why can't priests marry?

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Does believing something make it true?

nope but I believe every word of the bible from Genesis to Revelation is absolute truth, fon’t you?

If I believe the moon is made of Swiss Cheese, will that make it true?

y the need for sarcasm?

What does this mean, exactly?

my faith is dependant totally on God’s word … the bible

Did you know that the Word of God is not confined to the Bible?

of course … but God had given us more than enough in the bible for us to grow in a close relationship with Him xo that one day we will enter heaven for eternity
 
If one is already married eg, protestant Pastor, and wants to convert and be a priest, exceptions have been made in the Catholic Church, so yes, a married protestant minister can become a priest, but once a single man becomes a priest that option is taken off the table.
understand…thank you:)
 
well now, if I was only baptized by immersion as an adult in a non catholic church, is that valid?
If it is a Trinitarian baptism, yes. If you were baptized as a Catholic infant, the adult baptism was not necessary.
and if not, do you then believe there is no way for me to be part of His body unless I get baptized correctly?
No, because God mysteriously joins people to His One Body, the Church in various ways. Baptism is the normative means by which we become members of Him, and therefore, of His One Body. God is not bound by the Sacrament.
it is also christian, yes?
Catholic = Christian, yes.
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Not everyone in an ecclesial comminity is a member of the Body. The body grows by “souls”: being added, not communities.
you just stated one of the main reasons I am not catholic

I do not know about you but I realiized there is no way for me to live up to, even though I try as hard as I do, the 10 commandments of the bible every day of my life.
If that is true, then you have a deficient understanding of grace. God does not ask us to do things that He will not enable us to do. We can keep His commandments by walking in the Spirit. When we fail, we can be restored by His grace.

Matt 19:16-18

16 And behold, one came up to him, saying, “Teacher, what good deed must I do, to have eternal life?” 17 And he said to him, “Why do you ask me about what is good? One there is who is good.** If you would enter life, keep the commandments.” **

John 14:15-16

15 "If you love me, you will keep my commandments.

John 14:21-22
21 He who has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me; and he who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and manifest myself to him."

John 15:10-11
10 If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love. 11 These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.

1 John 2:3-6
3 And by this we may be sure that we know him, if we keep his commandments. 4 He who says “I know him” but disobeys his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him; 5 but whoever keeps his word, in him truly love for God is perfected. By this we may be sure that we are in him: 6 he who says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked.

1 John 3:19-24

19 By this we shall know that we are of the truth, and reassure our hearts before him 20 whenever our hearts condemn us; for God is greater than our hearts, and he knows everything. 21 Beloved, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have confidence before God; 22 and we receive from him whatever we ask, because we keep his commandments and do what pleases him. 23 And this is his commandment, that we should believe in the name of his Son Jesus Christ and love one another, just as he has commanded us. 24 All who keep his commandments abide in him, and he in them.

I could go on, but these few verses make it clear that we are expected to keep His commandments.
not only those but look at Gal 5 19-21

Is there anyone you know who does not struggle with at least one of these sins … sins which will prevent one from entering heaven.
No, but struggle does not equate to sin. I think you stopped reading Rom. 7 too soon? Go on through 8:1-2. 😉
I guess from a catholic viewpoint there is no hope for me
It is clear from your posts that you have very little understanding of the Catholic faith, and a lot of misunderstanding.
I am im a difficient church, not having fullness of truth and you believe I do not follow same Jesus.
We believe you stand in the tradition of Apollos, and you probably follow as much as you know. If you continue to avoid the One Church founded by Christ once you find out your faith experience has been deficient, then it is true that you may not be saved. Outside of His Church, there is no salvation.
My friend I very much believe I found truth and hope by the preacious blood Jesus shed on the cross
This is good. Now keep going, and get in unity with the One Church founded by Him. 👍
oh my … little? I will not be able to live long enough to realize ALL the bible has to offer. what then DOES the bible mean to you?
No one is saved by the Bible.

John 5:39-41
9 You search the scriptures, because you think that in them you have eternal life; and it is they that bear witness to me; 40 yet you refuse to come to me that you may have life.

You must come to Him that you may have life. The pages of the testimony may help you get to Him, but they did not get crucified to pay the price for your sins. You can find Him fully present in His One Body, the Church.
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i stand corrected,,,, should God call me to pastor a church,.... like He has the many married pastors of the world
While you are on your last breath?

God is calling you to the Truth.
 
But what if you were called to not keep your options open and lead the RCC someday. What if God wanted you give up your options for the sake of his kingdom and join the Roman Rite what would you do then?

Do you think that your options would not be as important to you if this call came from God to join the RC order? Or do you feel that you would still need to keep open them options?

See the way I see it. If you are called to give up your life totally to God in the RCC you options as you call it are pretty limited.

BUt again what would you do if this call came to your from God?

Well the Roman Catholic Priest decided to do just that. Take the only option that he was given. Put all of his trust compeltely in Christ and answer the call.

So leaving yourself options do you see that as completely trusting God, or do you think it could just be possible you are putting a little of your own desires in the mix? Just asking
**I will respectfully ignore your “little desires” comment. I have been nothing short of respectful in my posting to all of you

I am sure being called to catholic priesthood is asking a lot for a man to give up.

If the call should come about I will then have to answer God.

The question you pose does remind me of God’s great call to Abraham

What father today, with desires to raise his son, would sacrifice his son to God should God call ?

we see in the bible Abraham was obedient to God and just as he was about to slay Issac , Gen 22:10 an angel called out to him and Issac lived … Abrahams faith was rewarded**
 
nope but I believe every word of the bible from Genesis to Revelation is absolute truth, fon’t you?
Yes, but I am sure we believe it differently.
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why the need for sarcasm?
Catholics read the bible from the point of view of those who wrote it. You read it from your own point of view.

Jesus gave His church the authority to interpret the Scriptures. You interpret them on your own authority.
my faith is dependant totally on God’s word … the bible
What you are saying is that your faith is dependent upon your own understanding of the Bible. Your perceptions differ sigficantly from those of the Apostles.
of course … but God had given us more than enough in the bible for us to grow in a close relationship with Him xo that one day we will enter heaven for eternity
If you are satisfied with this small portion of the Truth, why are you here?
 
I am sure being called to catholic priesthood is asking a lot for a man to give up.
Indeed it is. But God is asking all of us to give everything. His Kingdom is the pearl of great price, and we are to sell all that we have and buy only the field in which the treasure is hidden.

When a person fulfills the calling they are given by God, eye has not seen, nor has ear heard, what He has in store for those who love Him.
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If the call should come about I will then have to answer God.
Yes, we all do. Why not answer it now? Why wait?
The question you pose does remind me of God’s great call to Abraham

What father today, with desires to raise his son, would sacrifice his son to God should God call ?
This is a good example of how we are called to consecrate ourselves to God.

Matt 10:37-39
7 He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; 38 and he who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. 39 He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for my sake will find it.
we see in the bible Abraham was obedient to God and just as he was about to slay Issac , Gen 22:10 an angel called out to him and Issac lived … Abrahams faith was rewarded
How can you follow in Abrahams footsteps now?
 
If it is a Trinitarian baptism, yes. If you were baptized as a Catholic infant, the adult baptism was not necessary.

No, because God mysteriously joins people to His One Body, the Church in various ways. Baptism is the normative means by which we become members of Him, and therefore, of His One Body. God is not bound by the Sacrament.

Catholic = Christian, yes.

Not everyone in an ecclesial comminity is a member of the Body. The body grows by “souls”: being added, not communities.

If that is true, then you have a deficient understanding of grace. God does not ask us to do things that He will not enable us to do. We can keep His commandments by walking in the Spirit. When we fail
you just comfirmed my
point … we do fail (sin)
 
**I will respectfully ignore your “little desires” comment. I have been nothing short of respectful in my posting to all of you

I am sure being called to catholic priesthood is asking a lot for a man to give up.

If the call should come about I will then have to answer God.

The question you pose does remind me of God’s great call to Abraham

What father today, with desires to raise his son, would sacrifice his son to God should God call ?

we see in the bible Abraham was obedient to God and just as he was about to slay Issac , Gen 22:10 an angel called out to him and Issac lived … Abrahams faith was rewarded**
What are you talking about? And where is that I am asking you that putting your desires about the desire of God may be the problem here. Where is that being disrespectful.

All I said was sometimes God asks you to give up something you would choose to give it up for something God would choose for you. I do not see where I was being disrespectful here.🤷

And what does God asking Abraham to give up his Son mean that it is something Abraham desires.]

How could that even compare to desires of the flesh that a Priest is willing to give up for the kingdom of God. I do not understand you at all.:confused:
 
What are you talking about? And where is that I am asking you that putting your desires about the desire of God may be the problem here. Where is that being disrespectful.

All I said was sometimes God asks you to give up something you would choose to give it up for something God would choose for you. I do not see where I was being disrespectful here.🤷

And what does God asking Abraham to give up his Son mean that it is something Abraham desires.]

How could that even compare to desires of the flesh that a Priest is willing to give up for the kingdom of God. I do not understand you at all.:confused:
I think you hit a nerve.😉
 
**I will respectfully ignore your “little desires” comment. I have been nothing short of respectful in my posting to all of you
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I am sure being called to catholic priesthood is asking a lot for a man to give up.[/SIGN]

If the call should come about I will then have to answer God.

The question you pose does remind me of God’s great call to Abraham

What father today, with desires to raise his son, would sacrifice his son to God should God call ?

we see in the bible Abraham was obedient to God and just as he was about to slay Issac , Gen 22:10 an angel called out to him and Issac lived … Abrahams faith was rewarded**
Did Jesus not say, if you want to follow me, pick up your cross?

Choosing the priesthood and all that it entails is the cross one chooses to pick to follow Christ.

From your responses (correct me if I am misreading), I deduce you want to serve in a ministerial capacity, yet you do not want to give up the pleasures of the flesh.
It is like, you have the cake and want to eat it too.
 
Did Jesus not say, if you want to follow me, pick up your cross?

Choosing the priesthood and all that it entails is the cross one chooses to pick to follow Christ.

From your responses (correct me if I am misreading), I deduce you want to serve in a ministerial capacity, yet you do not want to give up the pleasures of the flesh.
It is like, you have the cake and want to eat it too.
Whoa there! Let us not devalue marriage as something as “pleasures of the flesh”. There are very many good Catholic priests who are married in the Latin Rite. Marriage is a vocation and sex is an integral part of marriage. Didn’t St. Paul said that its better for one to marry than burn with desire? Why are we condemning those who choose to follow St. Paul’s advice? Sex is sacred! Its part of God’s plan! You should read Theology of the Body to get this understanding.

God knows His Church. He respects the rules of the Church because He gave the keys to Peter who passed it along his successors. So God will not call a married man to the Roman Catholic priesthood. But of course there are special circumstances that maybe God will guide one to go through and still end up in the Roman Catholic priesthood whilst being married. God can also lead one to Eastern Christianity where the married do get ordained.
 
Whoa there! Let us not devalue marriage as something as “pleasures of the flesh”. There are very many good Catholic priests who are married in the Latin Rite. Marriage is a vocation and sex is an integral part of marriage. Didn’t St. Paul said that its better for one to marry than burn with desire? Why are we condemning those who choose to follow St. Paul’s advice? Sex is sacred! Its part of God’s plan! You should read Theology of the Body to get this understanding.

God knows His Church. He respects the rules of the Church because He gave the keys to Peter who passed it along his successors. So God will not call a married man to the Roman Catholic priesthood. But of course there are special circumstances that maybe God will guide one to go through and still end up in the Roman Catholic priesthood whilst being married. God can also lead one to Eastern Christianity where the married do get ordained.
I agree. A person may feel a desire for both, and God may be calling a person to choose, or may be calling a person into such a state where both are fuflilled.

I think what is most important is that the person seeking to serve God must be willing to forsake everything to follow Him. He will give back all the things He intends for us to have.
 
I agree. A person may feel a desire for both, and God may be calling a person to choose, or may be calling a person into such a state where both are fuflilled.

I think what is most important is that the person seeking to serve God must be willing to forsake everything to follow Him. He will give back all the things He intends for us to have.
That is correct! I look at our priest who’s married (I’m now a practicing Ukrainian Catholic) and he doesn’t live a life similar to most married men I know. He’s dedicated to his calling as well, and his wife too. Its a misconception by many that a married man cannot fulfill priestly duties. It is also a misconception that a priest who is married is only married for the pleasures of the flesh. How many of the Apostles do we know are married? Yet the one made greatest among them is the one we conclusively know who is married.
 
Hi folks,

I think what the OP means is why isn’t it voluntarley for priests to marry or not before they take the vow, like it is the case with deacons or in the Eastern Catholic Churches?
You answered for monks and nuns. Yes, they choose to go to a monastery and live a life in celibacy.
I really have great respect for monks and nuns. But Jesus IMO, never meant priests to be cilabate only. They are free to stay celibate or marry - but **before **the vow, if you wish so.
Also Paul writes i.e. in 1 Cor 7:7: “Yet I wish that all men were even as I myself am. However, each man has his own gift from God, one in this manner, and another in that.” (NASB)

Blessings,
Esdra
Actually the Eastern Rites have married priests,only the Latin Rite priest remain celibate. It is a discipline for priests to remain celibate. In fact, the Catholic Church forbids no one to marry. No one is required to take a vow of celibacy; those who do, do so voluntarily. They “renounce marriage” (Matt. 19:12); no one forbids it to them. Any Catholic who doesn’t wish to take such a vow doesn’t have to, and is almost always free to marry with the Church’s blessing. The Church simply elects candidates for the priesthood (or, in the Eastern rites, for the episcopacy) from among those who voluntarily renounce marriage.

But is there scriptural precedent for this practice of restricting membership in a group to those who take a voluntary vow of celibacy? Yes. Paul, writing once again to Timothy, mentions an order of widows pledged not to remarry (1 Tim 5:9-16); in particular advising: “But refuse to enroll younger widows; for when they grow wanton against Christ they desire to marry, and so they incur condemnation for having violated their first pledge” (5:11–12).
 
Priests do not marry, but married men can become priests.
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU

Actually, in my country Lebanon, a married man can be priest BUT NOT THE CONTRARY
this is the fact even if i don’t like a priest to be married!!!

God bless you all

Anna
 
Hi folks,

I think what the OP means is why isn’t it voluntarley for priests to marry or not before they take the vow, like it is the case with deacons or in the Eastern Catholic Churches?
You answered for monks and nuns. Yes, they choose to go to a monastery and live a life in celibacy.
I really have great respect for monks and nuns. But Jesus IMO, never meant priests to be cilabate only. They are free to stay celibate or marry - but **before **the vow, if you wish so.
Also Paul writes i.e. in 1 Cor 7:7: “Yet I wish that all men were even as I myself am. However, each man has his own gift from God, one in this manner, and another in that.” (NASB)

Blessings,
Esdra
Esdra because that is why God called them to the Roman Rite my dear. He asked them to be completely obedient to him and him only. When a Man takes a wife his mind is divided. Remember read ST Paul.
 
Excellent.

I’d say it is very much a question of obedience to authority.

In the Western word and tradition, especially, there has been especially in ‘modern times’’ a huge push for ‘rugged individualism’, for a kind of ‘equality’ that is more a rejection of any kind of ‘authority’ as in ‘you’re not the boss of ME’ and "I’m just as good as you therefore you have no right to tell me to do anything’.

For such a people, submission and humility are not just to be desired, they are absolutely necessary to counteract the overwhelming ‘push’ to pride and the kind of ‘false humility’ that at once says, "nobody is ‘better’ than anybody else, period’ and means by it, “therefore I am ‘as good’ therefore I can do as I please because my judgment is best!”

And for such a people, they need priests to give up the ‘good’ of marriage (and it is good) in order to fully address with single-minded service this ‘stiff necked and stubborn’ people!
 
Oh and you are correct. I did not mean it that way. But to put it another way and more simple. God will never give us more then we can handle. And God will never call us to something that we cannot handle. Rather a Priest or Christian.

But on the same Token. God can push us to the edge sometimes to show us what we can do.

Sometimes we think we are not as strong as God thinks we are, but as usual he knows what we are capable of more then ourself.

But by no means would it mean one Priest would not have the same Power then the other. There is only One Power of the Holy Spirit and they all got it. ONE Holy Spirit thats for sure.

But while one is called to one thing the other another and we another. But as we would all agree. ITS HARD!! 😉

But I agree with your point if a Priest has the Sacrament of Holy Orders thats it. They are all given the same gift to do the work God called them to do.
 
of course … but God had given us more than enough in the bible for us to grow in a close relationship with Him xo that one day we will enter heaven for eternity
yet you are willing to throw away the rest of what God gave us, the Church? You are content to have only part of it and not hunger for the whole?

Why did Jesus found a Church in the first place? If all we needed was a guidebook surely there were enough among the Apostles who could read and write who could have simply written done a concise document. They could have compiled their thoughts on paper/parchment before leaving Jerusalem. Made exact copies for everyone and off they could go preaching the Good News.

But what Jesus gave us was a teaching structure to hold to the Truth. Yes Sacred Scripture is rich in what we need to know in order to get to heaven, but the Bible alone is not a stand alone instruction and was never been a stand alone instruction until around 1600 AD nor does it claim to be.

If I gave you a book on nuclear physics, one that contained all you need to know you would you be able to harness nuclear energy? But how much better would it be to have an authoritative teacher trained by the master of all physics to guide you in how you are to read that book?
 
That is correct! I look at our priest who’s married (I’m now a practicing Ukrainian Catholic) and he doesn’t live a life similar to most married men I know. He’s dedicated to his calling as well, and his wife too. Its a misconception by many that a married man cannot fulfill priestly duties. It is also a misconception that a priest who is married is only married for the pleasures of the flesh. How many of the Apostles do we know are married? Yet the one made greatest among them is the one we conclusively know who is married.
And the Holy Scriptures attest that he was accompanied by his wife while doing ministry.👍
 
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