Why are these Fora so overwhelming Conservative

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LOL good one!

Hey, I like blunt honesty, I actually prefer a little cantankerousness rather than “smile to your face and stab you in the back” people.

Just don’t be a provoker, OK?

🙂
I think all the professional voker positions are taken, so my efforts in that direction, if any, are certain to be rather mild. And really, i’m not saying anything new, albeit to many it is radically unfamiliar. thanks for your support and encouragement despite our own differences. I like the surety of being able to function with folks with whom I can own up to my differences, accept theirs, and still be able to talk. 🙂
 
I’m just happy to be here and hope i don’t get booted for being direct and honest with one member. Maybe I’ll be around “fora” bit, lol!
I really really enjoy your posts and your take on things. You’re one of a handful of great posters here I always read, even when I’m not involved in the topic, because I love your approach, your perspective, your ability to say what needs to be said on occasions 😉 and because you always make me go :hmmm:

Occasionally :rotfl:

Sometimes :hypno:

Rarely :bigyikes:

But when you do this:
Maybe I’ll be around “fora” bit,
you make me go :banghead:

😛

Sarah x 🙂
 
I’m just happy to be here and hope i don’t get booted for being direct and honest with one member. 🙂 Maybe I’ll be around “fora” bit, lol!
I hope you don’t get booted either, Gaber.

It is certainly good for you to be here and to be in dialogue with Catholics who are knowledgeable about their faith and can provide apologia and offer some answers to that which you think unanswerable.

By learning more about the faith you left, you can, indeed, learn to “Know Yourself”.

In both East and West, we may trace a journey which has led humanity down the centuries to meet and engage truth more and more deeply. It is a journey which has unfolded—as it must—within the horizon of personal self-consciousness: the more human beings know reality and the world, the more they know themselves in their uniqueness, with the question of the meaning of things and of their very existence becoming ever more pressing. This is why all that is the object of our knowledge becomes a part of our life. The admonition Know yourself was carved on the temple portal at Delphi, as testimony to a basic truth to be adopted as a minimal norm by those who seek to set themselves apart from the rest of creation as “human beings”, that is as those who “know themselves”.–Pope JPII –“Fides et Ratio”
 
I really really enjoy your posts and your take on things. You’re one of a handful of great posters here I always read, even when I’m not involved in the topic, because I love your approach, your perspective, your ability to say what needs to be said on occasions 😉 and because you always make me go :hmmm:

Occasionally :rotfl:

Sometimes :hypno:

Rarely :bigyikes:

But when you do this:

you make me go :banghead:

😛

Sarah x 🙂
Oh, Dear, don’t hurt yourself! Sorry, it was just too obvious not to take advantage of, both in the statement and the thread title.

But it points to something relevant: the idea of dimensionality in the turn of phrase, and words as fulcrums or the kind of puncturing of limits we enjoy from humor due to the unexpected use of a word or situation that points to another facet. And perhaps this is where the ideas of liberalism and conservatism have differences?

I have mentioned before the study and book that looks at the differences of conservative and liberal thinking. And while as someone who is liberal, I can acknowledge the usefulness, within certain bounds, of conservatism, that mind set is not as useful for deeper, broader, and more encompassing views than what to me is preservationism. And of course that is wonderful, until we need to get out of the box that caused our problems. We can’t solve problems on the level or within the parameters of what caused them.

As this might apply to religion, I wish to clearly distinguish between an acquired, inculcated faith taken at face value and used as a sheild, and the activity of mining a faith, any faith, or even lacking of one, for universal values pertinent on here, at least to the idea of being made in the image and likeness of God. Elsewhere I might very well use other terminology, but that suits here.

All of my criticisms of any faith or belief system, religious or not, boil down to this: the one thinking about it and making comparisons and drawing conclusions most very often does not have a clear and useful grasp of the very instrument and its nature that they are using to accept their premises and use those to come to conclusions. In other words there is a lack, sometimes profound, of self awareness. The accepted paradigm is substituted for a working knowledge of one’s not so dinkum thinkum. So yet while we merrily go into fields of complexity in economic, political, religious, social, and other areas of endeavor, the last thing we tend to do is look at the looker.

Now we might do that if the looker seems to be broken, which means a person is not agreeing for one reason or another with consensus reality. That would be the reality that on a day to day basis we consider, very mistakenly, to have a 1/1 relationship to Reality Itself. But we most certainly do not do that if we fit comfortably into a group of consentuees. Catholics, Shintoists, Atheists, Cargo cultists, Mormons, Jews, you nameem, look to their won for agreement as to what the world is about, because faith is safety from the unknown and any explanation of the Unknown/able that does not contradict physicality in a gross way will do. Raelians, for example, get along perfectly well in the world so long as it doesn’t come down to an argument about origins.

But no one, or precious few, look at the very water they are swimming in. The reflexive quality of human awareness is used in passing or by accident, and sometimes in and awkward clinical way, But it is very rarely systematically delved into, save by mystics and contemplatives of any stripe. And what is remarkable is that over the ages, regardless of circumstance, location, culture, religion or lack of it, all of the proponents of that search come up with a nearly indistinguishable model of human relationship to what on here is called “God”

From the perspective of that search as conducted to its end by those Saints and Sages, Catholic or not, all of the particulars of what is considered the main body of doctrine of our religion or any or lack thereof is easily seen and accounted for, and in a far simpler and much more useful manner. All of it. Without, I might add, destroying one iota of its signification, meaning, importance, value, or portent.

What does hap[pen, is that all of that is put on the biblically proverbial Rock that is recommended as a foundation for a structure, that structure being the mind in conformity to Reality as it IS, not as it is thought. Why? Because as it is thought, the light to the thinking is not accounted for experientially. If it is, the accounting is in a descending mode from actuality as destinct from and ascending mode based on belief.

So all that has this to do with the thread: it is far more likely, imo, for a “liberal” to undertake and impartial study of self and its mysteries, because ideas can grow in and as experience, than it is for a “conservative” who by dint of faith believes that all answers are at hand in their paradigm as intellectual or believed knowledge to be applied legalistically.

those very same conservatives will either deny or extol the virtues of the mystic life, usually up to and only up to the eight level, but will decline the actual tools available for such exploration and thus keep it theoretical as far as their own experience. Andthe mistake in that is that the search I propone here is about identity as it actually IS, not as it is thought about. The difference is like reading about the sport of swimming by a Tuareg and a water baby in an LA pool.

And it has nothing to do with being Catholic, or not, or being atheist, or any such thing. But at least the atheist is not necessarily hampered by belief and has, actually the advantage of not anthropmorphizing THAT into a “Person.” And really, neither one is in a better position. You can’t accomplish what you already are. You can only discover something rather astounding in the place of thinking about it.
 
I don’t know that I entirely buy the assumptions in post 297 as reflecting what the world’s religions do and do not do (including but not limited to Catholicism). The Catholic Church has been looking in the water it is swimming in for 2000 years. That gaze has resulted in a rich heritage of diversely stated and diversely understood orthodox theology. It has resulted in the world’s premier and most varied prayer resources, historically, extending to the present age. It has produced fruits in the way of culture shared with the world, culture applied to the world, and culture learned from the world.

That said, any system of thought, including secular systems such as economics, is not very useful without anchors – without which there is no useful stability by which to evaluate itself over time. Embracing and declaring certain fixed (“absolute”) and timeless principles is essential to identifying a system to begin with. Otherwise, the system in question ceases to be an intellectual system and is merely a fad or something subject to personal opinion.
 
This is kind of what I was getting at when I said earlier that anyone turned off from Catholicism by the supposed “conservatism” of CAF (which I think is laughable; anyone who thinks this place is conservative simply lacks historical perspective) was probably not seriously seeking in the first place. Suppose someone comes here, finds out that some Catholics support the death penalty, and runs away scandalized. Is that a loss? Probably not. That person came here with the attitude that Catholicism must validate his or her prejudices. S/he left because it didn’t. That’s not an attitude conducive to sincere and genuine conversion, which is nothing less than totally giving oneself over to Christ.
👍 Many non-Catholics are under the impression that Catholics are severely restricted by ecclesiastical doctrines but there is an astonishing richness and variety of opinion on important matters which reflects the influence of different cultures from all over the world. Like St Paul the Church makes herself “all things to all men” (which includes women and children!)
 
👍 Many non-Catholics and Catholics are under the impression that Catholics are severely restricted by ecclesiastical doctrines but there is an astonishing richness and variety of opinion on important matters which reflects the influence of different cultures from all over the world. Like St Paul the Church makes herself “all things to all men” (which includes women and children!)
Addition mine, Tony. 🙂
 
I have mentioned before the study and book that looks at the differences of conservative and liberal thinking. And while as someone who is liberal, I can acknowledge the usefulness, within certain bounds, of conservatism, that mind set is not as useful for deeper, broader, and more encompassing views than what to me is preservationism. And of course that is wonderful, until we need to get out of the box that caused our problems. We can’t solve problems on the level or within the parameters of what caused them.

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Not one of us can subtract himself or herself from the context of culture, beliefs, history, etc. No one stands outside the system but God Himself. Anyone who thinks their mind is more open than anyone else’s is delusional. We all have our biases, we all have our separate experiences, we all think we are unique. No one is any better, no one is any worse. All of us are children of God even if we choose not to recognize Him as such. You think you are looking at an aquarium of fish, not knowing that they are wet? But you yourself are swimming in your own aquarium. Glug Glug.
 
👍 Many non-Catholics are under the impression that Catholics are severely restricted by ecclesiastical doctrines but there is an astonishing richness and variety of opinion on important matters which reflects the influence of different cultures from all over the world. Like St Paul the Church makes herself “all things to all men” (which includes women and children!)
Addition mine, Tony. 🙂
👍👍
 
Anyone who thinks their mind is more open than anyone else’s is delusional.
I could not disagree more. Every person is unique in this measure.

In fact, I’ve had conservatives tell me I was too open-minded and that if I open it too much my “brains will fall out.” Well that’s the idea; get rid of them so we can get some that work! Actually the thing about brains falling out never made sense to me my entire life until recently I found out brains operate on a continuum between growth mode and protection mode. Anxiety, fear, anger, judgment, all move it toward protection. Love and gratitude move it toward growth. Both modes are necessary, but I think too many people have closed off the “growth” mode intentionally because early in their lives their authority figures made learning painful. But that’s just one theory.

Alan
 
I hope you don’t get booted either, Gaber.
Thank you for not taking the “contraceptive mentality” in dealing with a person with whom you disagree. Honestly I think that’s exactly what it is when we try to silence or “cut off” people who differ in opinion rather than hear them out. I think “listen twice, and speak but once if at all” is a simplistic way to put it.

Oh, and btw earlier I’m really sorry you took the cancer thing the way I wrote it 😦 – next time you see something that seems out of character you might want to point it out before reacting; it may have been an edit I failed to make but would like to have made. 😉

I do find we go in meaningless circles at times, but I do not doubt your sincerity throughout. :cool:

Alan
 
I could not disagree more. Every person is unique in this measure.
I think Julianne’s point is that ulitmately, objectivity is impossible when it comes to human perception. This also fits in with theories of philosphy, psychology, and literary analysis (espeically of the modern era). We see reality through “prejudiced” (individualized) lenses, lenses which affect our understanding of what we are seeing and how we are interpreting that sight.
 
I think Julianne’s point is that ulitmately, objectivity is impossible when it comes to human perception.
OK, but just because the differences cannot be objectively measured, doesn’t mean that they aren’t there or that one person may not be more open than another in a single discussion on any given topic. Not only are they different, in some cases these differences in openness amount and flavor, can be important.

Actually I think that people’s open-mindedness also varies by mood, circumstances, and the topic at hand – even within individual people – as they go through life’s journey. For example, someone may be open to discussions about ball games while not wanting to hear about politics – same person may be just the opposite an hour later.
We see reality through “prejudiced” (individualized) lenses, lenses which affect our understanding of what we are seeing and how we are interpreting that sight.
Agree. 👍

Alan
 
I think Julianne’s point is that ulitmately, objectivity is impossible when it comes to human perception. This also fits in with theories of philosphy, psychology, and literary analysis (espeically of the modern era). We see reality through “prejudiced” (individualized) lenses, lenses which affect our understanding of what we are seeing and how we are interpreting that sight.
That’s most of what I was saying. But I was directing it specifically to Gaber because his posts suggest that somehow, he stands in a place apart where he can judge the rest of us as lacking in objectivity or ability to see with a larger scope, as he does. In other words, like so many liberals do, he condescends and patronizes, thinking that HE is standing outside somehow and can look at us fish and tell us that we are wet. But he is still in a larger fishbowl himself, and thinks his fins are legs.

Get me?
 
That’s most of what I was saying. But I was directing it specifically to Gaber because his posts suggest that somehow, he stands in a place apart where he can judge the rest of us as lacking in objectivity or ability to see with a larger scope, as he does. In other words, like so many liberals do, he condescends and patronizes, thinking that HE is standing outside somehow and can look at us fish and tell us that we are wet. But he is still in a larger fishbowl himself, and thinks his fins are legs.

Get me?
That echoes my thoughts as well. I heard a theolgian comment that sometimes mystics are simply getting high on their own brain chemistry rather than being somehow more enlightened than us mere mortals.

And anyone who thinks Catholics simply accept dogma without question has never met a Jesuit.

Lisa
 
That’s most of what I was saying. But I was directing it specifically to Gaber because his posts suggest that somehow, he stands in a place apart where he can judge the rest of us as lacking in objectivity or ability to see with a larger scope, as he does. In other words, like so many liberals do, he condescends and patronizes, thinking that HE is standing outside somehow and can look at us fish and tell us that we are wet. But he is still in a larger fishbowl himself, and thinks his fins are legs.

Get me?
PMFJIH

I know Gaber enjoys the ability to take a non-dualistic view toward things, and I have to say that it is pretty exciting and one that is hard to share with someone who does not know such views already. Once you learn to do that on a regular basis things all seem different, even peaceful and joyful. You want everybody to learn non-dualistic thinking. Chances are, most people aren’t going to learn for any number of reasons (unless they do it through their own dark night such as by suffering) and will be stuck with an academic view or no view at all on non-dualistic thinking. So it’s easy to come off as pushy. Just try to take it instead of “you should think like I think,” just look at it as, “I wish I could show you what I see now.”

Now don’t get me wrong. Nothing wrong with dualistic thinking. Even Mooji, who is obviously a non-dualistic (non-Catholic tho) thinker, defends duality. But learning about non-dualistic thinking just in this past year, has opened my eyes to all sorts of wonderful things I’ve never experienced before, in five decades. I think soon the dualistic and non-dualistic thinking will reach harmony and I won’t even think about either one anymore. I love to see the points of view that are different than my own; if it seems to have merit I assimilate and if not it just goes into memory.

Alan
 
Not one of us can subtract himself or herself from the context of culture, beliefs, history, etc. No one stands outside the system but God Himself. Anyone who thinks their mind is more open than anyone else’s is delusional. We all have our biases, we all have our separate experiences, we all think we are unique. No one is any better, no one is any worse. All of us are children of God even if we choose not to recognize Him as such. You think you are looking at an aquarium of fish, not knowing that they are wet? But you yourself are swimming in your own aquarium. Glug Glug.
Actually, we can. ant that is what I’ve been harping on since I joined these fora. and that is what, in my estimation, is the downfall of the public teaching of the Church. It doesn’t account for the necessary end result of a successful, if you will, accomplishment in the realm of contemplation, not anyway bond what I call, and some others, the eighth level. that makes of the great possibility of error, since the majority of extractions form the Scriptures are made by folks who haven’t gone that far. and that explains why there is such reviling of those who do. And it matches why Jesus was put on that horrible instrument of torture.

More later. I’m off to my Bowen therapist with my girlfriend.
 
That echoes my thoughts as well. I heard a theolgian comment that sometimes mystics are simply getting high on their own brain chemistry rather than being somehow more enlightened than us mere mortals.
It is such a different way of thinking, that it takes quite a bit of calibration to become sociable again. Without calibration, the experiences may be wonderful but hard to control when trying to share with others. :o

Alan
 
Thank you for not taking the “contraceptive mentality” in dealing with a person with whom you disagree. Honestly I think that’s exactly what it is when we try to silence or “cut off” people who differ in opinion rather than hear them out. I think “listen twice, and speak but once if at all” is a simplistic way to put it.

Oh, and btw earlier I’m really sorry you took the cancer thing the way I wrote it 😦 – next time you see something that seems out of character you might want to point it out before reacting; it may have been an edit I failed to make but would like to have made. 😉

I do find we go in meaningless circles at times, but I do not doubt your sincerity throughout. :cool:

Alan
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