Why confess forgotten mortal sins?

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If the sins we forget are forgiven anyway, why are we supposed to confess them later if we remember them? If we choose not to, is the absolution somehow taken away? I find this troublesome, because I am forever remembering old sins.
 
I think so that the priest can offer any advice you might otherwise miss out on to help you learn from the sin and grow closer to God. Plus, it makes you more aware of your sins and less likely to conveniently “forget” them in the future.

The goal isn’t so much to stop sinning. Its about developing a relationship with Christ, and breaking down the barriers to knowing and loving Him!
 
If the sins we forget are forgiven anyway, why are we supposed to confess them later if we remember them? If we choose not to, is the absolution somehow taken away? I find this troublesome, because I am forever remembering old sins.
You cannot confess a sin you do not remember, but if you do remember it later on, you must confess it because you are conscious and aware of it. One way to take care of all of the sins of our past life (the ones we do not remember) is to say at the end of Confession, “…for these and all of the sins of my past life, I am truly sorry.”
 
What about if the Priest says that you are absolved of “the sins you have confessed and all the sins of your entire life?”

Is this still necessary?
 
This is what confuses me. If ALL sins, even the forgotten ones, are forgiven, then why must we confess them later if we remember them? Aren’t they already forgiven? Are those sins suddenly unforgiven if we remember them later but do not confess them at our next confession?
 
I am in the confused boat as well. I really do forget my sins. I just have a terrible memory for that sort of thing as well as a terrible memory for when people “wrong” me–lol. People think I am very forgiving (which I am) but most of the time I am actually just forgetful.

Anyway, the priest usually says something along the lines of “for these and for all your sins I forgive you in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit…” So I figure I am forgiven for those sins I forgot. Sometimes I might remember them again, but thinking I am already forgiven, I usually quickly forget them again.
 
That’s the thing…I know that these sins are forgiven even if we can’t remember them as long as we try to make a good confession, so why then are we required to confess old sins that we remember later? It doesn’t make sense.
 
From what I read… FWIF…

Among the reasons why is that they are required to be precept be submitted to the judgement of the priest, and to be given a proper punishment or penance. They have only been forgiven indirectly, they have not been submitted to judgement directly. Though they are absolved as long as all the normal conditions required for absolution were met, they must be submitted to judgment by God’s representative, the priest.

It’s in many ways the same reason one has to confess sins at all, when one might be forgiven already by perfect contrition.

I think the neglect of the ‘penance’ side of the sacrament of penance as well as the ‘judgement’ part that is a particularly common flaw nowadays is what leads to this question sometimes. Every sin is due penance. Every sin must be judged. Penance must be done. A part of it is given by the priest. The rest we have to do too, still.

Submitting mortal sins for judgement is beneficial to the soul because it gains the benefits of grace of a more direct repentance of that sin.

The sin also may be one that requires the priest to exercise some of his other duties, such as lifting excommunication. And often the pastoral advice given for such sins is very helpful. So too it may be that the devil loses some of the power he has over a person when sins are admitted and confessed directly.

‘There remains now the precept of Our Lord to submit all mortal sins to the power of the keys in the Sacrament of Penance; these forgotten sins have not been confessed as yet, nor has the priest pronounced any direct sentence upon them. Though these sins have been remitted indirectly, there still remains the obligation ex jure divino of confessing them directly to the judge in the tribunal of penance when they occur to the mind again, not because these sins have been revived, but because the neglect of God’s command in the matter would involve a new sin. This holds of all mortal sins inculpably omitted, of their species, of all circumstances changing the species, as well as of mortal sins, confessed indeed, but to a priest without jurisdiction who either bona fide or for reasonable motives gave direct absolution of the sins for which he had faculties, thereby remitting the others indirectly.’

‘If the penitent, through forgetfulness or for some lawful reason, without any blame attaching to him, omits to mention something which is necessary for the integrity of the confession, he is bound to disclose it on the next occasion; for, by the decision of the Council of Trent, each and every mortal sin of which one is conscious must be mentioned, that it. may be directly remitted; hence if sins occur to the mind which have not yet been confessed, they must be submitted to the power of the keys. Thus Alexander VII condemned the proposition: Sins which have been forgotten or omitted in confession on account of instant danger to life or for any other reason, need not be mentioned in the next confession (cf. Prop. 11 damn.).’

'In the Sacrament of Penance the remission of sins is effected by the absolution; but sins which have not been mentioned do not directly fall under the absolution since, properly speaking, they are unaffected by the sentence pronounced by a judge who knew nothing about them. Nevertheless the absolution pronounced rite et valide over certain sins is effectual because it is sacramental and because in God’s providence no remission of sin takes place without an influx of sanctifying grace into the soul which presents no obex. Now sanctifying grace removes the whole reatus culpce mortalis and restores a man to perfect friendship with God and to his claim in the heavenly kingdom. Thus valid absolution produces sanctifying grace in the soul and consequently the remission of all mortal sins staining the soul, even those inculpably forgotten. ’

Theory and Practice of the Confessional
 
This is what confuses me. If ALL sins, even the forgotten ones, are forgiven, then why must we confess them later if we remember them? Aren’t they already forgiven? Are those sins suddenly unforgiven if we remember them later but do not confess them at our next confession?
It is not 100% required to confess sins once forgotten if you have already gone to Confession. All your sins are forgiven in Confession, even those you haven’t mentioned unless you intentionally withheld information from the Confessor. It just helps to have a clear conscience when you approach the Eucharist during Mass. People are doubtful and if we remember something, it’s best to confess it. I hope this helps.
 
Catholic are obliged to confess all their mortal sins in number and kind (and say a circumstance that changes the sin…like one murdered someone…and that someone was your husband!). (see Canon Law and Catechism)

This is required for absolution.

Now what happens if one honestly forgets a mortal sin?? or one forgets it was 10 people that one murdered instead of 1 …or something essential? Well we assume you were there to confess…that you were contrite and amended …etc so these mortal sins would be absolved “indirectly” at the time of the absolution. For either ALL mortal sins are forgiven or NONE. One can not be half alive and half dead. One is either alive (true life!) or dead.

Now if one is unrepentant of some mortal sin…or if one intentionally HIDES etc a mortal sin…say support of abortion…or contraception, or lust or something…then ones sins are NOT absolved at all. And one can have the further mortal sin of sacrilege (there can be few exceptions…like one is dying and is not able…etc) Such would need to be confessed along with all of the other mortal sins since the last good confession.

Jesus gave the Church the authority to bind and loose sins…but this power requires usually the knowing of what those sins are…hence confession (how would one know if one should loose…or hold bound the sins…etc) also due to the seriousness of mortal sins…they break communion not only with God…but they greatly effect the Church…so it is reconciliation not only with God but with his Church.

If someone remembers then a mortal sin that was not hidden and/or unrepentant of …but honestly forgotten…they still need to confess that mortal sin in the next confession…for it needs to be “confessed directly” …submitted to the keys…one still needs to “confess it” for it is a mortal sin.

But those with scruples need to take care not to scruple in this area…but talk with ones confessor…for they can fear unreasonably that they did not confess correctly etc…or want to keep reconfessing old sins which were already confessed etc. Though of course even a person with scruples can actually forget…or hide etc a mortal sin at some time…but ordinarily they will be certain of this…hence they are told often not to confess a forgotten sin unless they are certain it was not confessed. But each person is different. And some need to “clean house” when they return to the Church or other times…their confessor can guide them. He can come to know and thus judge in the case of his penitent. Confession is meant to free when one is honestly confessing…not bind someone in knots of scruples 🙂

(other readers…remember those with scruples are often in a different boat … we are obliged to confess all mortal sins…it is just that often one with scruples with get troubled by all sorts of doubts or fear mortal sin where there is none…etc…so what they may want to confess…can just be scruples…hence the confessor needs to judge.)
 
If the sins we forget are forgiven anyway, why are we supposed to confess them later if we remember them? If we choose not to, is the absolution somehow taken away? I find this troublesome, because I am forever remembering old sins.
1- I would start with the assumption that a person goes to confession with the intention of confessing all the mortal sins because the individual is experiencing contrition.

2- If you go to confession and you forget some mortal sins you are absolved for all the sins that you have committed, even the forgotten ones. There is no conditional confession.

3- The need of confessing the mortal sins that you have forgotten as well as the requirement of performing the penance that has been assigned are a different topic. They are disciplines of the Church an as such have been established for our own good, and not following is a sin by itself.

The disciplines are imposed on us to teach us to be honest with our examination of conscience and contrition. In the case of a lot of people (including myself) it would be easier to forget mortal sins and avoid penance because of the embarrassment and the feeling of guilt associated with such sins. However, such forgetfulness would undermine our conscience instead of strengthening and forming it, and that is why the Church is helping us with such requirements. The Church is using these tools to help us to achieve holiness.

BTW I think that the requirement of confessing the forgotten mortal sin is as old as the Council of Trent.
 
It is not 100% required to confess sins once forgotten if you have already gone to Confession. All your sins are forgiven in Confession, even those you haven’t mentioned unless you intentionally withheld information from the Confessor. It just helps to have a clear conscience when you approach the Eucharist during Mass. People are doubtful and if we remember something, it’s best to confess it. I hope this helps.
I’m sorry. I gave incorrect information. I read from a reliable Catholic source that the penitent, once he/she remembers a mortal sin, it is required to confess. Here is the direct quote:
Objection 1. It would seem that a general confession does not suffice to blot out forgotten mortal sins. For there is no necessity to confess again a sin which has been blotted out by confession. If, therefore, forgotten sins were forgiven by a general confession, there would be no need to confess them when they are called to mind.
Reply to Objection 1. In sacramental confession, not only is absolution required, but also the judgment of the priest who imposes satisfaction is awaited. Wherefore although the latter has given absolution, nevertheless the penitent is bound to confess in order to supply what was wanting to the sacramental confession.
So, it basically states that you must confess mortal sins when, once forgotten, they are remembered later on. They are essentially forgiven, but must be confessed nonetheless. It is venial sins that are not required to be confessed after they have been remembered. Sorry! 😊

Here is the link if you are interested in reading more:

newadvent.org/summa/5010.htm#article5
 
Isn’t the summa theologica of Thomas Aquinas private revelation?
 
The sacrament of Reconciliation is always an “all or none” thing; you’re either forgiven for all of your sins or not, not just the ones you remember.

Still, as has been said, it’s a good idea to mention a sin, mortal or venial at one’s next opportune confession, if only for the guidance a priest can give you to help avoid that sin in the future.
 
The sacrament of Reconciliation is always an “all or none” thing; you’re either forgiven for all of your sins or not, not just the ones you remember.

Still, as has been said, it’s a good idea to mention a sin, mortal or venial at one’s next opportune confession, if only for the guidance a priest can give you to help avoid that sin in the future.
It is not just a good idea in terms of mortal sin…it is an obligation to confess them…and if one forgets one …to confess it in the next confession.

This is an old thread…and actually we are not to revive old threads.
 
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