Why are traditionalist forums so appalling?

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As a convert from Judaism, I think that the retaining and learning of a Liturgical Language is a source of unity in a relgion

Yes, that is precisely the reason why I think there should be more Latin in the Mass… it gives all Catholics a “touchstone” of unity that will be the same wherever they go. Plus, learning a different language is good for your mind, as well as your heart and soul.

“EF” by the way, stands for Extraordinary Form, the technical term for the “old” Mass; others call it the “TLM” for Traditional (or Tridentine) Latin Mass. “NO” stands for “Novus Ordo,” the “new” Mass promulgated after Vatican II. A Novus Ordo Mass can be said entirely or partially in Latin, by the way, and no special permission need be granted by the local bishop to do this (as far as I know). A TLM used to require special permission from the local bishop (an indult), but the current pope has made it much easier for priests to offer this type of Mass.

I notice also that traditionalist type forums do sometimes tend to rely on acronyms and jargon like EF, TLM, ad orientem (priest celebrates Mass facing the altar and away from the people), etc. and participants may forget that sometimes people will visit these forums who have no idea what they are talking about.
 
Take it up with your parish priest, people should be at mass, in mass while it’s going on, if what you are telling me is true, people are buying and eating food instead of being in mass? That’s a mortal sin that should be addressed, and it’s up to parishoners to bring these issues to the local table, not the international.
No, just quietly buying, and there was a bit of a wall separation -it wasn’t as bad as I made it sound. Sorry.
 
I sometimes look at Angelqueen forum, and another one called Fisheaters, and I’ve learned some interesting info there about church history, liturgy etc. There seem to be some genuinely friendly people on those forums, but I’ve decided I can’t look at them anymore because a lot of people on them are downright mean and nasty. There’s blatant anti semitism, derogatory comments about people who go to the ordinary form of the mass and horrible comments about Pope John Paul II and Benedict XVI. I’ve been to an FSSP parish and found the people there quite lovely and welcoming, so why do trad forums seem to attract such a nasty caliber of people? I guess it’s just like any other internet forum, where you get some nutjobs, but it seems a lot more common on trad forums, with the exception of this one.
I’m not sure you should judge a movement from an internet forum. Forums have their own ‘culture’. 😉 There are many Catholics I have spoken to who have never heard of Catholic Answers. One priest I met said CA is too ‘right wing’.:rolleyes:
As for the forums you mention. The ONE thing I notice that is lacking is piety.
 
I can’t keep the spirit when I’m distracted by donuts being sold in the vestibule, or even by bad singing - I’m trying to worship Almighty God.
Bad singing, I can deal with, if it is a traditional Gloria or Credo, bad songs, no thanks. And Doughnuts would really distract me. MMMMM Doooougnuts… MMMMMMM.

Nope I’ve attended my local parish when I have had to. Sounds like a piano bar. The lectoress emotes like a High School Theater production, and the canto/piano player is very professional, just a little problem with choices in songs which nobody knows, so they end up being solos. But I try to focus, take my old Breviary with me and recite the prayers from it, while I pray that God will accept my own poor prayers, and those of the rest of the congregation. I also have to admit to God that while the liturgy is not to my taste, I have no reason to believe that the pirest does not intend to do what they Church intends, even if his interpretation from Cardinal Mohony’s liturgy suggestions it remains a valid mass. In my case I can participate not in just Jesus glory but in His suffering.:rolleyes:
 
I can’t speak for those other forums. I’ve been a member of CAF for over five years.

I can only speak for myself. I am 58 years old and I grew up within HMC before Vatican II.
I’m only a few years younger than you and I remember pre-VII also. The only part of the mass I understood was the Kyrie. And that was Greek! I don’t remember if the prayer books had the English side | Latin side. If they did, it didn’t “take” with me because I don’t remember any of it.
I saw my parents and our neighbors reduced to second class citizens…\quote]
That seems a tad melodramatic.
I wasn’t happy to have to sing Simon and Garfunkel’s Bridge over Troubled Waters and Sounds of Silence at my Catholic high school’s graduation Mass in 1969. If you had not been there, you would not have understood just how appalling that was - particularly since I sang in the choir for the class of 1968’s graduation and it was Latin and traditional hymns.
There’s no doubt there was some bad music from that era. My shudder-inducing memory is singing “He is for real” to the tune of “It’s only make believe”. But it has greatly improved since then. It drives me crazy when “trads” (as you seem to call yourselves) keep harping on about “Kumbya” music. Today’s music is, for the most part, very reverent and appropriate
Do a little research y’all and see how many Latin words were adopted into the English language during the Renaissance.
Lots of French and German words were adopted into English too. Does that mean you’d find it easy to learn those languages? I’m not saying Latin is hard. I’m just asking, is it necessary?
 
Angelqueen posters are always angry, but I get angry at some V2 masses I’ve attended, and I think it is a righteous anger, at the destruction of a beautiful liturgy, etc. Some of their members relish ridiculing women and that scares me. I always learn something on AQ - like suggestions for reading, or prayers. Traditional prayers, like in the pre V2 missals, are sublime in comparison to today’s. imho
1.) The EF Mass is allowed.

2.) The OF Mass** is every bit** as beautiful as the EF Mass.
 
That’s true, but there’s a special sort of nastiness I’ve seen on these particular forums that’s pretty shocking, and they seem to be the main trad forums on the internet. I know it’s not reflective of traditionalists in general, but it’s more than a couple of people. Are there any other trad forums that are a bit more civil than the two I mentioned?
I find that at FE, the posters that are endearing are worth the few unpolished ones. The forum isn’t very heavily moderated, and it’s not for very young people, but the website has some great stuff on it.

PM me, I can give you some links but no promises for perfect manners at any of them. 🙂
 
Well, look through how the pharisee were behaving, how Christ denounced them and their ways. Sure, they were as traditional as it gets, they crossed every t, dotted every i, they were just absolutely perfect with their rituals, but they completely missed the spirit of it all, for it’s easy to follow a cookie cutter system rather then getting real and avoiding legalism.
You’re a little confused. It was their hypocrisy that was the problem. That’s why Jesus basically said “do as they say, not as they do”…Thanks for lumping in trads with pharisees, though…I really appreciate that, along with the other baseless, asinine insinuations in the paragraph above.

It’s a good thing VII happened so that the Church could finally smash the “cookie cutter” (used by countless saints) to end the 1,500+ year reign of legalism so that Catholics could finally “get real”…(How’s that for a bit of uneducated, revisionist history?)

Why are traditionalist forums so appalling??? I’ve noticed that it’s often due to the non-trad members who come to them denouncing trads like me from the get-go by telling me and others that we they have a “holier-than-thou” attitude. Excuse me? You know me? Oh, maybe you do, since we’re all cut from the same cookie cutter…Know one trad, know them all, I guess.
 
I’ve seen similar attitudes on this forum, in fact usually I make it a point not to read the Traditional Catolicism forum. There seems to be an elitist attitude, especially in the way some people insist on using Latin wherever possible, as if Traditional Catholic was an exclusive club and you have to know the language to qualify for membership. I’ve heard some traditionalists say that nothing good has come out of Rome since the Vatican II debacle. Myself, I’m in the middle. I deplore the “new age-ness” that is creeping into some parishes. But I also can’t stand the attitude that inclusive language is wrong. One poster here was scandalized because the priest said “sisters and brothers” during mass instead of “brothers and sisters”. I mean, seriously!?
Sorry for the rant, this has been a pet peeve of mine for a long time.
You and I share same views lol.

I am glad I read these post because alot of people show here that they hold on to tradition, but are not fundamentalist or “closed minded”. No doubt that our Church is in a bad state, but division is never going to solve anything.
 
I can’t speak for those other forums. I’ve been a member of CAF for over five years.

I can only speak for myself. I am 58 years old and I grew up within HMC before Vatican II. I was an altar boy. What gets lost today is that when the changes started around 1967, most people were simply appalled. What gets lost today is that none of us…not me, not my parents, aunts, uncles, etc. would ever dream of defying the Magesterium of HMC. Rome spoke and we obeyed - which is a concept which is alien to today.

I firmly believe that there are any number of people of my generation and my parent’s generation (still alive) who were not happy with what happened in 67. (Yeah, I am more than aware that the OF was installed on the first Sunday of Advent in 69. Been there, done that). It was formalized then. The changes started two years earlier.

I was the senior altar boy for my parish when the archbishop consecrated our new church in 1967. I saw my parents marginalized in the years following. When the 10 Mass whipped out the guitars and the “hippie” music in the early 70s, they started going to the 8 Mass. When the 8 Mass unplugged the “state of the art” electronic organ in the mid 70s; they went to the 4:30 vigil Mass on Saturday.

I saw my parents and our neighbors reduced to second class citizens. I can understand some of the resentment coming from my parent’s generation.

I wasn’t happy to have to sing Simon and Garfunkel’s Bridge over Troubled Waters and Sounds of Silence at my Catholic high school’s graduation Mass in 1969. If you had not been there, you would not have understood just how appalling that was - particularly since I sang in the choir for the class of 1968’s graduation and it was Latin and traditional hymns.

I do not understand my fellow traditionalists who came to understand what we have lost in the last 40 years. I grew up before Vatican II. I am not dead yet and I profoundly miss that which I grew up with. I am not about to challenge the Magesterium and haven’t for these last 40 years.

I don’t think y’all have any idea of how absolutely “gut wrenching” Vatican II was. Just for the record, I do not attend an EF parish. My last EF (and I do not like that word, for me it is the TLM) was in 1975.

I try very hard not to be bitter or snappish but I remember what HMC was like before.
Agreed on almost all points. I have two years on you, though… those who “came later” would find it very difficult indeed to believe the cruel way the Faithful were treated back then. And yes, actually “The Changes” came rolling in every 2 years or so from 1962. Just enough to keep us all off balance for nearly a decade. Each change was more extensive than the last. The 1962 change was almost imperceptible. I very clearly remember the first 1965 Mass – no Prayers At the Foot of the Altar – goodbye ‘forever’ (as I thought) to that refrain all through my childhood: Introíbo ad altare Dei: * “I will go up to the altar of God: Unto God, who gave joy to my youth”.* [p.s. I will be practising my youngest son, and his friend, through these very words after Mass this morning – thank you, Pope Benedict and Mgr Lefebvre]… then in 1967 the Canon was said all through out loud. But by then there were literally hundreds of “experimental” Liturgies being used indiscriminately. So by the time we got the 1969 Official Liturgy, my initial feeling was one of relief: at least some stability! Just as I was supposed to feel. For it was done on purpose, a calculated strategy. Conspiracy theory? No. Cdl Heenan, leader of the Catholic Church in England, said so in so many words towards the end of that dreadful decade: “If we had introduced the changes all at once you would not have accepted them”.

Regularly, after Mass, worldwide, some of the men would be boiling mad and the some of the women would be in tears.

My parents – my mother a convert, my father an Irish Catholic tracing his Faith unbroken to St Patrick, 1500 years before – stopped going to Mass, because they could no longer recognise The Church there. They were contemptuously – I must repeat, contemptuously – brushed aside, with their objections.

Then in 1983 I went to a Novus Ordo in Latin & discovered that the English “translation” was – shall we say – inaccurate. The “Lord I am not worthy” (Domine non sum dignus etc) in the NO says …“Et sanabitur anima mea”, word-for-word with the TLM (EF). A literal translation of both is “and my soul shall be healed”. So how do we get “and I shall be healed?” [It was only later I discovered the systematic deletion of the word ‘soul’ …]

The phrase in Eucharistic prayer I, identical with the TLM in Latin, reads “and that which Thy high priest Melchisedech offered unto Thee, a holy Sacrifice, an immaculate Victim”. So how does that translate as “… and the offering of Thy priest Melchsedech”? [It was only later I discovered the systematic deletion of the concept of Expiatory Sacrifice …] Much later on, I was to discover how many essential dogmas are systematically deleted from the New Order. But on that Sunday morning …

As brotherhrolf mentions … you new generation can scarcely imagine what that did to a cradle Catholic who, even gritting his teeth through The Changes, had taken the integrity of the Hierarchy for granted?" “We’ve been swindled!” I exclaimed to myself – and later on, to others.

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In the mid-70s I heard via the papers of Archbp Lefebvre, but refused any contact with his organisation, because I still loved the Church, and he was (so the papers said) being disobedient. I had loved the Old Mass so much that I did not want to be tempted to leave the Church because of the preference.

During the late 70s & 80s, as a teacher, I saw beautiful school children being fed stones instead of bread (need I elaborate?) in my school, with the full force of the Diocese behind it. In the early 80s the problem became more personal and urgent, because “the future of the Church” was upstairs crying in the cot! So my good wife & I sat down with a highlighter and read carefully through the Vatican II documents. We found them riddled with ambiguities and gigantic loopholes. I can give you examples if you want. So I read Michael Davies’ books on Mgr Lefebvre & found there was an excellent case that he was, not only morally but legally, in canon law, in the right. Since then we have resisted determined efforts to push us trads into a corner, deny them a forum, and then accuse them of being schismatic – we are very active in our local parish, but fully support the SSPX also, and made sure that our children were protected from the disorder of the NO Mass.

Thank you again, Your Holiness, for affirming, even though 40 years after the fact, that the TLM (EF) was never abrogated.

So, readers, although we have a duty of Charity, and although some of the posters here are very intemperate (on both sides of the argument, I might add) – I have been called plenty of insulting names on this & other forums for asking perfectly civil and legitimate (if awkward) questions – do not abandon the entire forum, or the entire issue of the Traditional Life of the Church – on their account.
 
I’ve seen similar attitudes on this forum, in fact usually I make it a point not to read the Traditional Catolicism forum. There seems to be an elitist attitude, especially in the way some people insist on using Latin wherever possible, as if Traditional Catholic was an exclusive club and you have to know the language to qualify for membership. I’ve heard some traditionalists say that nothing good has come out of Rome since the Vatican II debacle. Myself, I’m in the middle. I deplore the “new age-ness” that is creeping into some parishes. But I also can’t stand the attitude that inclusive language is wrong. One poster here was scandalized because the priest said “sisters and brothers” during mass instead of “brothers and sisters”. I mean, seriously!? :rolleyes:

Sorry for the rant, this has been a pet peeve of mine for a long time.
It’s a pet peeve of mine that people come to the Traditional Catholic board & start threads with inflammatory titles such as this one.
 
Did you notice I said in my first post that his forum is specifically NOT one of the forums I’m talking about?
 
I think there is a lot of frustration and anger among Traditional Catholics that is understandable. They are persecuted by liberals and conservatives alike for simply sticking to what the Church did for 1960+ years. Everywhere they are surrounded by a seemingly foreign Church which, until recently, appeared completely oblivious to their concerns.

That said, there are some posters on Traditional forums who are immature, who lack tact, who are condescending, arrogant, etc. I think the Traditionalists have very strong arguments as to why a return to Tradition is what the Church needs for a remedy. Unfortunately some use these strong arguments as sticks to “beat” others with to feed their egos. The same way some conservative Catholics use apologetics to “beat” Proteststants with to win arguments and feel superior.

In all of this we must remember that how one argues is just as important as the argument. Unfortunately the anonymous and impersonal nature of message boards plus the limited ability to fully communicate through text alone make forums ripe for emotional responses and misunderstandings. If one is truly interested in Tradition I would read books such as those by Von Hildebrand and Michael Davies (download his excellent talks on keepthefaith.org) instead of going on message boards where often many profound posts are scattered amongst ridiculous ones.

In any case good luck and God Bless!
 
1.) The EF Mass is allowed.

2.) The OF Mass** is every bit** as beautiful as the EF Mass.
Re-phrase. "The OF Mass** could be every bit** as beautiful as the EF Mass, but in most cases it isn’t.

3.) The Anglican Use Liturgy should be the standard for the OF Mass.
 
Too often we complain about these changes, or add on’s, but if you look at the reasoning in full, you’ll see it’s for the greater good, even though it distracts many of us, they are necessary.
Add-ons to the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass are gravely illicit. No priest, bishop, layman or religious has ANY RIGHT to change the way the Mass is to be said. Additions are not necessary nor for the greater good when it comes from those without the authority to make them.

The Traditionalists who are still in Communion with Rome do have the right to say what they do. They witnessed horrible outcomes in nearly all aspects of Catholicism. Think about it: what is one of the largest Christian groups today?(lapsed Catholics)

The issue with the Church today does not necessarily have to deal with Vatican II, but for the damage from its implementation.

Here are some great reads. The first is a catholic.com article about what Vatican II actually instituted. The second is a letter by a bishop concerning the “Exorcism of the Spirit of Vatican II.”
catholic.com/thisrock/2003/0307fea1.asp

scdiocese.org/files/Pastoral_Letter_updated100809.pdf

Please read.

Also, I hope to remind Traditionalists that this Pope is of great hope to their concerns. The pendulum is swinging right now and the time of Catholic renewal is starting. The only vocations now for the most part come to the Traditional and hard orders. Read about the Institute of Christ the King, the Ann Arbor Dominicans or the Franciscan orders founded by Mother Angelica.

I pray that all good orders see such renewal and vocational blessings.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
 
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