Why are you not Catholic?

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You are correct.

With Catholicism, being a “good” Catholic is someone who has not divorced herself from the faith.

With Protestantism, however, being a “good” Protestant is someone who has decided for herself with the faith is.

And we can see the rotten fruit of the Protestant paradigm, with tens and tens of thousands of Christian denominations, each claiming that their interpretation of the Bible is the correct one.
Not sure what divorcing from the Catholic faith means, but I can say that I’ve seen much variation in beliefs within the RCC. As a friend described it to me, the Catholic church takes a ‘federal’ approach, allowing each ‘state’ to do pretty much as it pleases. So you have different orders - such as the Benedictines - or in extreme cases ‘gay’ nuns for instance.

Am I right?
 
Yes, it’s a shame that Catholics aren’t more welcoming to non-Catholics.

However, you should evaluate Catholicism on its teachings, and on whether it is the Church established by Christ, not how welcome you are made to feel.

Let me disabuse you of the idea that people are judging you.

No one cares enough to judge you about that, TC.

Again, how welcoming a community is ought not be a major criterion in determining what Church is Christ’s church.

The Westboro Baptist Church may be the most welcoming group, but that wouldn’t make it, nor its doctrines, true.
However, you should evaluate Catholicism on its teachings, and on whether it is the Church established by Christ, not how welcome you are made to feel.
So you believe that the church shouldn’t welcome in outsiders? What if I did my homework on the teachings and the first time I went I was made to feel unwelcomed and uncomfortable so I didn’t want to go back, nor be part of said “community”?
The Westboro Baptist Church may be the most welcoming group, but that wouldn’t make it, nor its doctrines, true
Pretty sure they’re not, if you’ve ever seen any of their protests. That’s a touch of a strawman.
 
Not sure what divorcing from the Catholic faith means, but I can say that I’ve seen much variation in beliefs within the RCC. As a friend described it to me, the Catholic church takes a ‘federal’ approach, allowing each ‘state’ to do pretty much as it pleases.

Am I right?
No, crai.

There is Catholicism, and we know what we are to believe because it is expressed in the “sure norm” for the Faith, our Catechism, found here:

scborromeo.org/ccc.htm

That there are folks who are Catholic but have divorced themselves from what is professed in our Catechism (divorced meaning: separated oneself from the teaching) is not sanctioned.

However, in Protestantism, the mantra is that every man gets to decide for himself what the faith is taught by Christ.
So you have different orders - such as the Benedictines
Benedictines, Dominicans, Franciscans, etc, all are bound to accept and profess everything taught in our catechism.
  • or in extreme cases ‘gay’ nuns for instance.
Not sure what you mean here. Being a gay nun is not contrary to Catholicism. We all have disordered desires, and if you couldn’t be a nun because you had a bad desire, then no one could be a nun.

Of course, gay nuns cannot act on their disordered desires…but then again, that goes for all of us.

Not just gay nuns.
 
For me it’s that I personally have found mass unwelcoming to non-Catholics, even to the point I needed to ask if I’m even welcome (as a nondenominational) at mass or if I should just wait for the wife and kids outside.

I always felt pushed to the side and am not a big fan of feeling judged while I watch the entire congregation head up for communion as I have to stay.

I’ve been close a couple of times, but I grew up believing the church as a welcoming family no matter who you are.

My .02 though.
Well I’m not sure how you could be prevented from partaking in communion/eucharist. Christ didn’t say it depended on a piece of paper or membership in a ‘denomination’. If you’re a Christian then you participate in eating the bread/wafer and wine. Whether you believe it is symbolic or transubstantiation… that’s in your own head and beyond the reach of any earthly authority.
 
So you believe that the church shouldn’t welcome in outsiders?
No, TC. I said the exact opposite of that. The Catholic Church SHOULD be more welcoming.
What if I did my homework on the teachings and the first time I went I was made to feel unwelcomed and uncomfortable so I didn’t want to go back, nor be part of said “community”?
That doesn’t change my answer one bit. You should evaluate Catholicism based on her teachings, and whether she is the Church established by Christ.

Not by how many people smiled at you at Mass.
Pretty sure they’re not, if you’ve ever seen any of their protests. That’s a touch of a strawman.
Point is: you could have the most welcoming church community preaching the most bizarre doctrines, right?

So how welcoming a church is ought to be not even a blip in the machine you use to determine what is Christ’s church.
 
Well I’m not sure how you could be prevented from partaking in communion/eucharist. Christ didn’t say it depended on a piece of paper or membership in a ‘denomination’. If you’re a Christian then you participate in eating the bread/wafer and wine. Whether you believe it is symbolic or transubstantiation… that’s in your own head and beyond the reach of any earthly authority.
This flies in the face of everything I’ve read, heard, etc… about partaking in the Eucharist.
 
Well I’m not sure how you could be prevented from partaking in communion/eucharist.
We would prevent you by letting you know that non-Catholics cannot join in our communion.

It would be a LIE to receive communion when you are…NOT in communion.
 
Well I’m not sure how you could be prevented from partaking in communion/eucharist. Christ didn’t say it depended on a piece of paper or membership in a ‘denomination’. If you’re a Christian then you participate in eating the bread/wafer and wine. Whether you believe it is symbolic or transubstantiation… that’s in your own head and beyond the reach of any earthly authority.
I suppose you are also a believer in pre-marital sex?

I’ve heard the same argument you propose by Christian folks who say they love each other and marriage is simply a piece of paper that doesn’t change anything in God’s eyes. It’s in their own head and beyond the reach of any earthly authority to declare them legitimately in love.

They believe they can have sex whenever they want, as long as they love each other.

You are agreed with this?
 
That doesn’t change my answer one bit. You should evaluate Catholicism based on her teachings, and whether she is the Church established by Christ.

Not by how many people smiled at you at Mass.

Point is: you could have the most welcoming church community preaching the most bizarre doctrines, right?

So how welcoming a church is ought to be not even a blip in the machine you use to determine what is Christ’s church.
And as I said, what if I did and it was so close that it really came down to how I found the Church exclusionary vs. inclusionary and that is something that is important to me.

I like your smile line, I should write that down. It runs a little deeper than that in my case, but I’ll definitely hold onto that one. 😃
 
No, crai.

There is Catholicism, and we know what we are to believe because it is expressed in the “sure norm” for the Faith, our Catechism, found here:

scborromeo.org/ccc.htm

That there are folks who are Catholic but have divorced themselves from what is professed in our Catechism (divorced meaning: separated oneself from the teaching) is not sanctioned.

However, in Protestantism, the mantra is that every man gets to decide for himself what the faith is taught by Christ.

Benedictines, Dominicans, Franciscans, etc, all are bound to accept and profess everything taught in our catechism.

Not sure what you mean here. Being a gay nun is not contrary to Catholicism. We all have disordered desires, and if you couldn’t be a nun because you had a bad desire, then no one could be a nun.

Of course, gay nuns cannot act on their disordered desires…but then again, that goes for all of us.

Not just gay nuns.
I’m not sure any of the protestant churches I’ve been to would ‘sanction’ a divorce from there specific teaching either - usually you would have to form a new church.

I mean openly gay nun, who actively fought the church; such as the nun described here: bluenationreview.com/new-book-tells-story-actively-pro-gay-nun-struggle-vatican/

Is she and any other nuns who follow her going to be tolerated, or do they get booted?

I’m guessing there isn’t an official list of accepted orders/organisations within the RCC?
 
And as I said, what if I did and it was so close that it really came down to how I found the Church exclusionary vs. inclusionary and that is something that is important to me.
Well, if you did that, and rejected Catholicism because people didn’t smile at you at Mass, that would be like leaving Jesus because Judas stole money from the pot.

I don’t think that would be a valid reason, do you?

I mean, it’s not a good thing that Judas stole, but I wouldn’t evaluate Christ based on Judas.
Nor would I evaluate Catholicism based on the friendly factor.
 
I’m not sure any of the protestant churches I’ve been to would ‘sanction’ a divorce from there specific teaching either -
Then they would be inconsistent, and allowing for themselves (we can “protest” Catholicism!) that which they object to in their congregation (but **you **can’t “protest”)
usually you would have to form a new church.
Where is that in the Bible?
I mean openly gay nun, who actively fought the church; such as the nun described here: bluenationreview.com/new-book-tells-story-actively-pro-gay-nun-struggle-vatican/
Is she and any other nuns who follow her going to be tolerated, or do they get booted?
Public sanctioning is not part of our modus typically.

That they have divorced themselves from the teachings of Christ is His Body are not tolerated.
I’m guessing there isn’t an official list of accepted orders/organisations within the RCC?
Firstly, the Church isn’t the RCC. It isn’t Roman. It’s universal. We are the Catholic Church, not the Roman Catholic Church. The Roman rite is just one (albeit the largest) of more than 20 rites in the CC.

You could look up an organization and see if it has received the approval of the local bishop.
 
Thanks for your prayers, Rcwitness. I appreciate it a lot.

A little more context is in order. My wife is a fiery redhead of Irish descent who sometimes lets her emotions get the best of her. However, she genuinely loves God and wants to serve Him, but she has not been drawn to Catholicism like I have been, at least as of yet. She was frightened about something she knows little about and reacted defensively out of fear of the unknown, especially since both of us are now in our 50’s and are lifelong protestants.

Hopefully, she will come around. If not, I know of some “mixed marriages” that work out just fine.

I remained calm during our exchange and did my best to not fuel the fire. I think it was a major accomplishment for her to say she will not stand in my way if I wanted to pursue Catholicism at this point in my life.
Prayers for sure for both of you. God Bless, Memaw
 
Then they would be inconsistent, and allowing for themselves (we can “protest” Catholicism!) that which they object to in their congregation (but **you **can’t “protest”)
Not sure what you mean by inconsistent? If someone has radically different views then it is better they go there own way.
Where is that in the Bible?
All over the NT. The letters are to different churches. Even in early Christendom there were different churches with different practices.
Public sanctioning is not part of our modus typically.
That they have divorced themselves from the teachings of Christ is His Body are not tolerated.
You say sanctioning isn’t the modus, and yet you say they are not tolerated… so what happens to them then?

So as long as the organisation/church/order/group at least pays lip service to the catechism and sends its money to Rome it is not ejected from the CC, is that what you are saying?
Firstly, the Church isn’t the RCC. It isn’t Roman. It’s universal. We are the Catholic Church, not the Roman Catholic Church. The Roman rite is just one (albeit the largest) of more than 20 rites in the CC.
At this point, I don’t see how this differs from fragmentation in the Protestant denominations? Eastern Rite churches don’t even report to the Pope or Vatican. Their finances and hierarchy are entirely separate - so in effect the Rites in CC are as divided as the Protestants. The Schism of a thousand years ago led to strained relations and eventually war with the Byzantines; just as Luther, Calvin, Henry VIII’s disagreements with Rome led to strained relations and eventually war.
 
This flies in the face of everything I’ve read, heard, etc… about partaking in the Eucharist.
Yes from the Catholic hierarchy’s point of view it would be a problem. But ultimately it is between you and God.
 
Nothing you will say will change my mind, about vasectomy or the fact that it is a Catholic church rule on contraception.

We have talked with out Lutheran pastor and he says we are in the clear. That should be good enough for you.

End of story.
Not really, it will come up again and again in your conscience. You know it’s not right or you wouldn’t be on here trying to convince us it is. Your Lutheran Pastor doesn’t have the final answer, God does. We can talk ourselves into almost anything if we try hard enough, right or wrong!! Prayers and God Bless, Memaw
 
Well, wake me up when the Pope states that evangelization equates to bringing lost non-Catholic souls into the confines of the Catholic Church.

I believe I will be asleep forever 🙂

I think with this Pope, we are beyond the notion of converting Protestants or others to Catholicism. And that is good. I truly believe he is a Pope who follows the spirit of Mark 9:38-39.
38 “Teacher,” said John, “we saw someone driving out demons in your name and we told him to stop, because he was not one of us.”
39 “Do not stop him,” Jesus said. “For no one who does a miracle in my name can in the next moment say anything bad about me . . .
 
Not sure what you mean by inconsistent? If someone has radically different views then it is better they go there own way.
No, it isn’t, because church is not about having the same views. It’s about being the Bod of Christ.
All over the NT. The letters are to different churches. Even in early Christendom there were different churches with different practices.
The NT letters were written to different churches in different cities. Or do you mean Paul’s references to “X and the church that is in her house?” Yes, there were house churches in large cities, but 1 Corinthians makes it very clear that they were all supposed to be one unified body, even if they met in small “cells.”
Their finances and hierarchy are entirely separate - so in effect the Rites in CC are as divided as the Protestants…
No, although they are not in fact perfectly united. (Not talking about uniformity here, but about the fact that you can have a Latin church and a Byzantine church in the same places, even competing with each other to some extent.) Or more precisely, they are as divided as very close Protestant denominations are, which fully cooperate and recognize each other’s doctrines as true.

Edwin
 
Not sure what divorcing from the Catholic faith means, but I can say that I’ve seen much variation in beliefs within the RCC. As a friend described it to me, the Catholic church takes a ‘federal’ approach, allowing each ‘state’ to do pretty much as it pleases. So you have different orders - such as the Benedictines - or in extreme cases ‘gay’ nuns for instance.

Am I right?
No your NOT right. You misunderstand what the different Orders really are. And where in the world did you come up with gay nuns for petes sake? Is there no end to things thrown at the Catholic Church either by misunderstandings or at times I think deliberately??? Maybe all Catholics are not faithful to what the Catholic Church teaches, they have a free will, but that doesn’t make them a denomination or it doesn’t make the Catholic Church wrong. Name me one other organization that has lived for over 2,000 years, been thru what the Catholic Church has come thru and still going strong, teaching what Jesus taught, (no caving into Heresy’s or secularism). That should be proof enough that the Catholic Church is protected and guided by the Holy Spirit as Jesus said it would. God Bless, Memaw
 
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