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Depends on which priest. I mean you have some very Godly men like Padre Pio who was given the ability to point out the sins people were not confessing. He somehow had the ability to know dispositions.I don’t know exactly why they stopped, but in the early centuries there was public confession for sins which generally consisted of murder, adultery and idolatry. They would then have a penance and separation of communion for 10-20 years. They were only allowed 1 confession/penance after baptism. If they committed any of these sins (murder, adultery or idolatry) again they were excommunicated. For small sins (venial sins), these were dealt with in private prayer.
Do the priests sometimes retain sins and not provide absolution? Does the priest know whether the confession is sincere or whether the person confessing may have intentions of committing the same sin later? I have often wondered about this.
Never had a priest retain my sins. But I have heard of instances were the person confessing was given a hard time because they are confessing the same sins every week and appeared to have no interest in actually trying to turn away. As we know repent means turn away, not just confess we did it.