I am a convert and I prefer the EO Mass.
I agree with BrotherHRolf, the Council Fathers did get what they expected with Vatican II. While I will not speculate about specifics, I think the reasons are manifold and the solutions complex.
I believe both Roman Rite forms have benefits, but I would prefer to see a unification and a return to a single form of the Mass.
The current Ordinary Form is clearly not going to be a source of unity, and the current Extraordinary form is intimidating to many and disliked by those who think participating at Mass means being entertained. This is not caused merely by the abuses or styles in the OF MAss, but is a reflection of a change in society. In a world where people are bombarded by media, tv, radio, iPods, internet, email, video games, no one stops to read or think anymore; they are always “doing” something. THAT is why many people are intimidated by the EF, it is quiet, slow, unpretentious and requires them to do the one thing most people have forgotten (or never learned) how to do; contemplate and reflect. THAT is participating at Mass.
However, it is the Extraordinary Form which carries with it the centuries-old expressions of reverence and faith more fully than OF, thus it must be framework upon which a unified Roman Rite must be built on.