Major Tom, I pretty much agree with you. Bibleguy, thanks for being a thinker. As long as we try to be guided by God in our thinking, I believe we’ll be ok.
First, let’s give thanks that the Church is not as restrictive as she used to be: women are allowed to approach the altar, we can serve as eucharistic ministers, and read the Word at Mass. In short, we are not silenced.
Here are some thoughts: in Jesus time, women were not allowed to be rabbis. That was in fact one of the distinctions between Judaism and many pagan religions. This had largely to do with the concept of uncleanliness during one’s menstrual cycle. Jesus demonstrated in many ways that he was a good Jew. Appointing women as priests/rabbis may have discredited his position. (Some believe Mary Magdelene was not the same as the unnamed prostitute, and was actually a woman of good standing, as was Mary Martha).
Another facet was the different role women had then, at that time, particularly Jewish women, They were mothers, who stayed home, and helped their husbands. They did not have careers, nor was it considered proper for them to even travel without a proper male escort.
If Jesus came back in this day, what would he say about working women? Would he tell all of us who hold lucrative careers that we should go home to our husbands or mothers and quit being so improper? Would he chastize the men who allowed their women to work?
Jesus showed a lot of respect for women when he walked this Earth. I think if anyone was going to get chastized, it would be anyone who did not pull his/her weight in the family.(examples: The woman who refuses to work when the man is scrambling to earn money for his family, or the man who works all the time and does not contribute to the care of house and children.)
So what would Jesus say about women as priests in this time and place? The point is, we don’t know. The Papacy has tried to explain, but I am in the “weak argument” camp.
Saying that it will never change is a little strong, I think. After all, we now have girls as altar servers, and women as eucharistic ministers, so things do change. All we can do is pray that they always change in a way that reflects Jesus’ love and purpose for us.