnessing this, I would not like to be standing next to Him, feeling His anger, while He condemned those very people in positions of great power.
The homeless are not one category of people, or from one walk of life. There have, in the last 7 years, been CEOs of companies and other people with 6-figure salaries, as well as many middle-class people with previously normal lives, who have experienced homelessness, sometimes precipitously, sometimes after several years of unemployment, during which they had lived on savings they had responsibly accumulated.
I would really like to do some small thing about this during Lent, but Iām not sure of where to start: there are so many areas to tackle. For a long time I have had my own fantasy about what could/should be done. In addition to regulation of inhuman employment policies, I think a responsible government should offer subsidies and tax incentives to the private sector and private individuals to provide loans/subsidies to the employable, previously employed homeless. The fact is, many of the homeless are working. However, they may not have enough for First+Last, and often their credit is shot (especially if they have been foreclosed on or evicted). Thus, it can be a low-risk loan to provide them with first+last. There would have to be arrangements/exceptions to the credit checks demanded by so many landlords, as well. I think Iāll open a new thread in social justice about possible proactive solutions.
Before I do that, I want to leave everyone reading this with this thought, and this especially is directed toward the extreme-free-enterprise fans: Homelessness is a huge negative on a capitalist economy. Huge. It has both local and national effects. The local effects are that businesses are directly affected, both by having fewer customers and by discouraging potential wealthy customers from encountering the nearby āhomeless problem.ā It creates social unrest, which has never been good for any nation, any time, anywhere. If youāre wealthy, it doesnāt ānot affect you.ā Itās also unpleasant, aesthetically, because there are the clean and sanitary homeless, and the ones much less so. There is one area not too far from me which resembles parts of eighteenth century England and France. To say that this is shameful is embarrassingly insufficient. Itās an abomination.
I just jumped another hurdle that should insure my disability until Iām 65 (Iām now 58). No, itās doubtful that can work with without my disability. When Iām 65 I retire and my payments stop, but Iāll receive retirement. When Iām retired I be living with a deficit, and my limited savings will start to diminish.Robert,
Is there any way you would not have disability payments if you are disabled?
Is it possible you can work despite your disability?
My sister is disabled, she got an education and she works. She owns a home, has limited income, works limited amount and we speak often. She, as a disabled person, has never mentioned her disability being stopped. She does on occasion speak of the work she does being diminished, dissolved, dismissed.
So, is your diability permanent or temporary?
Robert,I just jumped another hurdle that should insure my disability until Iām 65 (Iām now 58). No, itās doubtful that can work with without my disability. When Iām 65 I retire and my payments stop, but Iāll receive retirement. When Iām retired I be living with a deficit, and my limited savings will start to diminish.
Not to be disrespectful or dismissive, cheezey, but I have higher ambitions than that. This keeps being recommended by one of my local parishes (ātoiletries, winter clothingā). Thereās nothing wrong with that, but those are current survival needs. They are not more permanent housing needs. I want to see them housed. I think itās demeaning and tokenism for Catholic parishes to absolve their parishioners of further involvement than mere āitems.āgood post. I wish there was something I could do. But I am one trying diligently, with help, to avoid homelessness. Believe, me I cannot wait to help the economy by shopping again one day!! Winter clothing, toiletries, simple household items, ya know, silly fun things like thatā¦
I am glad, and so do I. I am wrting from a bed due to some difficulties and itās difficult to type, so my posts are not as in depth as Iād prefer. I aim to get far beyond just shopping, but when one has been using a spring coat for 20 degree weather, itās really quite all right to look forward to shopping for the basic needs. It will seem like a shopping spree just to be warm.Not to be disrespectful or dismissive, cheezey, but I have higher ambitions than that.
Yes, it is. For some, however, fear is paralyzing..
Fear is a catalyst for change.
There are too few answers, abilities, resources. Which perpetuates the fear til it becomes so buried that it becomes a way of life that is hated and profoundly difficult to change because it has been going on too long and without answers, abilities, resources, and you see where I am going with this.While you fear, you need to act and ask yourself what is it I can do to allay this fear? What does this fear mean to me? Is this fear outside yourself or in your head and will I let this fear drive my behavior?
Believe me, I want help to survive as well as help to avoid this again.Not to be disrespectful or dismissive, cheezey, but I have higher ambitions than that. This keeps being recommended by one of my local parishes (ātoiletries, winter clothingā). Thereās nothing wrong with that, but those are current survival needs. They are not more permanent housing needs. I want to see them housed. I think itās demeaning and tokenism for Catholic parishes to absolve their parishioners of further involvement than mere āitems.ā
Again, as with St. Boniface thread I was previously on, I think the responsibility of religious institutions is not to provide tokenism and call it ācharity,ā but to combine with like-minded religious institutions to provide a pressure/lobby group on local governments, suggesting more structural and permanent solutions. Truth is a cleanser. Thatās why we go to confession: to bring into the light what has been hidden in secret, so that we can be healed. A problem cannot be addressed unless it is aired and revealed. Pastors and rabbis and imams should be on City boards and be at least an adjunct part of city councils to witness to the problem and to cooperate and pressure governments with greater budgets than they have, to form an alliance with religions not just to minister to the homeless but to liberate them from homelessness.
So call it a Homeless Agency or a Homeless Board. Shameful that in the richest nation on earth, in the 21st century, the problem is big enough that there should have to be such, but in many metropolitan areas in this country, it is warranted. Letās call the truth what it is and not just expose it during holiday times or Lenten seasons.
I will grant you that that may be true in selective cases, but it has not worked where I live. The same people who received winter coats 5 years ago are still homeless today, and no closer to being housed. Thatās the point Iām trying to make here.Believe me, I want help to survive as well as help to avoid this again.
I understand and agree with you. But when it is long in the coming, sometimes all you can think of is that warm coat. Get warm, you think better. Think better, you might be able to find a way to make sure you have a warm coat every winter, not just currently.
Again, I agree with you. I lack the ability to be well versed with my thoughts right now. In fact, I am panicking tonight. I am using CAF to calm down.I will grant you that that may be true in selective cases, but it has not worked where I live. The same people who received winter coats 5 years ago are still homeless today, and no closer to being housed. Thatās the point Iām trying to make here.
I recently had a conversation with a student of mine on the āendlessnessā of piecemeal charity. He was talking about the country of his national origin, although he lives here. He discovered that providing āsocial servicesā on a seasonal basis had limited value. It meant a constant infusion of cash, but produced no long-term differences in the quality of life for the most desperately poor in that part of the world. There was no end to need for ācharityā for the very same people, perpetually. All it did was assuage the consciences of those better off, providing that charity.
So, slightly older and wiser now, he and his sister contacted the government to get them involved in participating in an effort to convert the desperately poor to the status of merely low-income (but independent). It involved initiatives on several fronts, and especially oversight against corruption on the part of the govāt officials. (Recall that I posted on a diff. thread about the lack of accountability in the St. Boniface neighborhood, with regard to funds that had been specifically earmarked for the homeless and collected for that purpose, and now have ādisappeared.ā) A similar thing was happening in the studentā's own country, and now it is not happening, because of how enterprising he was. If, in a nation with far less watchdogs than we have, a 17-year-old can succeed in doing that, we much older adults, in a country with more safeguards, should be able to achieve at least as much.