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Major_Tom
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Broadly speaking, yes, we have different roles. They fit for the majority of us. But… there’s the occassional girl who excels at soccer, besting any of the boys. Is she not keeping her role anymore?Again, we are called to have DIFFERENT roles.
My brother’s wife died in her thirties, leaving him to raise two kids, age 4 and 6. Did he learn to be a “mother”? Hell yes, he did. Did he do it as well as his late wife? No. BUt he adapted, broke out of his original “role” as a money-earning, disciplinarian father and became a pretty good “mother” too. Did he fit the role biologically? No, of course not. He can’t birth children. But he fit it in every other way. Would you rather have him stay in his “place” and not make the effort?
You’re being far too rigid with roles.