Why Are Some People Strongly Opposed to Communion on the Tongue?

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I’ve started receiving on the tongue a few weeks ago, and prefer this practice, especially since I sometimes have a cane in hand. But I feel awkward receiving on the tongue from an extraordinary minister, since he’s not a priest or deacon. Should there be any difference in this case? I haven’t noticed any others receiving on the tongue from an EME, though I haven’t really paid much attention.
 
I’ve started receiving on the tongue a few weeks ago, and prefer this practice, especially since I sometimes have a cane in hand. But I feel awkward receiving on the tongue from an extraordinary minister, since he’s not a priest or deacon. Should there be any difference in this case? I haven’t noticed any others receiving on the tongue from an EME, though I haven’t really paid much attention.
I do it all the time, and do not pay attention to it. I am kneeling and receiving on the tongue in front of them. C’est la vie.

I am not saying a priest isn’t preferable. 🤷

RE: the above.

It’s funny how widespread sin can be and yet people think bishops are all exemplars and can’t be seduced by the errors of the times – and yet look at Protestantism, look at the Orthodox Schism, look at so much.

The link below, ‘Sensus Traditionis’ has a series of sermons on ecclesiology which explains what it means by the Church being ‘holy’. The Church has long been used to the fallibility of bishops and priests, but in these days there seems to be some confusion as to what the Church is and the nature of its existence of earth.

I pray we gain some more saints! 🙂
 
Well then, I’m just a wild eyed hysterical pre-Vatican II altar boy who lied and who has been agonizing over the last forty years. Nope, I just hit the electric Kool Aid with Father before Mass and those tiny white particles on the paten were fig-newtons of our collective kool aid driven perspectives.
Why the hyperbole? Why not simply stick to the matter under discussion. You’re not about to derail me with such tactics…
I’m also a card-carrying member of the "we submitted to the magesterium of HMC forty years ago only to find out that we, not our colleagues, are the ones on electric kool aid all these forty years.
I still submit to the magisterium of the Church. That’s why I reject personal opinions from others that run contrary to the Church. If you were not aware the Catholic Church allows CitH during the OF for those in the USA and that includes me. No, I really don’t care that you feel you know better than the Church on this matter or that you can quote someone else that you feel knows better than the Church…
Pardon me, sir. Are you or are you not strongly opposed to what I hold to be a practice of HMC for over 1500 years? Excuse me. The world changed in 1967. Doesn’t mean we all liked it - we submitted to the magesteriuum.
Please see first paragraph.
I just love it. Father Z presents evidence in black and white which I could have provided in gold and white. We go - behold, observe! and sit back and take our lumps because we are making a mountain out of a mole hill. Uh, huh. Please, instruct me. Just which of us is treating the Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of Our Lord Jesus Christ so cavalierly? Please instruct us why you,sir, are so strongly opposed to Communion on the tongue.
That black glove test was ludicrous. Obviously if you want to manufacture crumbs you can manufacture crumbs. I can also take a photo of a clean glove. Just like your photo it wouldn’t prove a darned thing. I’m fairly sure the person that ran that test and took the picture was an opponent of CitH which adds bias to the mix. The thing is does show is just how weak the arguments are against CitH.

Here’s a question for you. How could the Church allow CitH if CotT were superior? Please think about that before answerings.
 
But what exactly IS the doctrine? Is it the “doctrine of consecrated hands?” What doctrine demanded that Christians receive on the tongue?

I have been taught that this is a “discipline” or a “practice,” not a doctrine, and that disciplines and practices can and do change over time, and this this not sinful.
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Wow. Cat, do you have any idea of why we received on the tongue for so long a period in Church history ? The reasons are indeed based on Catholic teaching. Based on Doctrines actually.
Reasons Cat. Reasons based on certain Doctrines. I actually posted a link on another thread that touched on the doctrinal connection between COTT and In persona Christi. I’ll see if I can find it.
 
brotherhrolf, all of us are sympathetic to what happened to you during your youth, when the Church was ripped away from you with no warning. That is very sad and we feel for you and other Catholics who went through those dark days (ironic, because the announcement was made that the "windows were now opened).

I am especially sympathetic because a similiar thing happened to me while I was Protestant–my husband and I were kicked out of our Protestant church. A tribunal was held, witnesses (that we didn’t even know) were brought in, we were condemned and asked to leave, and from then on, we were shunned by our former church. (The “charges” were falsehoods trumped-up by a jealous woman pastor, who was fired a year later after she was caught in a lie.)

I’m sure you will understand when I say that “my world was shattered.” Did you feel this way, too? All of my worldview revolved around my church, and I had only known love and acceptance in the church. When those in charge treated us like this, it was horrific. I think that’s how you felt, too–totally disoriented and confused and angry and sad. It was as if someone had died, which indeed, is what happened–the church of our childhood was gone, never to return.

But what does this have to do with charioteer’s comments?

**Nowhere has charioteer expressed opposition to Communion on the tongue. ** (And neither have I.)

He/she (and me, too!) is trying to make it clear that the opposition to Communion in the Hand is based on personal preference, not Church teaching. There are some “myths” going around among the “Communion on the tongue” adherents: 1) that only “consecrated hands” can touch the Lord’s Body and 2) that Mother Teresa made a statement to the effect that Communion in the hand is a tragedy.

Both of these are myths. They are not true. The first myth is NOT an official teaching of the Catholic Church. The second myth cannot be proven–there is no document recording this supposed quote from Mother Teresa.

If some of you want to argue in favor of Communion on the tongue, that’s fine and very interesting. But please don’t use myths. (That’s what Jack T. Chick does, and we all don’t trust him, do we?)

brotherhrolf, if you prefer to receive Communion on the tongue, that’s fine. charioteer and I and others aren’t trying to tell you that you’re wrong and we aren’t trying to take this privilege away from you and others.

However, many on this thread are trying to tell those who receive on the hand that they’re wrong. And that’s just not true. That’s NOT what the Catholic Church teaches. We are trying to uphold the truth of the Church here!

BTW, I have been receiving Holy Communion on the tongue for a month and a half now. Frankly, I don’t understand the fuss over the issue. It’s really not a big deal. I haven’t decided what to do once my foot is healed and I don’t have a crutch anymore. Threads like this are interesting to me, but I will say this–**when the Communion in the Tongue adherents attack those who prefer to receive in the hand and use myths and personal opinion to back up their claims, then I am much more inclined to go with the Communion in the hand people who can point to their BISHOP and to the SCRIPTURES as their basis for receiving in the hand. **

This whole business of unconsecrated hands bothers me especially. As far as I’m concerned, my TONGUE is probably the foulest, most sinful part of my body–that passage in James was written all about my tongue. Why doesn’t the tongue have to be consecrated? You see, the theology just isn’t there–this teaching about “consecrated hands” is not Catholic teaching and it doesn’t hold up. Let’s see the Catechism–oh, wait–I forgot. The current Catechism of the Catholic Church is not valid, right? C’mon people! Think about what you’re saying. You’re tearing down the Catholic Church, telling us that our bishops can’t be trusted, our Catechism can’t be trusted, our priests can’t be trusted, that most of the people who receive Holy Communion can’t be trusted (because they receive Holy Communion in the hand instead of the “right way” on the tongue). But YOU are to be trusted. No, I don’t think so.

Sorry, brotherhrolf, most of this post isn’t about you at all. I do trust you and enjoy hearing about the Church that you attend and the Catholic faith that is real to you everyday.
Thank you for the posting. It’s a nice summary. The more I think about this thread the more I wonder about this topic.

The Catholic Church formally allows CitH for the OF Mass in the USA. That’s the Mass I attend in the country in which I reside so I have the option of receiving CitH or CotT. (Actually that’s not true. At this moment in time my bishop has formally suspended CotT during this swine flue scare but that’s an entirely different topic.)

The Catholic Church does not suggest that one method is better than another. The Church does not dissuade anyone from choosing either of the options. There is simply no way the Church would allow the use of an inferior method to distribute communion. Absolutely none. I think that fact is lost on some here.

No one expressed any opposition to CotT. That’s a canard. People expressed a preference for CitH – a preference that is allowed by the Catholic Church.

The Catholic Church’s approval of CitH is the basis for my rejection of the black glove/communion paten/communion rail/stealing of hosts/ “grabbing of handfuls”/FrZ/unconsecrated hands/etc. hyperbole.
 
…I actually posted a link on another thread that touched on the doctrinal connection between COTT and In persona Christi. I’ll see if I can find it.
Someone’s opinion or an actual teaching or directive from the Catholic Church?
 
Possible yes, likely or anywhere near as easy, no. At the Latin Mass Communion is administered by a Priest who is behind the altar rail. It would be nowhere near as easy for someone to walk up and “grab a handful”. The first warning would be when they did not kneel.
And yes some of these events have been devilish. We have a full witches coven operating not that far from our parish in this town. All the more reason to take appropriate steps to ensure it is not so easy! We even have “watchers” who are looking for this kind of thing.
Can one make sure it never happens? Of course not. That does not mean you take no measures to avoid it!
The instances of this kind of thing happening has greatly increased since Communion in the hand was introduced. **
Besides this, you are only referring to the dramatic instances. I mentioned other kinds of abuse that would
never
happen at a Tridentine Mass…
Prove it. Also prove that any increase you have proven is a product of allowing CitH.
 
L’Osservatore Romano itself printed this article…
te-deum.blogspot.com/2008/03/historical-liturgical-notes-on-rite-of.html

I’d say the exhortation by St Cyril that the Bishop quoted would be considered a teaching or directive.
And you would be wrong…

A directive or instruction would come in the form of an official Church document like the GIRM. A Church teaching comes through doctrine.

That’s what confuses me. The Church has formally spoken on this matter. Those that disagree with the Church’s documented position then try to dig-up positions they feel are “better” than the Church’s official position. They in turn are ignored in favor of what the Church actually teaches or directs.

They in turn push harder and harder to sell their personal opinions while those who choose the follow the Catholic Church resist with more and more resolve. It all adds up to a great waste of energy.
 
“The second objection we wanted to consider was directed against the act of receiving Communion: kneeling - standing - hand - mouth. Well, first of all, I would like to say that both attitudes are possible, and I would like therefore to ask priests to exercise tolerance and to recognize the decision of each person; and I would further like to ask you all to exercise the same tolerance and not to cast aspersions on anyone who may have opted for this or that way of doing it.” – Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger

“Well, here again we know that until the ninth century Communion was received in the hand, standing. That does not of course mean it should always be so. For what is fine, sublime, about the Church is that she is growing, maturing, understanding the mystery more profoundly. In that sense the new development that began after the ninth century is quite justified, as an expression of reverence, and is well-founded. But, on the other hand, we have to say that the Church could not possibly have been celebrating the Eucharist unworthily for nine hundred years.” – Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger

“Anyone who reflects on this will recognize that on this point it is quite wrong to argue about this or that form of behavior. We should be concerned only to argue in favor of what the Church’s efforts were directed toward, both before and after the ninth century, that is, a reverence in the heart, an inner submission before the mystery of God that puts himself into our hands. Thus we should not forget that not only our hands are impure but also our tongue and also our heart and that we often sin more with the tongue than with the hands. God takes an enormous risk - and at the same time this is an expression of his merciful goodness - in allowing not only our hands and our tongue but even our heart to come into contact with him.” – Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger

Perhaps our best course of action is to follow this man’s wise advice?

– Mark L. Chance.
 
franciscan-archive.org/apologetica/tongue.html [full text]

I quote:

“Was it universal? The history of Communion in the hand is often presented in certain quarters as follows: From the Last Supper on, Holy Communion was, as the norm, continually given in the hand. So it was during the age of the martyrs. And it continued to be so during that golden age of the Fathers and of the liturgy after the peace of Constantine in 313 A.D. And it continued to be the common practice until at least the tenth century. Thus for over half of the life of the Church it was the norm.”

“It is a compelling story. It is too bad that it is not true.”

“The sacred Council of Trent declared that the custom whereby only the priest-celebrant gives Communion to himself (with his own hands), and the laity receive It from him, is an Apostolic tradition.”

“A more rigorous study of available evidence from Church history and from writings of the Fathers does not support the assertion that Communion in the hand was a universal practice which was gradually supplanted and eventually replaced by the practice of Communion on the tongue. Rather, facts seem to point to a different conclusion: Pope St. Leo the Great (440-461) is an early witness of the traditional practice. In his comments on the sixth chapter of St. John’s Gospel he speaks of Communion in the mouth as the current usage: “One receives in the mouth what one believes by faith.” The Pope does not speak as if he were introducing a novelty, but as if this were a well established thing.”

“A century and a half later Pope St. Gregory the Great (died in 604) is another witness. In his dialogues he relates how Pope St. Agapitus performed a miracle during Mass, after having placed the Body of the Lord into someone’s mouth.”

“We are not claiming that under no circumstances whatever did the faithful receive by their own hands. But under what conditions did this happen? It does seem that from very early times on, it was usual for the priest to place the Sacred Host into the mouth of the communicant. However, during times of persecution, when priests were not readily available, and when the faithful took the Sacrament to their homes, they gave Communion to themselves by their own hand. Rather than be totally deprived of the Bread of Life, they could receive by their own hand. The same applied to monks who had gone out into the desert, where they would not have the services of a priest and would not want to give up the practice of daily holy Communion. St. Basil the Great (330-379) indicates that reception of Communion by one’s own hand was permitted precisely because of persecution, or, as was the case with monks in the desert, when no deacon or priest was available to give It.”

“Thus the Synod of Rouen, France, in about 878 directed: “Do not put the Eucharist in the hands of any layman or laywomen, but only in their mouths” (“nulli autem laico aut feminae eucharistiam in manibus ponat, sed tantum in os eius”). (4) A non-ecumenical Council of Constantinople known as “In Trullo” in 692 A.D. prohibited the faithful from giving Communion to themselves (which is of course what happens when the Sacred Particle is placed in the hand of communicants), and decreed a censure against those who would do so in the presence of a bishop, priest or deacon.”

The problem in these times is A. It is not a time of persecution. B. The catechesis to prevent Communion in the Hand from being irreverent is sporadic at best. C. It should be an exception for difficult situations because it is an inferior practice for inciting reverence and in safety.

We have Councils testifying to the superiority of Communion on the Tongue. It is a done deal: It is superior, the Councils say it. Cardinal Ratzinger, in his private capacity had his opinion – But it is an opinion that is all.

And one which the changing times and results of the practice should make anyone think twice.
 
The initial post or title to this thread seemed intended to stir things up (Us vs. Them, or Latin Mass vs. Vernacular Mass adherents).

In the US, one is allowed to receive either in the hand or on the tongue in vernacular liturgies. In trad. Latin masses, one receives exclusively on the tongue, kneeling.

I go primarily to vernacular mass and receive in the hand. At Latin Masses, I receive on the tongue. Got no prob with either.

I would hope that however one receives or prefers to receive, they would reflect on what receiving the Eucharist means, and how our behavior thereafter should reflect our faith and love, even on CA forums.
 
Actually I’m certain the best course of action is to follow what the Catholic Church directs.
“The second objection we wanted to consider was directed against the act of receiving Communion: kneeling - standing - hand - mouth. Well, first of all, I would like to say that both attitudes are possible, and I would like therefore to ask priests to exercise tolerance and to recognize the decision of each person; and I would further like to ask you all to exercise the same tolerance and not to cast aspersions on anyone who may have opted for this or that way of doing it.” – Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger

“Well, here again we know that until the ninth century Communion was received in the hand, standing. That does not of course mean it should always be so. For what is fine, sublime, about the Church is that she is growing, maturing, understanding the mystery more profoundly. In that sense the new development that began after the ninth century is quite justified, as an expression of reverence, and is well-founded. But, on the other hand, we have to say that the Church could not possibly have been celebrating the Eucharist unworthily for nine hundred years.” – Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger

“Anyone who reflects on this will recognize that on this point it is quite wrong to argue about this or that form of behavior. We should be concerned only to argue in favor of what the Church’s efforts were directed toward, both before and after the ninth century, that is, a reverence in the heart, an inner submission before the mystery of God that puts himself into our hands. Thus we should not forget that not only our hands are impure but also our tongue and also our heart and that we often sin more with the tongue than with the hands. God takes an enormous risk - and at the same time this is an expression of his merciful goodness - in allowing not only our hands and our tongue but even our heart to come into contact with him.” – Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger

Perhaps our best course of action is to follow this man’s wise advice?

– Mark L. Chance.
 
The initial post or title to this thread seemed intended to stir things up (Us vs. Them, or Latin Mass vs. Vernacular Mass adherents).

In the US, one is allowed to receive either in the hand or on the tongue in vernacular liturgies. In trad. Latin masses, one receives exclusively on the tongue, kneeling.

I go primarily to vernacular mass and receive in the hand. At Latin Masses, I receive on the tongue. Got no prob with either.

I would hope that however one receives or prefers to receive, they would reflect on what receiving the Eucharist means, and how our behavior thereafter should reflect our faith and love, even on CA forums.
That’s very well said. I wonder if the OP actually thought he was fooling anyone?
 
franciscan-archive.org/apologetica/tongue.html [full text]

I quote:

“Was it universal? The history of Communion in the hand is often presented in certain quarters as follows: From the Last Supper on, Holy Communion was, as the norm, continually given in the hand. So it was during the age of the martyrs. And it continued to be so during that golden age of the Fathers and of the liturgy after the peace of Constantine in 313 A.D. And it continued to be the common practice until at least the tenth century. Thus for over half of the life of the Church it was the norm.”

“It is a compelling story. It is too bad that it is not true.”

“The sacred Council of Trent declared that the custom whereby only the priest-celebrant gives Communion to himself (with his own hands), and the laity receive It from him, is an Apostolic tradition.”

“A more rigorous study of available evidence from Church history and from writings of the Fathers does not support the assertion that Communion in the hand was a universal practice which was gradually supplanted and eventually replaced by the practice of Communion on the tongue. Rather, facts seem to point to a different conclusion: Pope St. Leo the Great (440-461) is an early witness of the traditional practice. In his comments on the sixth chapter of St. John’s Gospel he speaks of Communion in the mouth as the current usage: “One receives in the mouth what one believes by faith.” The Pope does not speak as if he were introducing a novelty, but as if this were a well established thing.”

“A century and a half later Pope St. Gregory the Great (died in 604) is another witness. In his dialogues he relates how Pope St. Agapitus performed a miracle during Mass, after having placed the Body of the Lord into someone’s mouth.”

“We are not claiming that under no circumstances whatever did the faithful receive by their own hands. But under what conditions did this happen? It does seem that from very early times on, it was usual for the priest to place the Sacred Host into the mouth of the communicant. However, during times of persecution, when priests were not readily available, and when the faithful took the Sacrament to their homes, they gave Communion to themselves by their own hand. Rather than be totally deprived of the Bread of Life, they could receive by their own hand. The same applied to monks who had gone out into the desert, where they would not have the services of a priest and would not want to give up the practice of daily holy Communion. St. Basil the Great (330-379) indicates that reception of Communion by one’s own hand was permitted precisely because of persecution, or, as was the case with monks in the desert, when no deacon or priest was available to give It.”

“Thus the Synod of Rouen, France, in about 878 directed: “Do not put the Eucharist in the hands of any layman or laywomen, but only in their mouths” (“nulli autem laico aut feminae eucharistiam in manibus ponat, sed tantum in os eius”). (4) A non-ecumenical Council of Constantinople known as “In Trullo” in 692 A.D. prohibited the faithful from giving Communion to themselves (which is of course what happens when the Sacred Particle is placed in the hand of communicants), and decreed a censure against those who would do so in the presence of a bishop, priest or deacon.”

The problem in these times is A. It is not a time of persecution. B. The catechesis to prevent Communion in the Hand from being irreverent is sporadic at best. C. It should be an exception for difficult situations because it is an inferior practice for inciting reverence and in safety.

We have Councils testifying to the superiority of Communion on the Tongue. It is a done deal: It is superior, the Councils say it. Cardinal Ratzinger, in his private capacity had his opinion – But it is an opinion that is all.

And one which the changing times and results of the practice should make anyone think twice.
Just follow the Church. Make your personal choice from the approved options the Church allows. Please don’t try to dig up documentation that you personally feel trumps the Church’s official direction on the matter because it does not.
 
Just follow the Church. Make your personal choice from the approved options the Church allows. Please don’t try to dig up documentation that you personally feel trumps the Church’s official direction on the matter because it does not.
One thing I do know is that the Pope himself has said it is quite wrong to argue about it. It turns into some ugly arguing as we see here.

It is already established that it is what one prefers to do and that that is OK. And I am also of the mind that it all becomes rather a relfection of what we want for ourselves rather then of what God wants; on both sides.
 
L’Osservatore Romano itself printed this article…
te-deum.blogspot.com/2008/03/historical-liturgical-notes-on-rite-of.html

I’d say the exhortation by St Cyril that the Bishop quoted would be considered a teaching or directive.
Thank you for posting. I like the reference to Ezekiel. There are several other Scriptural incidences of God feeding one of His prophets. It is a very pleasing image.

I’m a little skeptical of the nursing mother analogy. I’ve nursed babies, and I can testify that they use their hands and “knead” the breast quite vigorously.

I think that the article proves that what I have been taught is the truth–it is a “custom” or a “tradition” to receive Holy Communion the tongue, at least after the 9th Century. I agree with Pope Benedict XVI, that surely the Church was not receiving the Lord in an unworthy manner for nine centuries! What a horrible thought!

(Kind of reminds me of the teaching that I received as a Protestant, mainly that after the apostles died at the end of the first century, the church fell into apostacy and was taken over by Catholics, and it wasn’t until the 16th Century when Martin Luther came along that the Church was restored to the way it was meant to be! In other words, God allowed His Church to languish in apostacy and false teaching for fifteen centuries! I don’t think so!!!)

But the posted article does not present Communion on the Tongue as a official dogma or doctrine of the Church. Although various Popes and many saints have expressed their personal preference for Communion on the tongue, no pope has declared from the papal chair that Communion on the tongue is the only proper way to receive Jesus, and no pope has declared from the papal chair that Communion in the hand desecrates His Body.
 
“The second objection we wanted to consider was directed against the act of receiving Communion: kneeling - standing - hand - mouth. Well, first of all, I would like to say that both attitudes are possible, and I would like therefore to ask priests to exercise tolerance and to recognize the decision of each person; and I would further like to ask you all to exercise the same tolerance and not to cast aspersions on anyone who may have opted for this or that way of doing it.” – Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger

“Well, here again we know that until the ninth century Communion was received in the hand, standing. That does not of course mean it should always be so. For what is fine, sublime, about the Church is that she is growing, maturing, understanding the mystery more profoundly. In that sense the new development that began after the ninth century is quite justified, as an expression of reverence, and is well-founded. But, on the other hand, we have to say that the Church could not possibly have been celebrating the Eucharist unworthily for nine hundred years.” – Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger

“Anyone who reflects on this will recognize that on this point it is quite wrong to argue about this or that form of behavior. We should be concerned only to argue in favor of what the Church’s efforts were directed toward, both before and after the ninth century, that is, a reverence in the heart, an inner submission before the mystery of God that puts himself into our hands. Thus we should not forget that not only our hands are impure but also our tongue and also our heart and that we often sin more with the tongue than with the hands. God takes an enormous risk - and at the same time this is an expression of his merciful goodness - in allowing not only our hands and our tongue but even our heart to come into contact with him.” – Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger

Perhaps our best course of action is to follow this man’s wise advice?

– Mark L. Chance.
I am grateful that the Holy Father made the comment about the tongue being so sinful. I said the same thing in an earlier post.

That being said, I agree with all those here who say that receiving on the tongue is a humbling experience, because you have to TRUST someone to place the Eucharist correctly on the tongue. That is really, REALLY hard to do, and I think that this is the answer to the OP–people who strongly oppose Communion on the Tongue have a difficult time trusting their fellow Christians.

I certainly can understand this. As I mentioned in another post, I (and my husband) were kicked out of our Protestant church by the pastors and a trumped-up tribunal of deacons, elders, and laypeople, many of whom we didn’t even know. It was straight out of Cotton Mather’s time–a trial, a condemnation (false), an ousting, and a shunning. The only thing missing was the hanging.

This awful event occurred in February of 2002, and I would say that now, over seven years later, I STILL do not trust Christians. I try very hard to trust Catholic Christians, and I do love many of them. But I honestly, truly don’t trust them. I’m sorry.

You see, I_Believe, this is why being able to trust the bishops is vitally important to me, and why I am so “emotional” about it, as you call it. Yes, I’m emotional. I’ve been treated cruelly and capriously by those who were in authority in church (Protestant pastors), and if it happens again, I don’t think I’ll be able to weather it.

I know that other Catholics have even more horrible stories of a time(s) in their lives when trust was betrayed by a fellow Catholic. Obviously the stories of children and young people abused by priests come to mind. But there are lots of incidents described on this very board by Catholics who were betrayed and treated cruelly by Catholics, including priests and religious, that they thought they could trust.

So I think that the reason why many Catholics do not receive Holy Communion on the tongue is that they just can’t find it in themselves to trust the priest (or EMHC) to place the Eucharist correctly on their tongue. They’re afraid of allowing themselves to be in that vulnerable position.

Yearg ago, Dr. James Dobson drew up a list of physical interactions between human beings, and rated them according to intimacy levels, and I believe that “hand to mouth or face” is a fairly intimate act. (The scale starts with hand to hand, hand to arm, arm to arm, etc., and ends with genital to genital as the most intimate contact that humans can engage in.)

That makes it even harder–not only does a Catholic have to trust, but they have to trust the other person to do something “intimate” with them. As many of you know, in the U.S. our idea of personal comfort zone is fairly large. Most of us do not like to be close to others, touch or be touched by strangers, etc. Again, this is a trust issue–we aren’t very trusting in the U.S.

So that’s my answer to the OP–it’s a trust thing. We don’t trust others as much as we trust ourselves. And if someone is going to drop the Body of Christ, we would rather do it ourselves than have someone else cause us to drop Him.
 
The kinds of people who don’t like people receiving Communion on the tongue are the kinds of people who don’t like tradition.
I worry about this because in my parish I have never seen that plate you place beneath the Host during Communion. Most people here receive in the hands. I don’t think I’ve seen it done another way.
 
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