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Ben_Bet_Beh
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I am a middle aged man and have been born and raised in a faithful Catholic family. I also have been faithful to what the Catholic Church believes and teaches to the best of my ability over the years. I have also studied what the Catholic Church believes and teaches and in theory I agree with everything that it teaches.
However, there is also an element of the Catholic Church that is quite troubling to me. Although the teachings appear sound to me, how the Catholic Church applies those teachings have been suspect. It is causing a sort of crisis of faith for me. Normally the best advice to be given would be to consult a parish priest or something to that effect. However, as a layperson, I am looking for a layperson’s perspective on how to reconcile the Church with it’s faulty members.
The Bible mentions something to the effect of ‘by their fruits you shall know them’. In my own life, having interacted with persons at my local parish and other parishes I have been associated with, there is an element of superiority by some, whiners by others, and downright deceptiveness by a few as well. Don’t get me wrong, there are also plenty of very loving Christian souls in the Catholic circles I am associated with as well. Then let’s throw in the bishops who do not conform to the Magisterium…and then a Magisterium that does little or acts too slowly to act on whatever issue is at hand.
This has gotten me questioning how throughly I have investigated my own faith. Perhaps being a cradle Catholic has been a bit of a disadvantage for me. Perhaps I have instinctively given my own church’s teachings the ‘benefit of the doubt’ and haven’t seriously considered that my personal biases haven’t allowed me to consider that the Catholic Church could be wrong about doctrine {fill in the blank}.
I know many people who are good honest people. Many of them are Catholic. Yet many are also non-practicing Catholics, Protestants, and in some cases atheists. I have to admit I know more practicing Catholics who aren’t very good Christians than non-Catholics. Admittedly however, this is possibly the result of being a regular church-goer and therefore by default will know more “bad” Catholics. When I say “bad” Catholics, I don’t mean those who do not follow the Church’s teachings from a legalistic standpoint. I mean bad in the sense of not looking out for their fellow man like you would expect to see from a Christian person.
With all this in mind, it has gotten me thinking as to how important it is for me to be a Catholic when the Catholic Church itself says that one does not need to be Catholic to be saved? Yes, the Church teaches that it is through the Church that non-Catholics can be saved. However, I wish the fruits of practicing Catholics would be clearer for me to discern if I am indeed in the true Church.
Could you all help me with some evidence that supports that the Catholic Church is far and away not only the best option for my salvation, but THE option for my salvation?
However, there is also an element of the Catholic Church that is quite troubling to me. Although the teachings appear sound to me, how the Catholic Church applies those teachings have been suspect. It is causing a sort of crisis of faith for me. Normally the best advice to be given would be to consult a parish priest or something to that effect. However, as a layperson, I am looking for a layperson’s perspective on how to reconcile the Church with it’s faulty members.
The Bible mentions something to the effect of ‘by their fruits you shall know them’. In my own life, having interacted with persons at my local parish and other parishes I have been associated with, there is an element of superiority by some, whiners by others, and downright deceptiveness by a few as well. Don’t get me wrong, there are also plenty of very loving Christian souls in the Catholic circles I am associated with as well. Then let’s throw in the bishops who do not conform to the Magisterium…and then a Magisterium that does little or acts too slowly to act on whatever issue is at hand.
This has gotten me questioning how throughly I have investigated my own faith. Perhaps being a cradle Catholic has been a bit of a disadvantage for me. Perhaps I have instinctively given my own church’s teachings the ‘benefit of the doubt’ and haven’t seriously considered that my personal biases haven’t allowed me to consider that the Catholic Church could be wrong about doctrine {fill in the blank}.
I know many people who are good honest people. Many of them are Catholic. Yet many are also non-practicing Catholics, Protestants, and in some cases atheists. I have to admit I know more practicing Catholics who aren’t very good Christians than non-Catholics. Admittedly however, this is possibly the result of being a regular church-goer and therefore by default will know more “bad” Catholics. When I say “bad” Catholics, I don’t mean those who do not follow the Church’s teachings from a legalistic standpoint. I mean bad in the sense of not looking out for their fellow man like you would expect to see from a Christian person.
With all this in mind, it has gotten me thinking as to how important it is for me to be a Catholic when the Catholic Church itself says that one does not need to be Catholic to be saved? Yes, the Church teaches that it is through the Church that non-Catholics can be saved. However, I wish the fruits of practicing Catholics would be clearer for me to discern if I am indeed in the true Church.
Could you all help me with some evidence that supports that the Catholic Church is far and away not only the best option for my salvation, but THE option for my salvation?