… Many of my loved ones are Protestant. Some of them, especially one particularly close relative, find many of Catholicism’s doctrines illogical, and I sometimes find myself getting sucked into debate over those doctrines.
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Conclusion of Debate is Necessary to Make a Vital Point
Although each case is unique depending on the individual, generally speaking, IMO, we should bring each doctrinal debate to its clear conclusion. If we end in disagreement it should be clearly stated, “You have your reasons for interpreting the Bible as you choose.
(And if he denies something
literally stated in the Bible such as “Baptism saves” 1 Peter 3:21, then you should add – “And you claim the Bible doesn’t really mean “…” even though it actually states “…”
“And I have my reasons for placing my faith in the Love of the Father, and in the Truth of the Son, and the Power of the Holy Spirit.
So in conclusion, your final authority rests in yourself, in your own judgement and in your own interpretation of Sacred Scripture whereas my faith rests in God and in His goodness, His Love, Truthfulness, and His Power.
If the debate ends with the other person not responding to your points, or in obvious failure in the other person to defend his errors, then, for his sake we must help him by bringing the debate to its conclusion. It we just leave it hanging without conclusion we miss the opportunity to truly help him. We should clearly state,
“Are you willing to ask Jesus to forgive you for promoting the error …?”
Sometime we can be tempted to be overly nice.
(I mean the word “nice” in its derogatory sense.
Word Origin and History for nice
adjective, late 13c., “foolish, stupid, senseless,” from Old French nice (12c.) “careless, clumsy; weak; poor, needy; simple, stupid, silly, foolish,” from Latin nescius “ignorant, unaware,” literally “not-knowing,” from …. (Source location: Douglas Harper, Historian.
dictionary.reference.com/browse/nice.)
Maybe we do not want to embarrass the other person, which is a good ideal, but in this case other concerns are more important. By attacking love, truth, or goodness, a person is attacking God whether he recognizes it or not. And that person, as do we all, needs God’s grace. Doctrinal division is the result of sin. The battle is more than just an intellectual disagreement. We are fighting spiritual warfare.
By getting the other person to clearly focus on the sinful aspect, even if it was unintentional and done in “good” conscience,
we have the opportunity to help him grow in grace and in the virtue of humility by asking God for forgiveness. We can also help them to escape the dangerous heresy that is common today that says that truth or that sin are only relative, and not objective.
defendingthebride.com/mc/truth.html#Absolute
In order that we ourselves are not proceeding on a path of arrogance I suggest beginning with the following stated sincerely, “I am the worst sinner of which I know. I definitely see some of my own guilt. And I could never justifiably attempt to judge someone else’s guilt.” Jeremiah 17:9
John 5:33-34
“You sent emissaries to John, and he testified to the truth.
I (Jesus) do not accept testimony from a human being, but I say this so that you may be saved.”
A lesser thing cannot be the foundation and support of something that is greater. Merely human opinion cannot authenticate what is, or what is not, the Word of God. If Sola Scriptura, Bible Alone, is a true doctrine and since the Bible itself has no inspired canon, or Table of Contents, then the most Protestants can claim is to have a fallible list of infallible books. The bedrock of all his conclusions on how to interpret Sacred Scripture and even what is Scripture, what is the Bible, is based on his own human authority or opinion.
We can know that Catholicism is true because it is a Church instituted by Christ ( **
Matthew 16:18-19**), which is infallibly guided to the correct answer for this and the other essential questions for our salvation. Our certainty is based on the Love of the Father to guide and save us, and in the truthfulness and integrity of Jesus Christ to be faithful to His Promises for His Church He built on St. Peter, and in the power of the Holy Spirit effects those promises to be true and fulfilled in spite of the sins of the Popes and Bishops, so that the infallible decrees of that Church are protected by God’s grace to be true.
At the bottom on this new page below are placed many links that answer your original question. The videos by Patrick Madrid are especially good. Maybe, others on this list can suggest which links are best.
defendingthebride.com/ch/why.html
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